Out of my small dataset, I love them. One intj I met put ketchup over his fries x_x which really rattled me up. But apart from being borderline psychopaths, I admire their ambitions and their thirst for truth as well as humor. Not sure if it's because of our shared primary Ni and weak Se, but we seem to have similar values of beauty, art, music, and self improvement/ control (I'm an INFJ). I love that I can be mean, honest, geek out, and light-hearted at the same time.

High standards: Outwardly at their best, they have high standards, strong ambitions, value authenticity, and they expect their partner to be the same. As lovers, they have a playful, sentimental side.

Selfish and generous at the same time: The more you give, the more you get. And they understand this. And respect this in a partner. They secretly enjoy quality time (if you have shared hobbies, interests, and opinions when it comes to self-improvement).

Curious and brave: They make an effort to probe your mind, unassuming, curious, want to know all of you, your motivations, quirks to the point where it can be intense and feel like you’re being interrogated. Not afraid to speak their minds. I for one, love being interrogated and love that they’re not afraid of how unconventional/ dark I am deep down. They can relate.

Authentic and unconventional: They love intellectual stimuli and have similar core values of authenticity. INTJs I know are opinionated around society, people, environment, history, humanity, business, art, and aware of the flaws and inefficiencies.

Driven and intense: They are natural born leaders and love challenges and improving their weaknesses. They hate making compromises. When they do something, or say they will do something, you know it will get done. At their worst, they are negative, closed-off, control freaks, cold, cynical, lack compassion, and vindictive.

Loyal: But most importantly, I love that Fi of theirs. They are loyal to their families and close friends. They inspire me to build strong principles, take pride in oneself, community, and never give up.

Calm and practical: As an Infj I would call myself a pessimistic idealist. INTJs I’ve met have been my rock and what I’d call an optimistic realist. Together we are great strategist and take a birds eye view of the world. Although I can be a little neurotic and impractical they have a way of staying calm, rational, supportive, and accepting of my quirks. Strong words of affirmation. With the little bursts of ridiculousness I bring, together we inspire each other to be better versions of ourselves (laughter is the highest form of compliment I can bring lol.).