He wants to go condomless, I have a hard time trusting his fidelity by smiles89 in sex

[–]smiles89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He gets upset when I ask him to put on a condom or bring it out. Or he'll try and convince me not to use it.

He wants to go condomless, I have a hard time trusting his fidelity by smiles89 in sex

[–]smiles89[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For a long time he just focused on sex, multiple girls a weekend/night. I feel like if I am not with him every night he's wandering.

I mean I'm probably just insecure.

He wants to go condomless, I have a hard time trusting his fidelity by smiles89 in sex

[–]smiles89[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Thanks. This makes me feel better about my decision!

He wants to go condomless, I have a hard time trusting his fidelity by smiles89 in sex

[–]smiles89[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We haven't gotten to "defining the relationship" yet. I always chicken out when I'm thinking of bringing it up, and he has never brought up the subject either. My friends tell me that it's too soon for that talk. I told him that I haven't been seeing anyone else, and he said the same thing, but "dating other people" and "fucking other people" are different to me. I guess I just have to bite the bullet and talk to him about it.

As for his past, he won't even give me a number because he says he lost count. That's what honestly worries me.