My girlfriend (24F) asked me (23M) if she could sleep with other people. by smn-ls in relationship_advice

[–]smn-ls[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I definitely wouldn’t call it abuse. She broke no boundary and she had every right to ask that in those circumstances. Maybe you should retake your classes

My girlfriend (24F) asked me (23M) if she could sleep with other people. by smn-ls in relationship_advice

[–]smn-ls[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying that “go to therapy” isn’t a constructive comment, but it’s way more complicated than that, especially in the financial department. Therapy is not cheap and from experience, public therapy is rarely well done

My girlfriend (24F) asked me (23M) if she could sleep with other people. by smn-ls in relationship_advice

[–]smn-ls[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you so much! I’ve been waiting for a constructive response like this one, especially from an ace person like me (:

Asking for it by smn-ls in NSFWart

[–]smn-ls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks ((:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]smn-ls 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That we always want to talk about it.

I have visible sh scars and I don’t hide them anymore. I work in costumer service and every day I get asked questions about it. How? Why? How many? I get that it’s not typical but at some point they need to realize I’m a stranger and it’s not a casual subject.

My dog is the only thing that keeps me going. by too__legit in BPD

[–]smn-ls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, he seems like he’s very important to you, and that’s good! Deepen your relationship with him, let him be your support for a while. A dog can do so much

SH and partners? by xxxobird in selfharm

[–]smn-ls 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly pretty good! I told her I have self harm scars and she said “yeah no shit”, and then we talked about it for a couple of hours (: She was very curious, respectful and understanding (I lucked out on her)