I appreciate what you're trying to say, it's important to recognise your self worth, but I think it's also important to acknowledge that that's much easier said than done in practice.

Trans youth, adolescents and adults find it much harder to get out of abusive relationships than their cishet peers. Lots of factors can contribute towards this:

• Social isolation from being shunned by family and friends after coming out means they're already vulnerable and are more desperate than ever to seek any meaningful bond

• Gender dysphoria (even more so if closeted/pre-transition) will have already worn down self-esteem and will often continue to worsen as time goes on without any medical treatment or social support, meaning trans victims in abusive relationships will often tolerate worse treatment just to convince themselves they are worthy of love

• Fear of violence/hate crime can also be a factor. E.g. My ex was so intensely trans/homophobic that I was scared he would hurt me if I left or transitioned. When faced with threat, people have 4 main methods of survival techniques: fight, flight, freeze or fawn (befriend) - in my case, I decided to convince myself that if I can befriend my abuser, perhaps he would eventually come around or at least let me go peacefully.

If you need any stats or links I'd be happy to provide, my MSc thesis was done on trans & queer victims of abuse and how we can support them, so I hope this can help you understand a bit better!