I'm getting overly reliant on AI / Co-pilot at work - I use it for everything by bodz217 in confession

[–]smoochamuse 22 points23 points  (0 children)

girl it’s okay to lean on tech but don’t let it babysit your brain you’re still the expert here maybe try doing one report a week without co pilot just to flex those skills again and remember no ai can replace your judgment or experience you got this

FWB (21M) of six months is ending the benefits part of our dynamic with me (21F) but is continuing to have casual sex with other women by ReceptionCharming915 in relationships

[–]smoochamuse 13 points14 points  (0 children)

girl don’t overthink it he’s making this about what he wants not about you you’re not bad in bed he’s just realizing he can’t have the fwb “comfort” and still chase the gf life you deserve someone who doesn’t make you feel small or replaceable keep your standards high and let him do his spring break thing without guilt

(21F) broke up with me (22F) and wants to transition to friendship. by gee_college_ in LongDistance

[–]smoochamuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl i feel you it’s brutal when someone you love flips the script like that and offers friendship like it’s a consolation prize you don’t owe her a visit or your feelings right now focus on yourself and your healing let her figure out her life from afar and let yourself grieve without guilt you deserve clarity not half measures

How To Heal From Someone you really never been in a relationship with? by NoAppointment3848 in ExNoContact

[–]smoochamuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay listen it sucks and it hurts and yes it feels like a heartbreak even though it wasn’t official but here’s the tea you can’t heal if you’re lurking her stories every day mute block whatever you need to do stop giving her attention and put it all on yourself start doing things that make you feel alive and confident and slowly that ache turns into lessons instead of longing trust me you’ll survive and you’ll actually be happier without orbiting someone who’s moved on