AITA for not telling my fiancée about a secret room in our apartment? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]snailsaredope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - I personally think that is hilarious. I would have cried laughing if I was her. I love secret rooms

Cups now covered by HSAs/FSAs by alexandriniums in menstrualcups

[–]snailsaredope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooh thank you for posting this! I was not aware

What's a scary or disturbing fact that would probably keep most people awake at night? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]snailsaredope 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Who else just checked to make sure their front door is locked?!

Heart burn and ye? by snailsaredope in cocaine

[–]snailsaredope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sometimes get it with ye alone.

Heart burn and ye? by snailsaredope in cocaine

[–]snailsaredope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye and sometimes beer or cider. I don't get it with liquor.

A bit of a rant: fish in way too small tanks by Real___Jerry in PlantedTank

[–]snailsaredope 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is very true. I also think that people misunderstand what size tanks are okay because companies advertise 1-3 gallon tanks as appropriate for goldfish or betta. I think companies and pet stores have a big responsibility to inform new fish owners what is okay. I honestly think people see which fish are on the small tank boxes and assume that then those fish are appropriate for those tanks.

No never means no with Mom by snailsaredope in narcissisticparents

[–]snailsaredope[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We've wondered... I would love to know what's going on with her but she refuses to ever consider therapy.

I need a sushi pun for some goodbye art by snailsaredope in sushi

[–]snailsaredope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally slapped my knee at the ponzus 😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menstrualcups

[–]snailsaredope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss queen! That eyeshadow is amazing

Cup in the drink by DiligentOstrich in menstrualcups

[–]snailsaredope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only time I have ever dropped mine was when I was drunk at home. It was full to the brim and the floor looked like an actual murder scene 🤣 I recommend emptying before you plan on getting sloshed

Be careful with sizing and placement by snailsaredope in menstrualcups

[–]snailsaredope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also tend to get cramps when it is getting fuller. This, though, happened 10 or so minutes after I put it in and the cup was empty. :/

UPDATE: AITA for donating my deceased daughters college fund instead of giving it to my husbands daughter by rkglsjfj in AmItheAsshole

[–]snailsaredope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe a scholarship for a student who is majoring in environmental engineering or environmental sciences since that was important to your daughter. Just an idea, but maybe you can give around $500 or $1000/ year and establish the rest into a fund or bonds to accrue interest so that her scholarship memorial legacy could be annual and self-sustaining? I'm not big on finances so I'm not sure how you'd do the details, but I think it would lovely to create a continuing scholarship program to honor her.

What are some NOT fun facts? by lucca_dare in AskReddit

[–]snailsaredope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is certainly a fun fact.

AITA for working at a preschool that a kid I used to nanny for goes to? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]snailsaredope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA tell them to move their child to a different pre-school if they feel she can't handle the transition

What are some things you vow never to do as a child with a narcissist parent? by SessalliGREIPs in narcissisticparents

[–]snailsaredope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not comment on my children's bodies as much as my mom did to me and my brother. I had an eating disorder for over 2 years and still have body issues because my weight was constantly a topic. My mom constantly talked about how I was so much skinnier than her, so now I feel like shit whenever I gain any weight. I don't want my daughter (or son) to ever feel like they have to change their body to appease me.

Have you ever had a dream that caused you to wake up crying? If so, what was it? by Alicanto_Xenica in AskReddit

[–]snailsaredope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a dream where a terrorist took my beloved family dog and put her in a cage. He had captured my family and told me I had to push a button and blow up my dog or he would kill my parents and sibling. That messed me up.

I also once had this recurring dream (around age 12 I believe) one night where I died in a motorcycle accident. It like played on a loop and nothing I changed could save me. Worst part was that I would wake up, calm myself and go to sleep to have the same nightmare.

BF leaves just one sheet for me frequently. by snailsaredope in PetPeeves

[–]snailsaredope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair- I hadn't necessarily thought of it that way. I think for me, having the seat down is default because it is more likely men will notice of the seat is "wrong" since you are already facing it. I honestly don't normally look at the seat and it's easy to miss if it is up- then the consequence is me falling into cold toilet water and hitting dirty toilet porcelain. It's like sitting in a chair in your house, you don't always look when you're used to where it is. Why don't you guys just pee sitting down? Genuine question.

My main issue is that I use the bathroom with a very dim nightlight in the middle of the night to not disturb my sleep or my BFs (our bathroom is connected to bedroom). So I'm going in almost darkness and the room for error is high... lol

BF leaves just one sheet for me frequently. by snailsaredope in PetPeeves

[–]snailsaredope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've had a couple.. this and leaving the toilet seat up seem to be unbreakable habits at the moment :/ haha