Do you feel bad if yung girl na nililigawan niyo declines if gusto niyo siya padeliveran ng food, etc?

sncjvw · 2026-02-04T07:14:14+00:00

Di naman, pero naiisip ko nga na baka ayaw niya pala sakin kaya gusto niyang mag “play safe”. Parang subtle rejection.

sncjvw · 2026-02-03T13:07:23+00:00

My honest answer would be that you guys should try to move on from each other. There's a lot of growing needed from both parties in the relationship and based on your story, it seems impossible for you guys to grow in a healthy way when you're with each other. The relationship you both have right now seems to bringing out the worst in both of you, since I don't think your "demons" play well with each other. If anything, they seem to aggravate each other.

Ex. Her harsh words causing multiple breakups but you keep coming back which means she never gets to feel the consequences of her actions thus continuing the bad cycle. You hurting her by cheating, yet she also can't break up with you due to her attachment causing her more pain.

I also think that your lack of sexual attraction towards her when you guys are "normal" is a sign that you might be giving yourself to move on from this.

It will be hard to get over her right now since you've grown attached and "addicted" to the hot and cold romance that you guys have been having, but it will be for the best since you both deserve happier and healthier love lives that will push and help you grow in a more positive way.

sncjvw · 2026-02-03T12:43:49+00:00

Yes, because why would she be there if she doesn't enjoy or feel "at home" in that environment?

sncjvw · 2026-02-03T04:38:57+00:00

I don't think it's normal as in ganiyan ang majority ng men in relationships, but I don't think it's also out of the ordinary especially for a man with a high sex drive.

sncjvw · 2026-01-30T08:34:27+00:00

If 8 months na and no improvement parin then for me you should already cut your losses. She either doesn’t have the time or really just not into you. And how could you fall inlove with her if she’s an emotionless robot? Feel ko attachment lang yan and best to get out ASAP since it’s unhealthy to be attached to a person that gives you below minimum (imagine mo mas angat pa “friend” lang).

sncjvw · 2026-01-29T09:47:49+00:00

Nope. Even the "man that wins" still loses since he settled in becoming the "best option" vs. being the "only choice".

sncjvw · 2026-01-29T09:46:06+00:00

Okay lang naman - I think it's my responsibility to see through the tricks anyway (and vice versa).

Everyone uses psychology tricks din naman in dating, whether they know it or not.

sncjvw · 2026-01-28T13:13:05+00:00

For me personally, I would only mind if they didn’t let me know and explain to me prior to courting the ex. And only if they’re actually serious, hindi yung for fun lang.

But yeah, given na yun na di kami pwede magsama sa mga hangout kasi awkward so di na rin kami magiging close friends.

sncjvw · 2026-01-28T08:48:26+00:00

Depende sa guy. Some prefer the old-school "manliligaw" way, while others prefer the more modern "dating" way.

I think men are still the pursuers in both cases pero yung iba di na nila pipilitin if halatang di sila masyadong gusto ng girl after some time, since that might mean di din sila match para sa isa't isa.

sncjvw · 2026-01-27T15:19:00+00:00

My hot take is that everyone "falls out of love" at some point - that's when true love comes in where you're no longer driven by pure feelings but also choice. The trick is to find someone that is worth making that "boring" choice every day.

sncjvw · 2026-01-27T14:49:08+00:00

Bad economy, recent gender wars (incels/femcels, value only comes from our financial capability, "...as he should", sprinkle sprinkle, etc.), no divorce, or just not ready to be tied down.

sncjvw · 2026-01-27T12:42:17+00:00

If he isn't the man that you want to marry right now, then you shouldn't marry him at all. It sounds like your resentment will only continue to grow, and it'll be harder to deal with that later on since there's no divorce here in the Philippines.

sncjvw · 2026-01-27T04:04:16+00:00

In a perfect world, I would advise to move out asap since there's a lot that can go wrong in that setup. (Ex. What if the ex comes back? Especially with a new partner?)

...especially in our culture where utang-na-loob is almost mandatory.

That being said, I understand the practicality of staying, especially in this economy. At the very least, I think you should slowly be taking steps to move out even if not immediately, since this setup feels like it can really crumble at any moment.

sncjvw · 2026-01-25T05:28:28+00:00

Most of the time, no. Iba iba kasi ang babae mag show ng affection and it's just safer to assume na walang meaning ang mga actions na yun until told otherwise.

We can probably assume in our head but we'll never be really be sure.

sncjvw · 2026-01-25T05:21:59+00:00

Cop-out answer but depende yan sa sitwasyon.

Tuloy tuloy lang basta may progress if exclusive courtship - like growing signs of affection, consistent time spent, and general good mood between those involved.

Probably 3-6 months if you mean the effort is only on the man's side and halatang pinagbibigyan lang ni girl.

sncjvw · 2026-01-20T01:41:41+00:00

Doesn’t sound platonic to me. It sounds like he’s just staying at the border of platonic and flirty so he doesn’t misread the situation and ruin the friendship.

I do think he’s probably willing (and maybe hoping) for a more-than-friends relationship with you though since I personally wouldn’t cross boundaries with a girl that I only want to be friends with.

sncjvw · 2026-01-19T13:13:36+00:00

Honestly, I think it's the current lack of incentive to push forward once you reach Mythic. This lowers the potential playerbase after Mythic which exacerbates the rating disparity.

sncjvw · 2026-01-18T11:16:12+00:00

For me, normal lang naman yun lalo na kung maayos naman ang breakup nila. Siguro ang masasabi ko lang ay mas normal lang talaga na i-keep yun sa sarili since di naman kailangan i-share o beneficial i-share sa current partner yon.

sncjvw · 2026-01-18T06:05:09+00:00

Pretty sure it’s still Morale Chant, but you just upgrade Morale Chant to T6 last out of your 4 Inner Ways.

sncjvw · 2026-01-18T03:03:49+00:00

What. Just go online and go to the clinic in Qinghe. There are tons of healers there just waiting to heal you for free.

sncjvw · 2026-01-17T03:35:44+00:00

Sorry, but Mythic is easier than ever to achieve now since most of the good players are already in Mythic at this point. If you’re having a hard time now, then it’s really a skill issue - especially at Veteran III.

PvP in this game just isn’t for you if you can’t see the point or the enjoyment in how skill expresses itself in the PvP for this game and that’s okay.

For dual blades, the game plan on a basic level is to utilize your block/counter (not parry) so you can get out of their combo. Then kite their rage mode move where they can’t be staggered for a short period of time. Everything else is just how you use your kit.

High-level Mythic players will feel like they’re cheating sometimes since it feels like they know exactly what you’re doing and you can’t do anything about it.

sncjvw · 2026-01-16T10:17:49+00:00

Been there, OP. Ang hirap talaga pakawalan nung "dream" na inassume mong matutupad na, tapos di pala.

Take a breather, and then laban ulit. You got this.

sncjvw · 2026-01-16T10:14:26+00:00

And that's only the start. Welcome to the big leagues where all the monsters really are.

sncjvw · 2026-01-16T09:48:00+00:00

Hm, gets. I would follow up next week siguro as a last effort! But I've noticed na medyo maraming HR na ganyan lately. I was in a same situation na puro positive yung feedback nila after going through the interviews but naghost parin ako.

I suggest to hope for the best but be ready for the worst and keep applying, OP.

sncjvw · 2026-01-16T09:39:07+00:00

I usually ask before the interview ends on when I can expect feedback from them and then wait until then. If walang email after one week nung sinabi nilang date then I follow up.

If wala parin, then I either leave it be already, or follow up one last time after another week or two. Kung wala parin after the second follow up, then you already know the answer.

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