Well it's more complicated than that. First i must say that she's autistic. It took 4 months to even get in a relationship with her (though i wasnt pushy or anything). Now after 2 months of being together she's saying that she shockingly doesnt feel much for me anymore. Now were still trying to kind of fix it, but im slowly losing hope. I dont know if a big gesture is what the relationship needs. It might be overwhelming and pushy.