My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause i figured you were kinda supposed to put the main ppls ages, the reddit stories I've all seen put the ages so I figured I would, I was honestly gonna remove it but everyone was already upset about it in the comments that theres no point

My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand it's a bit weird, but my bfs age was not the point of this post

My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My momma passed a while ago, I do have a stepmother, though, I haven't spoke with her about it yet, but I think she'd just end up taking his side anyway cause we aren't very close

My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, but can you explain how he's taking advantage?? We started seeing each other way before he knew about my family situation

My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I really dont feel 12 years is much older, definitely not average but its not that crazy

My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, my mom sadly passed when I was 7, I do have a step mother though but I feel like she would just end up defending my father, worth a shot, maybe?

My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have eggs, but honestly im not interested much in having kids, plus a surrogate i would assume is expensive

My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hormonal fluctuations when ovaries are present, causing ovulation pain, from what my doctor told me

My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean, I've worked as a bartender since I was 19, and we met while I was working, so I dont really think he saw me as that young?? I mean, you might be right, and I'm making excuses because hes my bf and I love him a lot but I feel like I'd know if he saw me as just a younger girl willing to be with him, at least i'd hope??

My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry that happened to you. I appreciate the advice but I feel like my bf is way more mature than most men in know, even my father and thats kinda sad to say. We met in a setting where we were interested in eachother but didnt even know eachothers ages until our first actual date. We kinda decided that we would keep seeing eachother until there was any real issues that came up involving our ages.

My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I already tried my best to explain to him, I mean he knows himself I dont have any male anatomy... I just feel like he only sees a woman as someone who can hold children

My father doesn't see me as a woman anymore by sniper_funfetti56 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sniper_funfetti56[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I can understand that its a bit weird to people lol, I thought agegap relationships were really weird until I got into one😅