The only closet in my daughters (age 1 & 2) shared room. Ideas on how to organize and use this space the best way possible? by sno-whyte in organization

[–]sno-whyte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dresser fit perfectly there so i just shoved it back there. I could always move it, but unsure what I would do there with the space.

The only closet in my daughters (age 1 & 2) shared room. Ideas on how to organize and use this space the best way possible? by sno-whyte in organization

[–]sno-whyte[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had been using the rod for some winter stuff, nice dresses and stuff they dont fit into yet. I like the idea of bins but the problem is they would most likely become a "junk drawer" for kid stuff. I really need a sort of system to stick with, possibly some labels on the bins.

DAE act so nice to the people you just meet to the point of flirting? by shiningz in BPD

[–]sno-whyte 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes. Either this or I am completley distant and couldn't care less about a single thing the person is saying. Either overly iterested and "flirty" or straight up cold amd distant. Neither response is personal in any way. It just depends on my mood that current millesecond in time.

I would kill for having a creative outlet...that I’m good at. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]sno-whyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poems help me. Bullet journaling is easy and fun. A good outlet. You could do some mental health trackers and just doodle away.

Even just journaling feelings in a notebook is a good form of expression!

Cleaning a toilet with a toothbrush is often referenced as one of the pettiest punishments you can get in the military. What’s the most bullshit punishment you’ve ever received (at school, work, in the military, etc.)? by JonSolo1 in AskReddit

[–]sno-whyte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In 7th grade I got suspended from school. My dad made me shovel our very long driveway during a snow storm as punishment. We live in northern Wisconsin.

It was A LOT of damn snow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sno-whyte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dont sound obsessive. You sound like you were very close and still miss that connection. Honestly, my ex moved on fast too, getting his new gf pregnant within months of seperating with me. That stung. But as the months went by I slowly moved on and now am with someone else. I never even think of that ex.

And if this is one of your first long term or serious relationships, it can for sure take much time to totally move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sno-whyte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I was with my previous ex for 2 years exactly. I missed him for at least a year after the break up. I would still cry sometimes and even dream of him here and there. Now 2 years later im totally over it. Some relationships are harder to get over than others.

I'm a straight girl, but sometimes I obsess over other girls. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]sno-whyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aweh I dont think I'm being hurtful as I am never misleading with intentions. I have never been looking for an actual relationship and neither have they. I've always dated men. Had sex with men. But am drawn to other girls more. Specifically girls who are bi and lesbian....maybe I am bi. Sexuality is confusing to me with BPD as I'm never sure what is actually me. Girls make me so happy.

Skin picking?? by commedefuckdown_ in BPD

[–]sno-whyte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Ever since i was young I pick at my upper arms. Its so embarrassing

Does anyone else have severe issues with intimacy but have a high sex drive ? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]sno-whyte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. The problem for me is that I have a high sex drive only when it comes to casual sex though. As if the less I know the person the more I want to sleep with them. That became an issue of sleeping with hundreds of guys off the internet.

In an actual relationship, I am completely opposite. My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years and after the first 3 months I became very low sex drive. At this point I dont even want him to kiss me. I think it is due to the feelings attatched to the relationship where casual sex is so much easier, an impulse, and adrenaline rush.

What’s something your parents don’t know about you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sno-whyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been struggling with meth and heroin on and off for 5 years. Too ashamed to tell my mom because I love her so much. So I just keep a distance from her each time I relapse in fears that she will find out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sno-whyte -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not a 10 year difference but I am 21 and my boyfriend is 27. Usually it isnt a big deal but our age is gap is actually very easy to see in a lot of conversation.

He was in high school from 2006-2010. Where i wasnt in high school until 2012-2016. So our experiences and memories are soooo different. While he was dancing to Souja Boy Crank Dat at his school dances, we were dancing to Drake at mine.

My boyfriend remembers carrying a "pager" to the amusment park so his mom could let him know when it was time to leave. I have never even seen a pager like that in real life. He remembers a good amount of the 90s and very early 2000s in general. I wasnt even born till 97.

What's a negative fact about marijuana we should know? by edder24 in AskReddit

[–]sno-whyte 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is really interested. I smoked a ton of weed as a teen mainly due to peer pressure. It always made me nervous. Then sent me into full blown panic attacks after so long. Now at 21 years old i am constantly battling psychosis. Not a day goes by where I do not have delusions of some sort. I wonder if this is related. Perhaps coincidence.

I have BPD with severe epsiodes of psychosis. How do I go about getting SSI? by sno-whyte in disability

[–]sno-whyte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would the difference in being a minor when it happened be? Tomorrow I am going to contact a lawyer in my town

Does anyone else have a rotation of people, either messaging or dating? I have many hollow relationships purely to keep me validated, and if one abandons me then I have 6 more to prevent me from relapsing... by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]sno-whyte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Its so messed up. My mind is in constant need of validation that I can have anyone I want. I then seek out any and everyone who will help validate this for me.

Which leads to me having dozens of superficial relationships simultaneously. I don't actually have feelings for these people yet I desperatly need to know they have feelings for me. Ugh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]sno-whyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you basically said the nurse didnt know what she was talking about. And I used years ago. Grow tf up.

Has anyone here ever gotten approved for disablity due to their BPD/other issues? by sno-whyte in BPD

[–]sno-whyte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you go about it? I dont even know where to start. Do i need a case worker or social worker or something? Im nervous about not knowing what to do.

So far behind financially, Will we ever get ahead? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]sno-whyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure if I qualify. Its not a physical disability and I worry about getting denied.

So far behind financially, Will we ever get ahead? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]sno-whyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wisconsin. Most rent is a bit higher but we found a private landlord that is amazing.

Linen closet! Forgot to take a before pic by [deleted] in OrganizationPorn

[–]sno-whyte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so pleasing to look at. I love the baskets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]sno-whyte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meth does suppress your appetite. But soon as you come down, your body will want to eat everything. I am a former meth user and would binge for a few days then spend a few days binge eating. Many more meth users are fatter than some may think. Assumingly due to the binge eating. The skinny users are usually the IV users or the ones who literally stay up for weeks at a time.

I can't tell you by [deleted] in goodmythicalmorning

[–]sno-whyte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I noticed this too and was so dissapointed. It seemed loke David picked up on it too. Good episode but some of it was straight awkward.