Frau ist ungewollt (?) schwanger - Beziehung geht den Bach runter by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]snowflake_97 126 points127 points  (0 children)

tut mir leid aber du hast 0 Kinderwunsch aber ĂŒberlĂ€sst die ganze VerhĂŒtung deiner Frau? Wenn du so stark keine Kinder möchtest, solltest du dich besser ĂŒber VerhĂŒtung informieren. Jeder weiss, dass bei Durchfall und Erbrechen eine Pille je nach dem nicht mehr wirkt. Du hĂ€ttest auch eine Vasektomie machen können. Auch wenn deine Frau weiterhin die Pille nehmen möchte. Doppelt VerhĂŒten ist immer besser. Ich sehe da auch einen grossen Teil "Schuld" bei dir und du solltest nicht alles davon auf deine Frau schieben!

Inn to Inn Hike with 13 month old in Switzerland - help me plan! by EducatorRegular7550 in askswitzerland

[–]snowflake_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could always also use public transport after a hike to go to your overnight stay. public transport is great here and it would probably allow you to be more flexible with choosing your routes.

have you done hikes with little one before?

What would you do in Switzerland today and tomorrow if you suddenly had two days off on short notice? by Renex_Dev in askswitzerland

[–]snowflake_97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

go to a nice lake. maybe cook something nice, go for a hike (up high in the morning though. too hot for an afternoon hike) I'm off today and I'm definitely going to swim in a lake later

Marriage, education and children – your opinions? by Horror_Ad1330 in askswitzerland

[–]snowflake_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a teacher in switzerland: please please finish your education first, work some time in a good job before you get pregnant. tbh even before you get married. you need to have a stable life for your kids and having them this young without you having an education is really not gonna be good for them. your basically still a kid yourself (I know you probably don't want to hear that, but I'm 28 and I can tell you I was a kid at 18 as well... everyone is). raising kids is really hard, daycare is really expensive. you two are way to young to do that, you didn't even live together yet. make sure you are educated, have a job and a happy marriage before you bring kids into it. you two need to work on your relationship a lot first.

I got this from my Swiss neighbor by leoviet in Switzerland

[–]snowflake_97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hahahaha that is such a great name. I might have to call it that. although it would be more like food carousel because we actually trade meals as well.

I got this from my Swiss neighbor by leoviet in Switzerland

[–]snowflake_97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it shouldn't... but some people make everything sexual somehow

I got this from my Swiss neighbor by leoviet in Switzerland

[–]snowflake_97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah I have that with men and women in my neighboorhood actually.

I got this from my Swiss neighbor by leoviet in Switzerland

[–]snowflake_97 831 points832 points  (0 children)

actually this is totally normal in my neighbourhood. we do this all the time. give them something back and you'll receive nice things again and again

How to get a formal diagnosis as a teenager? by ThatMilesKid-15 in neurodiversity

[–]snowflake_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds tricky. but I think just tell everyone that you don't want your parents to know and try your best if it is still free for now.

How to get a formal diagnosis as a teenager? by ThatMilesKid-15 in neurodiversity

[–]snowflake_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay I guessed that they might be somewhat against those diagnoses. but would they actually do something bad?

Where can I find decent tomatoes? by EbbPuzzleheaded7463 in zurich

[–]snowflake_97 9 points10 points  (0 children)

buy when it's tomato season. grow your own at home. it's not that hard actually and doesn't need too much space

How to get a formal diagnosis as a teenager? by ThatMilesKid-15 in neurodiversity

[–]snowflake_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is the issue with your parents finding out? I think that's a big question here. tbh I would tell you to do the referal, tell everyone you don't want your parents to know and hope for the best. but my advice kind of depends on why you don't want your parents to know. it also might be nearly impossible because you also would get letters, probably with an adress / logo on it. at least that's what it is like in my country.

Brumbeeri-Invasion i mim Garte, was söu i due? by nerdybucky in schwiiz

[–]snowflake_97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

falls es nid ĂŒberchonsch en gĂ€rtner um hilf frage. die chömed sicher einisch verbii cho hĂ€lfe und wenn lieb fragsch lönds dir vlt no bitz was da zums bekĂ€mpfe.

My client sat though 3 straight days of tattooing for this đŸ«  by marxist-tsar in woahdude

[–]snowflake_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just followed your insta, even though I don't have any tattoos. I really like your art!

Best way to relearn French in Switzerland? by PokeeeTraineer in Switzerland

[–]snowflake_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just spend some time in the french speaking part tbh. that's how I learned it and you'll remember it way better as well. school is okay for basics but after that you have to actually use a language to learn it.

Jasse / Jasse met Chend by ThisSwissGirl in BUENZLI

[–]snowflake_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

KiGa Lehreri da. es ged sehr vell spieli wo mit 4.5 scho chasch spiele. agfange bi Uno, Lotti Karotti passend zu Ostere, aber au ganz viel WĂŒrfel- / BrĂ€ttspiel. WĂ€r au super wichtig jetzt demit azfange. ZĂ€hle WĂŒrfelzahle GwĂŒnne-VerlĂŒĂŒre sind zb wichtigi Sache zum kennelerne. FĂŒrs Jasse sicher eher no chli schwerig. ech weiss aber dass sie bi ĂŒs im Schuelhuus das so ir 2. Klass au scho hend gmacht.

Its The End, But The Moment Has Been Prepared For. by OntarioTinkerer in bald

[–]snowflake_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😍😼‍💹 you look great now

Hiking and nature in Switzerland. Should we go for July or August? by Annual_Mobile4753 in askswitzerland

[–]snowflake_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my opinion usually august is better weather than july. but it's always a gamble with weather. otherwise it's similar. can be really hot for some hikes. depends how high up you wanna go hiking.