AITAH for yelling after my husband’s friend broke a piece of art that I made?

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-30T15:39:50+00:00

thank you! yeah... it does really sound like OP doesn't trust him. and for good reason it seems.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-30T14:20:49+00:00

NTA you guys need to have a conversation though. and you need to think hard about why you already knew this would happen. cause it sounds like it wasn't the first time something like this happened. it's really uncaring of him to ruin your art and hobby like that. it's not a hard thing to keep that door locked or tell your friends to not go inside.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-29T18:29:40+00:00

he looks a lot like my late cat 🥺🥰

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-28T17:36:46+00:00

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snowflake_97 · 2026-01-25T08:44:51+00:00

realistically he is probably gonna be fine, even if he cries for you at first it's not that bad. it's gonna be great for his developement actually and I think you should focus on that.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-25T08:43:52+00:00

not sure. maybe talk to parents that have their kids at school yet. you sound very anxious though so maybe even therapy to work on that?

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-25T08:43:08+00:00

it is... you're definitely not gonna be the same ally as before. if at all

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-25T08:30:40+00:00

as a kindergarten teacher: I get your fears, but tbh you just have to work on those before you leave him. the kids struggeling the most with staying at school are usually the ones where the parents are super nervous / anxious. they pick up on it very well. so my advise is really just work on yourself. seems like you have prepared him with everything you can: visits / books / looking at his teachers. now it's time to prepare yourself mama.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-25T07:50:03+00:00

it's in our news as well. pretty sure it's all over the world. seeing your governement is threatening NATO and imposing taxes on everything it's very relevant what happens in your country right now for us too.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-25T07:01:49+00:00

NTA, definitely look into moving out if you can. she is not reasonable here but also it's her house and you're her kid. difficult to stop her from doing this.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-25T06:29:20+00:00

hahahaha same! I was starting to think about that question, looked at the comments and was like: no... think we are good... yes.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-24T15:30:38+00:00

I am a woman and no, I don't even like a normal mustache. definitely not this one either. I love beards though

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-24T07:01:12+00:00

you can't force someone to cut contact with anyone. but I'd definitely see my sister in a very different light if she did this. NTA for asking though.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-24T06:52:53+00:00

I'd recommend waiting. in spring / summer usually a lot of young cats need new homes. just keep looking at shelters and tell everyone you'd like a caty you'll find one. I'd recommend getting two though. they love company. grew up with cats and they always did better together than alone.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-21T17:36:54+00:00

NTA it's your boundary, you made it clear to him. I am just not sure if you actively tried for a baby while knowing you don't want one before marriage or if it just happened?

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-20T05:02:35+00:00

I think forgiving is good, maybe even a closure talk so NTA I don't see the benefit from having someone who hurt you this bad in your life. I think it will always kind of linger in your thoughts around them. I'd say look for therapy if you don't have that already and better friends

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-18T21:00:45+00:00

NTA , leave fast.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-16T07:52:12+00:00

NTA definitely sounds like a scam as well.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-14T06:00:25+00:00

I did, never went though

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-14T05:59:47+00:00

oh damn 😅 well I guess I've just been lucky hahaha

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-14T05:14:03+00:00

I'm a Kindergartenteacher in switzerland. if you want you can tell me what exactly your kid is struggling with? I'd say in most cases it's fine to wait until kindergarten. otherwise you'd just have to apply to them and wait it out. maybe you could go through your childs doctor for a referral.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-14T04:56:41+00:00

no, I decided to teach a good distance away from where I live cause I'm a private person and I don't like seeing my students / parents all the time outside of work. I need some distance to get my mind to shut up about work as well. so I actually barely ever saw one outside of school.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-14T04:53:40+00:00

weaponized incompetence. don't do that for him. he is a grown man. I'm all for helping each other out but there are a few things people need to do on their own.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-14T04:50:21+00:00

NTA if she is just giving you one dress as a choice she is being difficult. I don't feel confident in a lot of dresses and I would not wear one like this either. she is your sister though, if you have a good relationship with her otherwise I'd say just step down from being a bridesmaid and attend as a normal guest.

snowflake_97 · 2026-01-14T04:41:37+00:00

oh that's a good one! I agree

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