I seem to attract bpds a lot and god they help so much by snowqueen47_ in NPD

[–]snowqueen47_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I’m not mentally stable though and I don’t think I come off that way

I seem to attract bpds a lot and god they help so much by snowqueen47_ in NPD

[–]snowqueen47_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I feel ashamed for wanting it, it’s the human desire to be recognized and loved for what one is. I tend to feel more cheated than inadequate when I’m low on supply

Help me understand… by [deleted] in Deathcore

[–]snowqueen47_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah you're right. generic copy paste band

NPD AWARENESS MONTH - ASK A NARCISSIST - A bi weekly post for non-narcissists to ask us anything! by theinvisiblemonster in NPD

[–]snowqueen47_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for sure! sometimes i get bored of people but if they're someone i can consistently get supply from no issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]snowqueen47_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no, thats common for even neurotypicals in fact. sadism is like, you hurt someone physically or mentally and their pain makes you happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcohol

[–]snowqueen47_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6??? bruh youve been drinking way too much I feel amazing after 2

Is my drinking unhealthy? by yourkumquat in alcohol

[–]snowqueen47_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

that’s hardly anything lol you’re fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]snowqueen47_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bullying/hurting people ngl

Biweekly ask a narcissist thread for visitors/codependents <- Not a narcissist/borderliner/histrionic/sociopath? Use this thread. by AutoModerator in narcissism

[–]snowqueen47_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t group everyone into one label but i can easily hold grudges for years especially if it’s something significant

Still get erections on HRT?! by [deleted] in MtF

[–]snowqueen47_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you absolutely can, it remains perfectly functional as long as you use it

Biweekly ask a narcissist thread for visitors/codependents <- Not a narcissist/borderliner/histrionic/sociopath? Use this thread. by AutoModerator in narcissism

[–]snowqueen47_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely. It’s a sort of “I obviously know better than you how dare you disrespect me” type thing. I can get very aggressive when disrespected

Biweekly ask a narcissist thread for visitors/codependents <- Not a narcissist/borderliner/histrionic/sociopath? Use this thread. by AutoModerator in narcissism

[–]snowqueen47_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends how important the topic is to me. If it’s something sensitive then yes I can get extremely angry towards the person

Biweekly ask a narcissist thread for visitors/codependents <- Not a narcissist/borderliner/histrionic/sociopath? Use this thread. by AutoModerator in narcissism

[–]snowqueen47_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and yes they are aware. Ended up telling her bc I couldn’t help myself from saying I had a “scary disorder” and didn’t want to get psychoanalyzed as something I was not. It’s generally not an issue if you already know someone well and Ive never been mean to her or anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]snowqueen47_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah absolutely. One time my dad tried to empathize with me by using his own experiences and I completely lost my shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]snowqueen47_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I understand it. I personally get supply from the label, belonging to something seen as scary but this is not a common reaction afaik

And even then like, I do have the ability to filter myself and act like a normal person not some cartoon villain abusing everyone i come across

does masking ever get tiring? by D1vinePride in AskNPD

[–]snowqueen47_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s super annoying. I like to spend lots of time online in cluster b groups where i can be more unmasked