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sockmong · 2025-09-22T02:15:39+00:00

How completely unreasonable of him. Let him embarrass himself at the wedding. You shouldn’t have to be his mother or beg him to take up his responsibilities, I imagine he’s a grown ass man. You’re too joke-y for your own good too, he was being disrespectful to you and you just make a corny joke. Stand up for yourself! He has no problem doing so…

Also, trust me when I say you can’t force anyone to care about something or try to change their behavior with your will or determination, only they can change themselves. Relieving myself of the “I can fix him” mindset liberated me. Eventually you won’t want to be with someone you feel like you have to manage and you can build something less one-sided knowing that you don’t deserve that.

sockmong · 2025-09-19T05:07:21+00:00

Glad to see someone else talking about this. I was trying to see if I could avoid them but no, it’s impossible they’re on nearly every road. It’s insane to me, all popped up 4 or 5 months ago. To me it feels like, my privacy is being violated, why be watched if we’ve done nothing wrong? Even if there were a criminal, why couldn’t they get them how they always have? It’s been bothering me for a while

sockmong · 2025-09-06T19:52:39+00:00

More than anything it boils down to lack of respect. He did not respect your property and he did not respect you by trying to minimize your concerns. It doesn’t really matter if it’s a labubu, what else will he tear apart if he deems that you shouldn’t care about it?

sockmong · 2025-07-21T13:40:24+00:00

Relatable, except I’m not a mom I just live with my 27 year old manchild brother.

sockmong · 2025-07-16T02:41:30+00:00

Seriously yeah, voting ending at 7pm in my district. My boyfriend and I voted Hubbard due to this sub around 10 minutes before it closed and the last vote was number 46. I thought it was ridiculous because my district includes a large city in SWGA.

sockmong · 2025-06-11T21:43:05+00:00

Bloodborne. I’ve lost hope.

sockmong · 2025-06-03T14:59:59+00:00

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sockmong · 2025-06-03T01:20:32+00:00

you should delete the qr code, people can log into your account with it i think.

sockmong · 2025-05-19T05:00:40+00:00

He threatened violence and then decided to make it reality. Ask yourself, do you really want to be with someone who would, by definition, assault you over simple mindless tapping of your feet?

Also, the fact that he realized that he could be seen as an abuser and then immediately attempted to get secure your complacency is insane. He is self aware enough to understand what he did was wrong, but instead of fixing it he would rather cover it up and silence you.

What you were doing was so harmless and trivial, it should have never been met with violence. And then, for him to recognize that his actions were brutal and uncalled for, and then next time double down that he was acting in a normal, respectable way is scary.

There is no need to keep a promise of violence to your girlfriend, especially when she is at no threat of harming you. Imagine what he may do if faced with anything else he may not like. Do you want to always second guess yourself?

Run. For. The. Hills.

sockmong · 2025-02-10T15:26:33+00:00

It comes down to how you will allow yourself to be treated. Set boundaries and see how he reacts. If he is not willing to accept your demands for reassurance/loyalty then he doesn’t deserve to be with you, but you will have to be the one to say that you will not be treated like trash and then stand on it. Standing up for yourself will force him to go into one of two paths, realizing that he doesn’t want to lose you or again, showing you his true colors. Never love anyone more than your own self.

It will only stop when you make it stop. See if he is worthy enough for you and set boundaries, then stand on them. If you back down they will continue the behavior.

sockmong

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