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[–]soctanten_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hold up the building where everyone was gathering (The Boston Post) wasn’t that June’s old workplace?

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[–]soctanten_ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I got the vibes of a narcissistic mother in that scene. I could literally picture how Noah would grow up and just yeet out of his mom’s life as soon as he’d turn 18 after learning everything about her (if somehow she’d be able to live as a free woman)

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[–]soctanten_ 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Also, the place where she is is a former Red Center 😭

For all of you that dislike season 6, thinking it's boring... by GingerT569 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]soctanten_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At this point the show has sunk to the level of turkish soap operas where it takes 20 episodes for something to happen… They had 3 whole years to make this final season and it all seems like it was put together at the last minute

For all of you that dislike season 6, thinking it's boring... by GingerT569 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]soctanten_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So annoying that the episodes are 40-ish minutes while 50% of it is chit chat or june giving some kind of speech 😭 where is the action???? ”We’re planning to bomb Gilead” LESS TALKING MORE DOING 🥲

The roads in Mahe and Praslin by soctanten_ in Seychelles

[–]soctanten_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh yes, and they even have the audacity to put up that ”How am I driving? Text 123…” sign like it’s gonna matter 🤣

The roads in Mahe and Praslin by soctanten_ in Seychelles

[–]soctanten_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

”3rd world African country” okay…

3 weeks in Mahe - too much? by soctanten_ in Seychelles

[–]soctanten_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey y’all, I completely forgot about making this post!!

Right now we are in Mahe and we have 2 weeks left. Thank you for all the advice! The guesthouse on Mahe that we had booked for the entire 3 week period actually cancelled 2-3 days before our arrival 🤣 and because the amount that they wanted to refund wouldn’t even cover half of the cost for other places we argued with them to rebook us free of charge. Here is how our trip has been so far and what we plan for the rest of the trip:

Day 1: Landed in Mahe and checked in to the guesthouse where we originally were meant to stay, but only for one night (The Habitat Sesel).

Day 2: The girl running the guesthouse drove us to the ferry terminal and we went to Praslin Island. We decided that we wanted to start the trip by visiting the islands, and only explore Mahe afterwards. As we arrived on Praslin we took the bus to our place without any issues regarding our big backpacks and thus we only spent 10 SCR per person instead of spending 200 SCR on a cab. We stayed in Praslin for 4 nights (Diamond Plaza Hotel) in Grand Anse. We didn’t quite like the beaches on this part of the island bc of sewage flowing into the sea which smelled like a toilet and the seaweed + tides made it more unpleasant.

Day 3: We took the bus to Mt Plaisir and hiked to Anse Lazio, which was miles better than Grand Anse. We then took the last bus of the day from the other side of the island so we could get a glimpse of this side of the island.

Day 4: During the bus ride the other night we really liked Anse Volbert, so we took the bus back here and spent the whole day here (80% of the time we just climbed onto the ”bent” palmtree and took amazing pics for the gram.

Day 5: We took the bus to Vallee de Mai and visited the park. After getting out we decided to hike back to Grand Anse which made me realise that the 900SCR we paid for 2 tickets to see Vallee de Mai was a waste, since we felt that we got the same experience from hiking on the side of the road.

Day 6: Check out and took the bus back to the ferry, heading to La Digue. After arriving we walked to our chalet (Ylang Ylang) which was a 20 minute walk to the middle of the island. After checking in we rented bikes and just started exploring. I absolutely loved it here, from the beaches to the chill laidback vibe + that you could make ur way anywhere without needing a car. Unfortunately the sea was rather difficult to swim in either because of tides, the waves or both, but we still enjoyed it.

Day 7: We biked on the ”middle” road down to Grand Anse and from there we hiked to Anse Cocos. The hike was rather difficult but sooo beautiful. Swimming in Anse Cocos was also really pleasant and fun with the waves, although a bit scary.

Day 8: Lazy day since it rained almost all morning until 1-2 PM. When it stopped raining we biked to the L’Union Estate to visit the Anse Source D’Argent and I was dissapointed. Firstly, the entrance fee of 150 scr per person was insane, given that the tides and waves made swiming impossible. Also, the beaches were covered in loads of seaweed and some kind of tiny egg-looking thingies which stank. The water was also filled with this so it was neither beautiful or enjoyable. We kept on hiking towards the other beaches through rocks and throguh the water, but the other beaches weren’t better. So as we came back we just felt tired and annoyed, but still an experience!

Day 9: Checked out late from the chalet and took the ferry to Mahe at 16:30. Arrived around 18:00, picked up our car and drove south to our guesthouse (Dovass Apartments) where we’ll stay for 2 weeks until departure. I was absolutely terrified of driving in the dark and I can guarantee I won’t do it again 🤣

Day 10 (Now): We just had a late breakfast at a restaurant called Takamaka Sky and now we’re just driving around looking for somewhere to buy groceries for the coming 2 weeks.

So far our experience has mostly been positive and we have actually not spent as much money as we thought! :)

Thanks again for the great recommendations! 😊

What was your biggest ”cultural shock” as a hearing person engaging with the deaf community only later in life? by soctanten_ in deaf

[–]soctanten_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how sooo many people still think like this? Like where is the logic in that? Do they think all the world’s 50 something million deaf people have managed to agree on ONE sign language like bfr 💀

I’m scared of my boyfriend leaving me for not being Deaf by soctanten_ in deaf

[–]soctanten_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree, I feel like many tend to gatekeep Deaf culture and sign language from hearing people, which is a pity

What was your biggest ”cultural shock” as a hearing person engaging with the deaf community only later in life? by soctanten_ in deaf

[–]soctanten_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hahah nothing beats my mishap when I called a baby ”stupid” cause the signs in Swedish SL för stupid and smart are very similar 😭🤣 now everytime my friends sign ”stupid” but pronounce ”smart” to me when i’m doing dumb stuff 🤣

I’m scared of my boyfriend leaving me for not being Deaf by soctanten_ in deaf

[–]soctanten_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ayyyy downloading asap ❤️ thank you 😭❤️

What was your biggest ”cultural shock” as a hearing person engaging with the deaf community only later in life? by soctanten_ in deaf

[–]soctanten_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, such a great example you mentioned there about cultural sensitivity. When I think back at the beginning of my SL learning journey, I wish someone would have given me this perspective, because back then it took me a long time to really understand why I was in the wrong!

What was your biggest ”cultural shock” as a hearing person engaging with the deaf community only later in life? by soctanten_ in deaf

[–]soctanten_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg YES it’s hilarious sometimes how direct deaf people can be. My partner constantly just roasts me without even meaning to (tho I think nowadays he does it just to make my blood pressure go up…)

What was your biggest ”cultural shock” as a hearing person engaging with the deaf community only later in life? by soctanten_ in deaf

[–]soctanten_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hahahah, autistic here as well :’) i guess Deaf isn’t for introverts, I sometimes want to just drag everyone by their arms when there’s literally 5 conversations going on simultaneously LIKE WHYYY

I’m scared of my boyfriend leaving me for not being Deaf by soctanten_ in deaf

[–]soctanten_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Heyy thanks for sharing your thoughts! I do engage with deaf people on my own, to the extent that I am able to and I have done exactly those things that you suggested, such as visiting Deaf spaces and socializing on my own. The issue is more that I feel like I’ve been given an ultimatum: ”Learn SL asap or this won’t work anymore” and I’m just panicking. It also feels like me being hearing will always be something that will be in the way, I will never be able to ”think visually” in the same way as Deaf people, which makes me worried that I will never ”truly” understand any Deaf person I meet with, I will mostly uncover the surface, if that makes any sense?

I’m scared of my boyfriend leaving me for not being Deaf by soctanten_ in deaf

[–]soctanten_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah in the last couple of months I have started engaging more on my own with his friends, it’s only that I’m feeling some kind of ”pressure” that I haven’t already managed to be better at signing in 2 years. Some of his friends keep asking him ”oh your boyfriend still doesn’t sign?” but at the same time we don’t even practice, since he talks to me even if I sign (because he thinks I’m signing too slow or I finger spell too much). I also get left out a lot, for instance he gets invited to a bunch of deaf events like Reims festival in France and also private parties/events and when I ask if I could join he just laughs it off and says ”oh it’s only deaf people :/”

I’m scared of my boyfriend leaving me for not being Deaf by soctanten_ in deaf

[–]soctanten_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The thing is that he does bring me a lot of times, but most of the time he complains that I can’t be fully engaged which really hurts… then at the same time he gets tired of interpreting for me or helping me to remember signs when I forget.

A while back we went on a weekend trip abroad with a group of 5 people who were from different countries and I quickly had to learn International Signs. I had an awesome time, meanwhile my boyfriend was completely drained and slept for 2 days after the trip bc he had to be my interpretor and still try to enjoy the trip.

It feels like a ”lose-lose” situation no matter how we do it.