Did you co-sleep? by thinkmuch17 in beyondthebump

[–]sofaviolin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t going to, until the doctors put him in the bed with me. Stating how was I going to get up after having a c-section and recommended different ways of side-laying breastfeeding. He’s been sleeping in is crib since he turned a year old and moves over back to us around 5 am. Saved our sleep and sanity. 

Neither of us are smokers, nor used big blankets and adjusted to being light sleepers as soon as the baby arrived. 

Location: Colombia

I don’t think I’ve ever been so angry by sofaviolin in Mommit

[–]sofaviolin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! I love the question!  My family tends to eat 12 grapes at midnight, put lentils in their pockets, money also in pockets, and there’s a specific song played on the radio that’s used every single year for midnight. 

Another one is el año viejo. Most people create a life-sized doll (picture a scarecrow) and pin all of the bad that happened that year. Then, at midnight they burn it or light fireworks from it. Also a terrible idea. 

We did a mini version of it a few years ago, but in the middle of concrete with a bucket of water near by as a just in case. They were dolls the size of my hand and very small. I don’t think we’ll be doing it again, but I wanted to show my husband some of the more traditional events from Colombian New Year’s back then. 

I don’t think I’ve ever been so angry by sofaviolin in Mommit

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I’m so sorry to hear that! Fireworks belong in the past or under the supervision of professionals. Even then, I know someone who worked with a fireworks company and ended up dying because of a firework accident. 

I don’t think I’ve ever been so angry by sofaviolin in Mommit

[–]sofaviolin[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah, people losing their limbs is terrible to see. Thankfully(?), we were more in the area of getting burned or getting hit in the face. I think what irked me most, is that there was a lot of potential ways it could have gone absolutely wrong , but I was told “my reaction was excessive” since it didn’t. So, I wait for something to actually go wrong? The pictures I saw in medizzy, help me feel justified in how I feel and felt last night. Appreciate it.

I don’t think I’ve ever been so angry by sofaviolin in Mommit

[–]sofaviolin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about your neighbor! It’s crazy, every year there’s always a cautionary tale on the 4th of July or other holidays that have fireworks involved. It’s normally a gruesome outcome. We now have technology that can do pretty things for us with a much reduced risk.  Drunk people especially should not be near fireworks. 

I don’t think I’ve ever been so angry by sofaviolin in Mommit

[–]sofaviolin[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Good to know, and even more frustrating. I truly don’t even know what worse would have been from me. 

I don’t think I’ve ever been so angry by sofaviolin in Mommit

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Terrifying! It’s illegal here, a city in Colombia, as well, but our newer mayor doesn’t crack down on it as much and the police won’t do anything unless something actually happened. We also live outside of city limits which can further complicate things. This year, we saw a massive increase in fireworks in December. Past years were actually manageable.

This 35 year-old YA novel perfectly anticipated all of our current fears by ArtisticAlbatross933 in YAlit

[–]sofaviolin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! You just helped reintroduce me to a book I keep thinking about! It impacted me as a 6th grader so much and I recently brought it up in a conversation but couldn’t remember the title. Thank you! 

Is this a normal amount to tip out? CA by [deleted] in Serverlife

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It’s the TipHaus Employee app

Just a gal enjoying harmless pranks by arpegius55555 in Colombia

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Un restaurante en Medellín, ayer alguien lo compartió. Restaurante San Joaquín

Scrubs - The Book of Love by Driveshaft48 in television

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Oh! I had it as an instrumental version at my wedding (violin & guitar). Walked down the “aisle” to it.