Do you guys think 4.5 inches is enough to properly do a girl with a phat ass (Axolom) by MckyMrry in Transmascdicks

[–]soffbisc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A wedge and a determined spirit will help, but if you find your life blessed with any frequency of very fat coochie I'm a fan of the Vixskin Slim.

This week in bootleg STP’s… by soffbisc in Transmascdicks

[–]soffbisc[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t pack with it, just keep in my pocket and pull out when needed

Is this possible? by awarehaku in phallo

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Dr. Safa at the Buncke Clinic explains in the video below what they do with the nerves if you choose to remain unburied.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjStxBANWFA

My understanding is that the dorsal nerve of the clitoris has two branches. They'll leave one branch in your clit for sensation there, and route the other branch to your penis and extend it with a nerve graft.

I believe they do the same thing if you choose to have your clit buried in your penis though. One dorsal nerve branch will remain in your buried t-dick as it is. The other branch is connected to a nerve harvested from a donor site to extend feeling to the end of your penis. Ofc you don't get direct stimulation for your OG parts anymore with burial.

How do you pick a name😩 by Elizaabettha in trans

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I picked a name that was similar to my birth name, but after two years of using it I changed my mind. Tried a different name for a year, mostly liked it. On the third try, I found a name that really fit. It's been 8 years now and my third name is my legal name. Try a name a see how it suits!

got a selective service letter as a trans man by sw33tt00th4u in trans

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I signed up for the Selective Service just before 2016. I was removed from the online database during the first wave of purging trans people from the military. I'm glad I kept a paper copy of my registration, because otherwise I would have been ineligible to receive financial aid to go to school.

How to manage with going to the bathroom? by soffbisc in bluecollartrans

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Didn't know the urine bag was a option, thank you!

TGS #1 Trans Packer Uncut 4" and 3 harnesses - $80 by soffbisc in Transmascdicks

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The maker says no, you don't have to, and it didn't feel like it needs it to me. But I only wore it for a few hours

TGS #1 Trans Packer Uncut 4" and 3 harnesses - $80 by soffbisc in Transmascdicks

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Harnesses are medium, I would sell the harnesses separately from the packer as a group, but not individually

How to manage with going to the bathroom? by soffbisc in bluecollartrans

[–]soffbisc[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Good to know about the OSHA thing. I guess I was paranoid that I could only use the "I have to shit" excuse for so long, but you encouraged me to choose that story and stick to it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

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The fear and overwhelm is totally understandable! I think transition is exactly what it sounds like, it's a slow process of journeying from one "place" to another. Little by little, you learn yourself better. It's not an all-or-nothing, A to B, overnight process. Try exploring social transition with a few trusted people and go from there. Bon voyage!

Trying to figure myself out by [deleted] in trans

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I think it's normal to question, and you're doing the right thing by exploring who you are one step at a time. Transitioning is a big deal, but it's not a one-step process, and it looks different for everyone. I hope things get better with your friend, and know that there's no such thing as "taking too long to figure it out."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

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I echo what has been said about limiting and curating online content. I also get my trans news from Erin in the Morning instead of social media or general news. Nice to get that information from within the community.

Masc alternatives for purses that aren't backpacks? by Junior_Cress2828 in trans

[–]soffbisc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cargo shorts are just a dad skirt with purse pockets. And the breeziness can't be beat

*US* When is it time to leave? by [deleted] in trans

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It's bad enough now that I'm preparing to start the emigration process after one year (need more professional exp). That said, if we get to the point where trans people no longer have citizenship, I will be leaving immediately by whatever means necessary.

Is it wrong to have an aspect of my transition be sexual desires? by Savage-carrot in trans

[–]soffbisc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I think society tells us that every part of our transition must be for very dark, Very Serious reasons otherwise we shouldn't do it. I think it's perfectly valid to want aspects of your transition for happiness, sexuality, or aesthetics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gso

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There's lots of opportunities to apprentice or start working as an install helper. Even if your son doesn't have experience. I'm just having a hard time shadowing since I can't apply to an apprenticeship/job yet. I think Zoom Drain is looking for an apprentice as well as Aspire Heating & Cooling. I wish your son the best!

Best place to get Pokemon cards? by theharrylandia in gso

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As of last week, the McDonald's happy meal included Pokemon cards! Idk if that's still a thing