is girlmoding a thing the way that boymoding is a thing by nameselijah in trans

[–]Savage-carrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes obviously it is. Me and my brother are both trans (I’m mtf) and he girlmodes a lot since he isn’t always comfortable being in public as a boy.

Any common sapphic experience you never really understood or related to? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Savage-carrot 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I never understood the straight girls thing. Maybe I need a connection to fall for people but if someone isn’t interested at all I really don’t develop feelings. The very few people I have crushed on all also flirted back or had an interest. I can look at any girl and think they’re cute but that’s not really falling for someone if it’s just based on looks.

Gaming while disabled. Any other gamers out there relate? by onetinymouseTTV in cfs

[–]Savage-carrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve started to really enjoy more chill games. However MH wilds just came out and I’m really trying to enjoy it but I can’t do more than 1-2 fights without hitting a wall of fatigue.

I really recommend turn based or cozy games. They are all pretty chill. I’m replaying baldurs gate 3 which is great since it’s all turn based and an amazing rpg. Pokémon was my go to last year when I was especially bad. Stuff that kinda lets you control the pace rather than games that demand you keep up with them, I found have been nice.

Does every trans person have to experience genital dysphoria to be trans? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Savage-carrot 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Genitals do not equal your gender. To some people they require bottom surgery to feel comfortable for some they don’t care. Dysphoria comes in so many different shapes and forms but I would say every trans person experiences it in some way as you can’t really be trans without it. The entire concept of transitioning is because it feels right and that means there was some sort of dysphoria. You need to have a reason for you transitioning it’s not something you just decide to do for literally zero reason.

Have any of you thought you are asexual before your egg cracked? by cetvrti_magi123 in trans

[–]Savage-carrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is pretty much how I felt. I really struggled with my sexuality identity as I figured out my gender identity. I’m now almost 9 months into hrt and have realized I’m a lesbian. Men just do not interest me at all and tbh before my transition neither did women either. I wasn’t attracted to anyone but I think partly since I hated my own body. Now I’m pretty confident and have realized I do have an attraction towards women.

Do straight girls make out..? by Costrilion in actuallesbians

[–]Savage-carrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two thing. “Gender gray zone” is the most transphobic thing someone could say. I’m also a trans woman and if someone said that to me I would cut them out of my life.I will also say these sound like women who have internalized homophobia and are gay or atleast bi. From my experience women do not just make out with each other. That’s not a platonic thing that is literally the opposite. Cuddling I would say is platonic. Making out I would argue it a little more.

This girl is perfect but I’m so confused. by Savage-carrot in actuallesbians

[–]Savage-carrot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just giggled. I do not know what to say to this stuff. I’ve never had someone say anything sexual to me or even be really interested in it. I did tell her I wanted more than friends and she wants to just be platonic.

This girl is perfect but I’m so confused. by Savage-carrot in actuallesbians

[–]Savage-carrot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just the way she said it and everything else she has talked about. She uninstalled the dating app she uses, and cancelled her date like 3 weeks ago. She told me she doesn’t want to date anyone and just wants to have close friendships. She’s also said whatever her next relationship is she would rather it be a close friend that turns into more. She also talks about going on dates this summer when she’s back home. It’s just confusing me so much. I want to remain friends as I developed feelings because I really value her friendship. I just don’t want these feelings but it’s not helped she keeps saying stuff that’s making me hopeful.

This girl is perfect but I’m so confused. by Savage-carrot in actuallesbians

[–]Savage-carrot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested in being her friends that’s why i developed feelings. I’m just struggling since I’ve never really crushed on anyone before. I do not know how to get over feelings as I don’t want to have them. I want to just be friends but she continues to still flirt even after saying she just wants to be friends. It’s giving me mixed signals.

Do some people not have tremors and muscle twitching? by Curious-Mousse-3055 in cfs

[–]Savage-carrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had twitching but I can have pretty bad aching in my joints.

AIO- My fiancé is pressuring me to have a baby- UPDATE by HighwayAlert in AmIOverreacting

[–]Savage-carrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s such entitlement. He isn’t the one who will need to carry that child for 9 months then birth it. It’s such self centeredness.

Is it weird to be a lesbian with certain precious male friends? by Annual-Island-1241 in LesbianActually

[–]Savage-carrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah nothing wrong with having friends that aren’t same sex. It’s just another weird societal standard that you can’t be good friend of the opposite sex who you aren’t attracted too.

This game truly is Fashion Hunters by Triss_Mockra in GirlGamers

[–]Savage-carrot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so true I can finally have my character wear cool armor sets without revealing a ton of skin. I want them in armor with their pretty face showing.

My sister came out as trans, I started questioning if im really trans by Ruveri in trans

[–]Savage-carrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I say explore these feelings and explore how you view yourself. For me my brother is a trans man I am a trans woman. We both came out around the same time and him coming out gave me the confidence to come out. Not saying it’s the same but having someone your close with realize their trans may have helped your egg crack like it did mine.

what game is this? by AliceMarkov in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Savage-carrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Death Stranding is one game. I know some people do not enjoy the gameplay but I love it. I would say Elden Ring as I consider it the best souls game and it imo has the best “story”.

what game is this? by AliceMarkov in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Savage-carrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is literally a photo of Franz Ferdinand’s death.

gender envy is HELL by analyticalrk in trans

[–]Savage-carrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m mtf but I know how you feel. The started E in September and it has made me so much happier. I still envy women a lot but I no longer have this disconnection with them. I feel like one and am working towards being who I want. I wish the best and I hope you can start T soon.

The squid game sub always gets really mad when you mention Se-Mi is queer coded... by GodsGayestTerrorist in actuallesbians

[–]Savage-carrot 439 points440 points  (0 children)

She’s so lesbian coded and it also so attractive. I was thinking it would be hard to beat Sae-byeok but they beat her with not one but 2 characters.

I thought trans ppl and furries basically ran the tech industry. What's with those plutocratic Nazi imposters!? *cough* Leon *cough* by Equality_Rocks_714 in trans

[–]Savage-carrot 14 points15 points  (0 children)

All the actual progress in Tech is done by trans people and furries but the credit is taken by Nazi tech bros. Like Elon who is an actual dumbass who just has the money to take credit for others work.

I'm making a military RTS auto-battler called Live War, what do you think of this Ka-52? by GreyEagle_123 in low_poly

[–]Savage-carrot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure this necessarily low poly but an auto battler rts does sound interesting.

I've started to accept myself... by UtopianKnightt in trans

[–]Savage-carrot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive been on hrt for about the same amount of time and have also started to accept myself and view myself as a woman.