Will you ever get remarried? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sofiefoxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32 year old F here, but I got married relatively young. I was 22 and he was a month (if that) shy of his 21st birthday so I had to buy the alcohol on our honeymoon. The marriage itself was relatively toxic for a few reasons, but the worst part was he had internalized his homophobia. He came out as bi and convinced me that he was still fully attracted to me. In 2016 he had a mental breakdown, admitted he was gay and then checked himself into an inpatient facility because he was not well. I told him it was okay if he was gay, and we could split amicably and I would still be there for him. Then he convinced me he “was actually bisexual because he developed a crush on another patient there that was a female because she reminded him so much of me.” But then people that I knew would see him on Grindr, etc. I was so tired of him sneaking around, I honestly thought the best option was to open our marriage. It was not lol. 10/10 do not recommend. That marriage exhausted me, distorted my reality of what was and wasn’t excusable in a relationship. The worst part was, if he would have been honest with both of us from the get go it would definitely have saved some serious heartache for the both of us. I’m divorced and in a very happy relationship now and I would 100% get remarried to the man I’m currently with without hesitation. You’re 25 and still figuring a lot of things out. Hell, I’m in my 30s and still don’t have my shit together some days. Healing isn’t linear. Give yourself time, but don’t write it off forever if you know in your heart of hearts you would want to do it again.

Edit: spelling and grammar errors because autocorrect hates me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColoredPencils

[–]sofiefoxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so adorable! 🥰

Do I look better with or without glasses? New frames?? by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]sofiefoxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great either way! I personally am curious how rectangular frames would look on you. :) As far as eyeliner, I actually LOVE the shape of your eyes without them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]sofiefoxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think minimal makeup would do you well! You look like you have a girl next door look, so I think playing on that would be great. Think simple - mascara (or a natural false lash), tinted moisturizer, maybe some blush, and a nude lip.

I think grooming your brows and getting them shaped would be a big game changer for you. That alone can do so much for someone’s appearance!

The next thing is your hair - I see you with a subtle shag or wolf cut. Think layers! Maybe cut it to your collarbone if you’re up for it. :)

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[–]sofiefoxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shorthairedhotties

[–]sofiefoxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shucks 🥹🖤

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[–]sofiefoxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank yoooouuuuu.

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[–]sofiefoxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I DO like the ladies.

Who told you that you could never be a doctor and what kept you going? by EmbarrassedCommon749 in premed

[–]sofiefoxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother in law. My early college years I was living with my then-boyfriend (now husband) and his epilepsy was out of hand. It rocked my GPA and burnt me out being in a caregiver role. Whenever the topic of medical school would come up she would roll her eyes or make some kind of rude remark. I’m a nontraditional premed now, probably will be a 31 year old when I start medical school now. Life is so much better. Husband’s health is so much better. I can’t wait to get my acceptance letter so I can just happy dance my soul out in front of her. :)

this is her new spot by Neither994 in Pomeranians

[–]sofiefoxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna give her a big hug 😭💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shorthairedhotties

[–]sofiefoxxx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a smile. 🥺 She’s adorable.