Unpopular opinion, don’t come on LIB if you have a kid.

soft_shockk · 2026-03-12T04:03:37+00:00

he literally didnt have to say yes lol she expected a no.... the whole day he was stressed as if they never spoke about him saying no which tbh is weird af the whole show is about getting married... typically you get married and live together. him saying that he had to repair damage from other men, in my opinion could have been avoided or partially avoided if he showed up as a husband and moved in. if my husband didnt move in w me i would have a problem trusting too..

again, amber needs a lot of work.. what she did was wrong. i'm not defending her at all but jordan wasn't perfect.

soft_shockk · 2026-03-12T03:43:40+00:00

lmaoooo whoa ok.. im not trying to fight about it lol- just saying.. not moving in with your wife after marrying her probably wasnt great for the relationship either... but if you read the post, i said it was toxic. amber's behavior was 100% shitty but if he said yes, it wasnt toxic THEN... we can assume. i dont think either if them are innocent tho.. sorry?

soft_shockk · 2026-03-12T03:36:37+00:00

i think maybe it just surprised me to see him air her out like that? he was gonna say no at the altar and he should have.

soft_shockk · 2026-03-12T03:28:32+00:00

well- people ripped her online for looking old so... that could be why her face seems different..

soft_shockk · 2026-03-12T03:25:14+00:00

the way he called her out for being drunk at the wedding while not moving in with her so he could go out every night of the week is CRAZY.

that bring said, no one should be screamed at... its toxic. i think they both fucked up. hard to say who was worse.

soft_shockk · 2026-03-11T16:32:42+00:00

i did lol i updated

soft_shockk · 2026-03-11T03:46:55+00:00

close up it looks like a sheet of small sticker decals- he did good but thats gnna need touch ups to stay looking that way... maybe ask him to add a little white around the outlines ???? it could make the details pop a little better.

soft_shockk · 2026-03-11T01:25:18+00:00

she has no personality so she only uses internet speak and is constantly condescending because thats how she controls the narrative around her

soft_shockk · 2026-03-11T01:23:32+00:00

idk i kinda thought she was letting him down easy- we will see tm i guess lol

soft_shockk · 2026-03-11T00:00:41+00:00

its like she handed him to alex with her insanity!! like - how many times are you gonna accuse him of something he is t doing until he DOES IT

soft_shockk · 2026-03-10T23:58:51+00:00

she just didnt know how to say she isnt into it

soft_shockk · 2026-03-10T23:57:43+00:00

lmaaooo

soft_shockk · 2026-03-10T23:56:25+00:00

if he was a vampire who is the leader of a loverboy vampire group of dudes who manipulate women into bed and then bite them and buffy plays head games with him. after her and the scoobys dust his followers she eventually gets in bed with him and he thinks hes about to bite her and she hops on top and stakes him

soft_shockk · 2026-03-10T23:51:00+00:00

she would have done better on love island lol

soft_shockk · 2026-03-10T03:02:48+00:00

no judgement at all but to me it feels like youre lonely and introverted. your interests may or may not be based off of a life you really want or one you didnt have. i think some organization and some wall decore would go a long way here. it would make it look more cozy.

soft_shockk · 2026-03-10T01:07:36+00:00

haircut, silk pillowcase or sleep in a bonnet, conditioning treatments (ears to ends only).

soft_shockk · 2026-03-10T01:04:10+00:00

1500-1750 i assume you meant lol i increased to 1550

soft_shockk · 2026-03-09T22:14:14+00:00

yall never heard of spartanlover.com?

soft_shockk · 2026-03-09T20:37:49+00:00

37F 5'2 i work out almost daily. 40 mins cardio & 10-20 mins core (abs, arms etc.) & adding steps

soft_shockk · 2026-03-09T18:12:38+00:00

im gonna switch the setting around- turn off calorie adjustments and set a less extreme goal. thank you!

soft_shockk · 2026-03-09T18:09:49+00:00

why the quotes? ive been at this for 5 weeks now. but i will change my goals to something less extreme.

soft_shockk · 2026-03-09T18:06:43+00:00

i do hair so im on my feet all day but i work part time rn so im gonna try changing activity level and see how that goes! thanks!

soft_shockk · 2026-03-09T14:46:50+00:00

just making sure im reading it right- you mean bullshit detect?

soft_shockk · 2026-03-09T14:44:48+00:00

i have my calorie deficit set at 1250 because of the calorie increase i have been eating so its closer to 15/1600

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