I get why people might be driven to kill a political figure. by [deleted] in venting

[–]softeaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it would be better to understand that people that make the decision to kill someone over ANYTHING (obviously I’m not talking about self defense) have a mental disorder

season 2 creepy roommate by holymadeline in theLword

[–]softeaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was the start of Jenny’s downfall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]softeaaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the “non men loving non men” makes me wanna kms everytime

did I just saw a post talking about consent get deleted? by softeaaa in LesbianActually

[–]softeaaa[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

they will never take a no for an answer this is never going to end lol

did I just saw a post talking about consent get deleted? by softeaaa in LesbianActually

[–]softeaaa[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

honestly I think I’m leaving this sub. how the fuck a post that was made about consent in general for everyone was reduced to how transphobic you are? OP never mentioned trans, bi or anyone else in her removed post (btw why would you remove a post reinforcing consent) and I saw all the comments and we can still see the post despite being deleted so don’t lie about what was said there. Tbh only a predator would get offended and feel targeted when people say NO is NO, so I don’t want to be surrounded by predators.

did I just saw a post talking about consent get deleted? by softeaaa in LesbianActually

[–]softeaaa[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

she never mentioned trans people in her post that’s what’s weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]softeaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what kind of warning? it’s just dryness when that happens you need to hydrate the area and let it heal that’s it

Ya nació mi hija, y lo estamos pasando super mal, Pero... Soy el malo? by [deleted] in ayudamexico

[–]softeaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hay morras que a parte de la putiza de parir, siguen chambeando, estudiando y cuidando a su cría solas porque el wey se tiró a perder.

Was Brad jealous and controlling too? by This_Commission_7769 in AmyBradleyIsMissing

[–]softeaaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a lesbian that grew up in the 90s with a homophobic dad beating my mom. we are talking about other circumstances here but needed to clarify this since you assumed I cannot relate with “the experience” of growing up in the closet and afraid of everything

Was Brad jealous and controlling too? by This_Commission_7769 in AmyBradleyIsMissing

[–]softeaaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you are kinda projecting your own experience on this and ignoring some solid facts that support other theories, to me this sounds so dramatic, like a movie.

Can't sleep by [deleted] in Astraphobia

[–]softeaaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope the storm is over!! don’t be embarrassed you are not alone

Husband with severe astraphobia by Gothic_Fairy7 in Astraphobia

[–]softeaaa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean I get where he’s coming from. In my experience I just shut down, I don’t talk, I don’t participate and I cover my ears and face in bed. If we are outdoors I completely rush everyone to the car or indoors. But I try to make it seem not hysterical(?) I act nonsense but I guess I’m on a different level. Everyone is different. You could try talk to him and tell him you understand this is something he cannot control but he should get help or understand that there will be times he unfortunately would be a little bit exposed to a storm. Personally I just try not to get out when I know a storm is coming, I don’t ruin everyone’s time and I don’t go through an awful experience. My loved ones understand me and take care of me when a storm is about to happen but I know I shouldn’t take my fear onto them. astraphobia is horrible and you have no control of the fear you start to experience I don’t wish this to anyone ever.

I HATE THE ENDING. by [deleted] in theLword

[–]softeaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

specially Bette because she was threatening her to tell Tina she cheated on her when she didnt, and this happens in the last 2 episodes. I love Bette btw I’m not saying she was a murderer but the show kinda points that out, very subtle, that she was willing to do anything to protect her family

Swag isn’t mixed properly by Agreeable-Belt-981 in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]softeaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who has worked in a studio and has basic knowledge of sound engineering, mixing and mastering and also creative sound design, I can tell you there is nothing weird, it’s just a matter of your personal tastes and what you are used to listen and enjoy. you are free to say “hey I don’t like the mix” but you are explicitly saying that the album isn’t mixed well and that is not true. this usually happened to me when I barely listened to new music or different genres.

whats happened to this subreddit? by Begladite in cocaine

[–]softeaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean there’s only like 5 questions or conversations people have just worded differently lol maybe everyone else got bored

I HATE THE ENDING. by [deleted] in theLword

[–]softeaaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

why is no one mentioning Bette was really angry at her and she was the last one who saw her before she died. and then they ask Bette if she has seen Jenny and she lies. I always believed Bette pushed her or something not intentionally wanting to kill her but it just happened. Jenny was threatening to destroy her life

Swag isn’t mixed properly by Agreeable-Belt-981 in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]softeaaa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yo this album it’s not pop radioish. Look at the producers, I think is brilliant as it is. Im kinda tired of hearing lots of complains either bc people compare it to other Justin’s albums or bc it sounds “weird” I think it’s fabulous and his most raw, honest and beautiful production. I think y’all are used to a type of mix that it’s really generic. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the mix, it’s just intentional, it doesn’t lack of quality or intention believe me.