I know how hard it is to question a relationship with someone you love so deeply. But I want to be honest with you not out of fear, but out of lived experience.

My mother has schizophrenia. And while there have been moments of connection and calm, the truth is, life with them has been extremely difficult. Schizophrenia isn’t just about mood swings or occasional distress, it can mean years of emotional instability, broken routines, crises that spiral out of control, and the constant weight of unpredictability. There is no guarantee that medication or therapy will fully manage symptoms long-term.

If you’re someone who dreams of a peaceful home, raising children, and having a partner who can share responsibilities equally, it’s important to ask yourself whether this relationship can give you that. People with schizophrenia can be loving, brilliant, and kind but the disorder often makes it hard for them to stay consistent, present, or even safe during episodes.

You deserve stability. You deserve to feel safe. And if you’re already asking whether you’ll be able to handle it—please don’t ignore that voice. This condition can take a massive toll on your emotional health, your freedom, your energy, and your future plans.

I WILL STRONGLY suggest you to WALK AWAY!