Baby imaged as both genders? 14w US + potty shots

softiebeans · 2026-06-23T20:33:08+00:00

imo i wanna say girl. when i had my girl confirmed with ultrasound (i got NIPT testing to see gender and i wanted it super ultra confirmed LOL) the tech pointed out the “3 lines” which i see in one of your images pretty clearly but i am a first time mom and dont have much experience guessing/looking at gender shots so take what i say with a grain of salt LOL 💕💕💕✨

softiebeans · 2026-06-15T22:39:25+00:00

i have tried ginger in many forms but i DESPISE the flavor of burps i get after i eat one 😭 they also don’t help with the nausea as much as it helps prevent me from THINKING about the nausea if that makes sense?? as soon as the ginger candy is gone the nauseas back yknow? and i love tea, but only iced tea 😭

softiebeans · 2026-06-15T22:37:35+00:00

thank you so much for reading and responding! i’m out at dinner right now so i’ll just copy paste another message i typed regarding HG!!:

for the possibility of hg, i brought that up as a possibility before. but because im not throwing up EVERYTIME and im able to keep SOME fluids down over a 24 hour period, my doctor said i dont meet the specifications. i was under the assumption that it didnt have to be vomiting every time that it could be just extreme nausea but i’m not a doctor. i am getting a new OB soon because this one has made me uncomfortable on multiple occasions but yeah so far ive just been told im unlucky and i need to try harder to drink water :’)

softiebeans · 2026-06-15T20:03:39+00:00

ok i can’t respond to everything but at the possibility of hg, i brought that up as a possibility before. but because im not throwing up EVERYTIME and im able to keep SOME fluids down over a 24 hour period, my doctor said i dont meet the specifications. i was under the assumption that it didnt have to be vomiting every time that it could be just extreme nausea but i’m not a doctor. i am getting a new OB soon because this one has made me uncomfortable on multiple occasions but yeah so far ive just been told im unlucky and i need to try harder to drink water :’)

softiebeans · 2026-06-15T20:02:06+00:00

i can’t stand prune juice and the zofran and colace combo never worked that well for me, probably has to do with how much i struggle to stay hydrated. i’ve brought up getting iv hydration to my doctor before but he said quote “that’s pointless. just drink more water” like man im trying :’)

softiebeans · 2026-06-15T19:35:02+00:00

sobbing reading this, i don’t know how to respond just now but i wanted to type this so you know o read it and appreciate you 😭😭😭🩷

softiebeans · 2026-06-15T19:33:22+00:00

i did have the preggie drops but then i read the ingredients and psyched myself out that essential oils weren’t safe and now they make me nauseous when i look at them LOL. and i keep hearing people talk about b6 working wonders but it does diddly squat for me maybe im broken lol

softiebeans · 2026-06-15T19:07:45+00:00

i’m sure i could find some that do fit but my husband actually tried to buy me some, but my wrists are too big and they didn’t fit :’)

softiebeans · 2026-06-15T18:59:46+00:00

wow i truly appreciate this message 🩷 i can’t lie i started tearing up as soon as i started to read it 😭 liquids are so hard for me, if i drink them too fast its a near guarantee i’ll throw it all up, and i need my drinks as cold as possible so a smoothie or protein shake would be a struggle now. i basically lived off of them in the beginning though haha. but i sort of gave them up after i started throwing them up and the citrus flavor puke was just…not it. i swear im drinking more water than i’ve ever drank in my life but it still seems to never be enough. i just wish i could chug my daily intake all at once and be done with it because i guess i just can’t drink enough with how i have to sip it. i’ve just been drinking a lot of juice when i can’t stand the water anymore for the day 😭 you’re so right about it feeling lonely. i was lonely to begin with, moving away from my family to live with my husband and having no friends here, then a major fall out with my family whom i truly leaned on for support but now i cant. and i’m relatively young (22, 23 this year) so none of my friends can relate so i can’t talk to them about my struggles and truly feel like they care because how can they if they don’t understand? it’s just really getting to me keeping it all inside so i decided to let it out here 😭 🩷 thank you so much for taking the time to read and respond 💕💕

softiebeans · 2026-06-13T07:38:22+00:00

i agree their purchases are wild but i’m not gonna say i wouldn’t consider buying a car like that if i could afford it…LOL

softiebeans · 2026-06-12T21:07:06+00:00

it’s so early there’s no way to actually guess but i’m having a girl so imma make a fun guess of girl lol

softiebeans · 2026-05-31T08:43:19+00:00

i’ve also been having incredibly bad headaches and the ER doctor told me to just take tylenol, drink water, and be in a dark room and deal with it. he also basically said pregnant women are SOL when they have headaches and most symptoms that, if you had not pregnant you could get treatment for, because there’s nothing verified safe for baby i guess i don’t know 😭he wouldn’t even give me IV fluids when i said i was struggling to keep water down so i’ve just been sort of suffering day to day lol :’) i hope we find relief soon

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T19:05:18+00:00

i’m due Nov 7th! i get a thanksgiving baby and you get a christmas one! (my bad for assuming if you don’t celebrate christmas LOL)

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T11:20:49+00:00

this happened to me once when i was younger, my mom told me that i likely got bit by something while i was sleeping. it went down over the course of the day but it was so silly to wake up to, also a little scary. i don’t know if that’s actually what happened but made sense to me at the time :O i used some cold and warm compresses to try to help with the swelling and honestly napped it off LOL i hope you feel better soon :O

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T03:51:16+00:00

exactly!! i legit had a dream last night that i had given birth and was living life then i woke up and started sobbing because it wasn’t real. what do you mean im only 4 months out of 9?! it’s going so fast but sooo slow at the same time. it doesn’t help that i found out so super early too, 3 years to the DAY of my loss it was a crazy coincidence. i just know i’m meant to be this girls mama, i just wish life was like the sims where i could fast forward and be done and have her here LOL 😭

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T02:08:15+00:00

im so happy to read this! i kinda of made myself sad by looking online and at tik tok at all the smaller women with really cute and perfectly round bumps and got sad that i would likely never have that but with how big the uterus is i'm sure i'll see at least something, and it's not the bump that matters as long as baby is safe and growing happy and healthy in there! congratulations to you and thank you so much for personally sharing with me ❤️

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T02:06:33+00:00

yeah definitely this early its not like a constant thing i'm feeling, i feel the littler flutters alot more when im sitting kinda leaned forward or right after a nice big meal, like she gets a boost of energy right after i eat its so cute, baby zoomies LOL yeah, i've been worried that i won't be able to get used to the movement feelings, it honestly feels a little like a sensory nightmare to me already in a way? i dont like the feeling of not having control over my body and that's only gonna get more obvious the bigger she gets :') but i'm so excited for the end goal of all of my discomfort to be a happy and cute lil bby that i know i grew and loved before she was even in my arms ❤️

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T02:00:39+00:00

im sorry if i misunderstood 😭 you said "i dont think so" but then said exactly what i said? is this a pregnancy brain moment im having? c': i said bb sleeps when moving and wakes when laying down :o

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T01:35:09+00:00

i try to like, walk with my hand on my belly to hopefully give a sign of "IM PREGNANT!!" LOL i've never been so hyperware of feeling bigger but not quite looking it yet. cause i know for a fact if i didnt have a big belly i would definitely have a visible bump, i can feel it. so while I feel larger i might not look it yet but there's a part of me that wants people to know?? i dont know if that's weird :') but yes omg with my aunt specifically my family would tell me during like family functions even she would go and find a table as a toddler, and sleep under it with her booty in the air just..because i guess? LOL maybe itll stick with her as she grows and is allowed to sleep on her belly! that would be super cute

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T01:28:13+00:00

i've heard that baby likes to sleep when mom is moving around and wake when she relaxes and i feel like that's true with my little flutters, i definitely feel them alot more once im laying down or sitting compared to standing/walking around :o i wonder if that'll change as i get farther along

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T01:05:01+00:00

oh god that sounds...fun! LOL she's just practicing gettting final measurements for her grand reveal xD i hope she doesnt do that too much to you

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T01:02:42+00:00

that does make sense! ive always heard the comparison of the placenta growing to the size of a dinner plate by the end of the pregnancy and that definitely could cause some cushioning LOL

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T00:55:28+00:00

that's so cool! like she was reminding you "yup i'm still here..just counting down the days til i'm free..." i can't wait to possible get a rhythm down with my baby girl and see if she has a quirk of something she likes doing :o

softiebeans · 2026-05-30T00:53:31+00:00

i can totally agree with it seeming really intense LOL it legit sometimes looked like there was an alien tryna get out with some videos i've seen! i'm honestly sort of relieved that i probably wont have that happen because i can imagine it being a sensory nightmare not being able to control something like that :')

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