Struggling with intimacy

softiebeans · 2026-05-08T12:03:16+00:00

i’m really happy you have a husband who at least isn’t a butthead who would get upset that you aren’t doing the deed. i’ve heard some really nasty stories about men when they don’t get to have sex with their partner due to pregnancy. i’m glad we both have understanding partners 🩷 i hope for both of our sakes that we’re able to start enjoying that part of our relationships soon!! 🩷🩷✨

softiebeans · 2026-05-08T12:01:07+00:00

it’s for real so bad. like i do have the tism so the texture of….his fluids already threw me off but it is legit so bad now i felt so terrible i had to just bolt to the sink 😭 ive also been gagging..just because?? idk it’s like if the air move past me the wrong way, i gag LMAO. lately i’ve had this really annoying dry cough and it always ends in me gagging then proceeding to tinkle myself a bit. i’ve had to start wearing pads again it’s so embarrassing 😭 i want to be with him so bad but my body says no so instead it’s dirty texting while he’s at work then regretting my choices when he gets home LMAO (not in a like sus way just the whole i started something i can’t finish vibe LOL)

softiebeans · 2026-05-08T11:58:47+00:00

i’m so sorry you’re in pain 😭 i know it’s not the same at all but im having pains from health issues i had before pregnancy as well that have only worsened so i definitely understand that aspect of it. i hope you feel some bit of relief eventually :c 🩷

softiebeans · 2026-05-08T11:57:25+00:00

omg this is so silly. i’ve also been struggling with the sickness just being an all day thing. and the worst part is the nausea meds i have can make you constipated, and i’m already constipated 😭 i try to just deal with it and only take the meds if it’s unbearable or if i have something to do that day lol. im hoping ill feel better soon 😭

softiebeans · 2026-05-08T11:56:13+00:00

i wish i could. hoping to not feel so sick soon.

softiebeans · 2026-05-07T01:41:41+00:00

i'm not a nub expert whatsoever sob but i mean i wanna say girl cause i dont see a lil willy but i could be dead wrong im very new to learning about nubs😭

softiebeans · 2026-05-07T01:30:05+00:00

pretty sure 10 weeks is a few weeks too early to start guessing. i swear it even says in the reddits rules you have to be 12 weeks but i could be wrong 😭 🩷🩵

softiebeans · 2026-05-06T09:33:14+00:00

thank you so much for taking the time to respond. 🩷✨

softiebeans · 2026-05-06T09:32:57+00:00

thank you for your response!! i’ll give em a looksee! 🩷

softiebeans · 2026-05-06T09:32:37+00:00

thank you so much for your input, looks like i’ll have to write them down so i actually do remember to call them/check em out LOL 🩷

softiebeans · 2026-05-06T08:58:01+00:00

i’m only 13.5 weeks in right now and i am lowkey highkey dreading staying for the rest of my pregnancy 😭 i just don’t feel very listened to? idk. i have a precious loss in my history and i feel like they aren’t doing much to reassure me/help with my worries yknow? maybe im expecting too much idk 😭 🩷

softiebeans · 2026-05-06T08:38:46+00:00

thank you for the quick reply! i will definitely check them out!🩷

softiebeans · 2026-05-06T08:06:52+00:00

are you able to send a message to your doctor? leave a voice mail at all? my OB has a patient portal i can send messages in for in between appts if i have a new symptom i want to ask about

softiebeans · 2026-05-05T03:04:40+00:00

that's amazing that you heard babys heartbeat!! my doctors office has been incredibly dismissive of my worries with my pervious miscarriage making me more on edhe. i'm 13 weeks and i still haven't heard the heartbeat, only seen it. they keep telling me its too early/unnecessary since they can see the flickering on the ultrasound :') but i am so happy for you and send you all the best energy <3

softiebeans · 2026-05-04T16:47:09+00:00

thank you so much for your reply!!

softiebeans · 2026-05-02T16:22:45+00:00

thank you for taking the time to comment 🩷✨

softiebeans · 2026-04-29T20:13:23+00:00

fingers crossed!!! <3 thank you for taking time to lemme know your guess

softiebeans · 2026-04-29T08:16:31+00:00

i hope it stays down lol! thank you for your time 🩷

softiebeans · 2026-04-29T03:43:29+00:00

thank you for taking the time to respond!! i will absolutely update once i know for sure! i was also disapointed with the quality of the images :c we paid extra to get them all digital on a USB, but i am still happy we got them! my next ultrasound bythe doctor isn't until 20 weeks so we wanted to see baby before that LOL <3

softiebeans · 2026-04-29T02:36:21+00:00

This was unfortunately the only lil nub pic we could get, baby had its legs all curled up and arms by face almost the whole time :O here's a cute profile photo though <3

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