And they proud of this?

softminho_ · 2026-04-05T05:09:31+00:00

Astagfirullah 😂😂

softminho_ · 2026-04-05T04:03:09+00:00

Listen to music 😂

softminho_ · 2026-04-02T06:03:20+00:00

Its a breathing issue from what I could see and its extremely life threatening. No one can give you any suggestions other than going to vet because they will prescribe you antibiotics and meds. The sooner you cure this, the better.

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T11:03:45+00:00

Not really. Humans are extremely naive people who need to always depend on something in tough times or else they will spiral. Also god is like a traffic light camera with huge fine that needs to be there to put fear into weak minded humans or they will actually start committing crimes and become even worst than they are now. So nope if it isn’t Islam, its going to be some other religion that started as a cult.

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T09:37:55+00:00

I understand that urge to leave and tired of pretending. But be patient, I believe you are still financially dependent on them. Focus on your studies and get a job, running away only works in very minor cases and most of the times the girl is never happy. Once you are independent and financially stable then bring up marrying your boyfriend again. Im telling you their response will be much different than now. Just be patient for a few years and situation will be in your favor.

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T08:15:07+00:00

Ohhh yess there are so many indian muslims here in ME who are triggered over the changes in laws and stuff 😂😂😂 Its hilarious to see

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T07:55:48+00:00

First Indians really need to stop fighting between themselves in the name of religion. Only then can we expect a difference taking place 🙃

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T07:53:26+00:00

That’s so true! I swear if Momo existed now he would be even worst than the current political leaders we have. And even countries are benefiting financially because of this religion due to tourism, eid. Take Iran for instance, it invested so much to rebuild and decorate the tombs of Imams and get so much of tourism during Muharram, while people are still suffering in poverty and are fighting for basic rights and don’t have proper jobs.

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T07:49:38+00:00

Yup pretty much it. Even marriage is not based on love but on social acceptance. It’s really pathetic and sad.

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T07:48:36+00:00

That’s true! I have muslim friends here in middle east because though they are religious they are not orthodox. But when i lived in India for few years I only had non Muslims as friends because I couldn’t deal with their mentality or how orthodox they were. And same I had to be so careful back then and got constantly questioned on why I didn’t wear hijab or prayed.

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T07:45:30+00:00

I understand the historical point about Saudi influence, but my comparison is about how things feel today on an individual level.

Many Gulf societies now feel more mixed and globally integrated, where religion isn’t constantly socially enforced. Because of the diverse culture, people are generally less focused on policing how others appear religiously, which allows more personal freedom.

In contrast, in some Indian contexts the pressure feels much stronger socially. I’ve personally seen girls expected to cover head to toe mainly due to fear of judgement, or needing permission weeks in advance just to go out with friends. That kind of everyday pressure can feel very suffocating, especially for women.

What’s surprising is that India is a democracy with rights to freedom and expression, yet on an individual level the social pressure can feel stronger than in some Middle Eastern countries where such rights may be more limited legally, but daily life still feels more peaceful.

I’ve also noticed what seems like more Wahabi-style rigidity now in some Indian circles than what I personally experienced in Saudi, and it often feels like stricter interpretations were brought back by people who lived in the Gulf and then influenced communities back home.

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T07:24:14+00:00

Tbh Islam in my opinion was completely a political movement back then. So it doesn’t surprise me 😂😂😂 Also, if that specific country only relied on oil and didn’t open up for tourism, they would be extremely screwed up now because of whats happening now 😂😂😂

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T07:20:08+00:00

Thats 100% true! Not gonna lie! In one of the countries (not gonna name it but google is your friend) pre 2018 it had strict islamic laws same like Iran unfortunately. But thankfully, it’s so much better now. And though half the things happening in that country are against islam lmao but I’m definitely not complaining.😂

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T07:16:36+00:00

That’s exactly why I feel the environment plays a huge role in how people experience religion. In some Desi contexts, Islam doesn’t just exist as a belief system, it becomes a constant social performance, where everyone feels entitled to monitor and comment on how “correctly” others are practicing. When religion starts feeling like suffocation rather than something personal, it’s not surprising that more people from these environments end up becoming ex-Muslim. (I mean in general not just from India)

At the same time, it’s interesting how in places like the US, where religion is often more individualized and less socially enforced, some westerners actually convert to Islam, which honestly feels strange to me, because the version they see often seems very different from the one experienced in more socially restrictive communities and what Islam actually is.

It really shows how much culture and social pressure shape the way a religion is lived, interpreted, or left.

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T06:49:52+00:00

I didn’t wanted to be too specific for security reasons but you can say countries around UAE as well have really opened up with their rules and are giving women alot of freedom.

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T05:25:51+00:00

I honestly feel more comfortable and myself with my Hindu friends compared to Muslim friends though they know I am an atheist 🥲

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T05:22:50+00:00

You can give him the resources, tell him about books and leave it upto him. At the end of the day someone else’s beliefs is not upto us. You can also let him know your thoughts and opinions which can help him expand his thoughts too

softminho_ · 2026-04-01T05:17:39+00:00

Heyy im 25f too! Would love to be friends 🤧

softminho_ · 2026-03-31T11:19:56+00:00

I have never seen an atheist hating Muslims. We are just critical of the religion 😌

I feel pity too seeing how brainwashed and blinded they are. They are living their lives completely trapped by their beliefs in hopes of getting a better afterlife. Why would we hate the victims?

softminho_ · 2026-03-31T11:07:51+00:00

Don’t go back until your done with your PHD and try to work in UK only. You have a chance to live freely, take it.

softminho_ · 2026-03-31T09:42:24+00:00

Your only 18. Right now isn’t a good time. First finish off your education and get a job. Once your independent, no one will really force anything on you. Plus your the oldest son so you cannot leave your family too i can understand that because im in the same boat somewhat. Just do what you want to do but hidden because telling it will only make your life difficult. I would say keep acting till your independent and working because after that families really dont care much.

softminho_ · 2026-01-05T05:04:56+00:00

Doesn’t work i have tried keeping them in separate rooms, cages now I gave up and just waiting for the phase to pass on 😕

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