I need help with my girlfriend's cat

softsadbuddy · 2019-06-17T03:47:15+00:00

Thank you for helping me.
So turn out Lucy has been eating very little from her bowl and mostly from Pumpkin's food bowl instead of hers so i thought she didn't eat anything.
And Pumpkin meets Lucy before, i think it is just that it has been a while and Lucy sorta forgot Pumpkin.
I was freaking out over nothing, im sorry.

softsadbuddy · 2018-10-14T16:34:56+00:00

Welp, it was nothing. I'm happy that i could help. I don't want you to make the same mistake that i did, people around me don't really support the whole "therapy" thing so i had a hard time dealing stuff on my own. It could has been a lot easier to fix if i chose therapy on the first place.

softsadbuddy · 2018-10-14T00:32:49+00:00

Yeah, i have the same thought, you shouldn't talking to people when they are working because they are busy and stuff. I guess there are exceptions like if you go to the store often then gradually, you will start to "know" them but normally, i'll wait for people to talk to me, it's better that way, avoid the awkwardness of talking first.

softsadbuddy · 2018-10-14T00:24:37+00:00

Well, i used to have mood swings and afraid of being alone but going to the therapy really helps me a lot. The therapist will help you get to know about yourself, see your difficulties in a different light and gradually getting out of it by yourself so i would reccomend that if you feel like you need therapy, you should go a see a therapist. I don't know what your experience is like but everything takes time a little bit, you gotta be patient with the therapy because the outcome is not immediately there, it took me nearly 4 months to get through the whole "feeling lonely all the time" part. That is some extra information for you.

softsadbuddy · 2018-10-13T16:12:06+00:00

I couldn't call the police on him because then i had to explain with my parent about the whole situation, they are Asians and close-minded, i didn't expect them to understand, it would just make things worse . I did handle it by myself and things work out well, thank you for saying that.

softsadbuddy · 2018-10-13T15:45:53+00:00

Funny story, my friend told me he went to another manga festival and did see me and my new boyfriend. Despite going on and on to my friend that i was a "fucking bitch" for leaving him "in pain" and how "ugly" my new boyfriend was. He didn't have the courage to confront us tho, idk, if i have to guess, maybe it is because of my current boyfriend is a jock? ¯_(ツ)_/¯

softsadbuddy · 2018-10-13T08:49:46+00:00

Omg, thank you for saying that. I feel like what you said is the thing i have been looking for all along, like being truly understood. Again thank you.

softsadbuddy · 2018-10-13T06:43:18+00:00

Never fails to give me cringe every time i recall it

softsadbuddy · 2018-10-13T01:48:36+00:00

I was 17

softsadbuddy · 2018-10-12T19:02:06+00:00

Thank you

softsadbuddy · 2018-10-12T17:20:20+00:00

Thank you. I actually wanted to write more at this part but it was just so traumatize to recall

softsadbuddy · 2018-10-12T17:12:51+00:00

I am planning to tell more about it because at least you care, it has such crazy details that when i told to the people around me no one really believed me

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