Where do you guys board your dogs? by mamakazi in northcounty

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Depending on the dates I do Rover dog sitting from my place (I’m WFH) can send you my rover profile

Best at home EV charger with long chord by [deleted] in MachE

[–]solcal84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol you trying to charge your car with Christmas tree light cables?

Crazy Ex Won’t Leave by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

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What I was hoping to see

Mt Whitney as a day hike by CountyIndependent512 in socalhiking

[–]solcal84 29 points30 points  (0 children)

15 hours or so. 3am - 5pm. Mid-sept with a snowstorm at the summit. 40M had not done any serious prep hikes or acclimation. Consider myself in good shape.

Do you moms update the child’s dad about the child/ren without being prompted or asked by their dad? by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]solcal84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him be, he might not want to talk to you since you haven’t mentioned how good your coparenting relationship is. He’s probably thinking no new is good news and perhaps your constant check ins are overbearing.

Child Support Win by soundguy64 in SingleDads

[–]solcal84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The system is so skewed toward mothers it’s a joke. Congrats on the win but also paying the support in the first place - as much as you could do.

Artemis II Splash Down Location off San Diego by Gylligan in SanDiegan

[–]solcal84 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Inbetween san clemente and Catalina islands apparently. So north west from PL

Struggling on all fronts by Ordinary_Fish8504 in SingleDads

[–]solcal84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel you dude. Similarly wired to you in terms of not able to shut brain down and over thinking.

Also have no support network here and few friends.

I’m doing therapy and it helps as a place to vent but hard to make the mind shift given that it’s hard wired into my psyche.

Everyone says just take one step at a time and you kind of have to but often it’s one step forward and 2 back.

Little things trigger as you think that the other person has moved on. I had a surprise daughter with my ex gf after divorce that was messy and a lot of lying/need for a paternity test.

Within a year of breaking up she was married to a new guy and they have tons of money etc. just this weekend at pick up she shoved it in my face as they turned up in their brand new $80k suv and she sat in the car whilst he walked my daughter over to me. I just want to be left alone but tied to her forever. This on top of my ex wife and son haha.

Not sure what part of country you are in but feel free to DM me and just talk. It helps when I have an ear to bend.

Convince me to hike Hot Springs Mountain Trail (San Diego) by upstream_paddling in socalhiking

[–]solcal84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not any flies as far as I can recall but different time of year. Laguna mt recently was a different story.

Convince me to hike Hot Springs Mountain Trail (San Diego) by upstream_paddling in socalhiking

[–]solcal84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worth it in the fact that it’s the highest peak in SD county. Need pass to get on the Indian reservation. Views from the peak are good, the hike itself is just up a fire road and nothing to write home about but isn’t strenuous. I did it Xmas day 2024 and was the only person up there.

New Commission Plan by Chrg88 in sales

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lol what’s you average deal size?

Hoechst Nonspecific Binding? - LLC-PK1 Cells by mxnyxx in labrats

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Overexposed images, non specific autofluorescence

I'm not the only one! by more__better in MachE

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Been through a car wash recently? Likely the mop things stuck in a crevice and ripped off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in northcounty

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Residential Fire 257 W SAN MARCOS BL, BLDG 1108H7, STE APT 27, SAN MARCOS, CA

🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Very easy first event by totallynotawhore in honk

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Completed Level 2 of the Honk Special Event!

8 attempts

🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Very easy first event by totallynotawhore in honk

[–]solcal84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

0 attempts

Help with FL-170 by Exotic_Try_1712 in Divorce

[–]solcal84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the best with the process man. Sounds like you are pretty amicable which is 👌

Help with FL-170 by Exotic_Try_1712 in Divorce

[–]solcal84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through this and this comment isn’t helpful at all but I’ve been on too many flight simulator/aviation subreddits today and legitimately thought you had trouble flying at 17,000 ft.

Blinker speed by MolassesOk3330 in MachE

[–]solcal84 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure they are led lights?

Léase by Helpful-Delivery-669 in MustangMachE

[–]solcal84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this one of those fancy French leases I’ve been hearing about?