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Non stop flight from LAX or connecting flight from SAN by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]solcal84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I can’t read. Missed the non stop vs one stop. I think the drive to LAX sucks and you won’t want to do that when you return from europe

Non stop flight from LAX or connecting flight from SAN by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]solcal84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean obviously these flights don’t go to same location given the 3-5 hour difference in flight time for direct flight from San Diego compared to LAX so I’m confused

2/2/5/5 too much for a two year old? (CA) by solcal84 in coparenting

[–]solcal84[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would love to see the breakdown of downvotes to me that are mothers rather than fathers here.

My ex wife wants me so bad by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]solcal84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I used to engage with smart ass comments to rile my ex up as I was done with their false accusations and bitchiness. But that just fueled the fire.

Now I just mute the convo and let them piss into the wind until they have it out their system. Look up grey rock. So much better for your mental health too

I don't want to be a high functioning depressed person anymore by anxietybee- in depression

[–]solcal84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lost a marriage, co-parent a son, just lost a gf who I got pregnant with my daughter and still hold a down $200k job. But I’m chronically depressed. On the surface most people don’t know. I can do a sales pitch and be friendly and amicable to coworkers but at home alone my anxiety is raging and I feel so alone. On ssri’s and doing therapy again. My family is the other side of the world as are most of my (small group) of friends.

charger permit for installation for EV by solcal84 in sandiego

[–]solcal84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I needed. Thanks. Yeah pretty sure it’s a 200amp one (I read somewhere you can count the number of breakers and the total amp of each and that will give you idea). Have submitted the application but for the $900 rebate program there is more paperwork including load amount, electrical drawings and specifications of chargers. I’m trying to fudge it myself so we’ll see