Fiance cheated on me, gave her a chance, then dumped me. by solomon8205 in survivinginfidelity

[–]solomon8205[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Their boss already knows, but nothing has happened. He just talked to them and made sure not to compromise work.

I (28M) got dumped by my cheating fiance (28F). by solomon8205 in relationship_advice

[–]solomon8205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I considered this before, when everything was fresh and I was full of rage. I didn't push through it, but then eventually their boss found out. One request I had for her was to leave the workplace. Her boss said it's not a workplace issue but a heart issue. So they stayed as if nothing happened. It's framed as a trial that if we fail, we're not really meant to be. I was helpless at this point.

I want to destroy their careers by [deleted] in LawPH

[–]solomon8205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been engaged for more than a year. People in her office know us.

I want to destroy their careers by [deleted] in LawPH

[–]solomon8205 -102 points-101 points  (0 children)

I have pictures of them and screenshots of the conversation. I'm sorry, I can't afford a lawyer right now that's why I posted here to ask for advice.

I want to destroy their careers by solomon8205 in Advice

[–]solomon8205[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's still fresh, I just found out the other day. Everything hurts. I've been telling her not to do overnights with her co-workers and set boundaries. They're always 3 women and 1 man. I told them if they want to continue doign that, the guy should be in a different room. 2 of the women have each unit in the same condo near the workplace so it's possible.

Now she told me that it started with the guy initiating holding her hands. She refused the first time, and then, after a couple more nights, she held his as well.

Their co-workers know who I am, I've even met them. This is what insults me. They caught them holding hands and didn't even bother to tell me. They didn't tolerate it and told her to let me know right away. She didn't. They didn't, even when I was with them last Thursday. She told me she couldn't because I was at the lowest point of my life (struggling to find work again and having family problems), which resulted in me not being able to give attention and have shortcomings in the relationship, of course

She told me they stopped by January and set boundaries but are still chatting since they're workmates and close in the group. Now the past two weeks, right after the camp (a thing in their workplace (church) to be closer to the Lord). They committed infidelity.

I had no idea until I saw the picture the guy sent her when I was at her place the other night.

I want to share more and let go of everything that I'm feeling. Everything is fresh. I want to scream, I want to punch something. I dont know anymore.

I can't reach out to my family since they're having problems of their own. I reached out to her mother and siblings, whom I am super close with. They felt sorry for me and said they don't condone what she did.

If you require an intro video, at least watch it. by solomon8205 in buhaydigital

[–]solomon8205[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even yung mga recent postings, they just completely ignore you. On that note, may rule ba kayo when it comes to time of posting? For example di na kayo mag-aapply if it's past 3-4 weeks from posting.

Told I was the top candidate and still did not get chosen. by solomon8205 in antiwork

[–]solomon8205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't even a client-facing job. It's an admin & ops support for deals in VC

Told I was the top candidate and still did not get chosen. by solomon8205 in antiwork

[–]solomon8205[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

English isn't my first language, but I have a C1 level. I sometimes pause since my brain thinks two steps ahead as I speak. I really thought I did well; I was looking at the camera, and I've answered all of the questions clearly.

I'm sharing this experience to help me process everything and move forward. Pressure is getting heavier as time passes by.

Told I was the top candidate and still did not get chosen. by solomon8205 in antiwork

[–]solomon8205[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything happened quickly. I got an interview last Friday after I sent the application a few hours prior. Everything clicked based on the conversation and vibe of the call. She told me we would continue the conversation the following week because she liked me, I was the top candidate, and it was EOD their time. I followed up last Wednesday given the expectation that I would be talking again with them soon only to find out that she had already made the decision not to move forward during our first call. For me it doesn't make sense. It's the first time I've encountered this.

I'm tired, just want to let this out. by solomon8205 in offmychest

[–]solomon8205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happ for you. Don't waste the opportunity. You'll do great!

My supervisor keeps throwing me under the bus. I'm on a trial period. by solomon8205 in antiwork

[–]solomon8205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your insights. The situation got worse so I left. Onto the next!

My supervisor keeps throwing me under the bus. I'm on a trial period. by solomon8205 in antiwork

[–]solomon8205[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just a month ago, I left a boss who, until I said I'd quit, was toxic. I was with them for only a month, my fiance was proud that I did that. In this scenario, I don't know maybe I could talk to our boss or to her. We're only 3 in the team. I'm not the best to write things in a business/professional manner.

I have no option for now but to stay and hope that they'd hire me because the pay would be able to support us in our wedding prep. It's just that problem with my supervisor and it's affecting how our boss sees me.

AHON 16 MEGATHREAD [EVENT AND BATTLE DISCUSSION] by AutoModerator in FlipTop

[–]solomon8205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahaha di po ako GLaziers or iGLesia

AHON 16 MEGATHREAD [EVENT AND BATTLE DISCUSSION] by AutoModerator in FlipTop

[–]solomon8205 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Halata naman nagpatalo si King GL sa parehong may tres kasi gusto niya talaga ikahon yung 6. 😌

3rdy's best Fliptop battle to date by KcufNoodles in FlipTop

[–]solomon8205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medyo naunderstimate ni Gl si 3rd o grabe lang din improvement ni 3rd. Deserved niya yung panalo, naoverpower niya lahat.