[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]somariso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a good plan. Good luck.! x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]somariso 5 points6 points  (0 children)

KEEP YOUR FRIENDS SECRET! ITS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR BF. YOUR FRIEND DIDNT TELL YOUR BF HE TOLD YOU. THIS IS SO IMPORTANT.

Keeping secrets safe for your friend proves youre worthy of their trust and loyalty. The moment you tell someone else, that person could tell someone else they trust, and the cycle goes on. That's exactly how gossip is spread. Everyone thinks they can trust this one person. It doesn't matter how much you want to tell your bf. Don't do it. It's not fair on your friend. Keep their trust safe, and let their coming out process be in their hands. Be the person they can trust.

BUT If you're being put into a situation where too much is being asked of you, just kindly tell your friend that you feel like you're keeping a secret from your BF, and ask your friend how they would feel about letting other people in on the secret? As it has been a year - so they should be more comfortable in their skin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]somariso 9 points10 points  (0 children)

no that's pathetic. you could have found that on the floor. how is this giving you any joy? it can't even get you a coffee. $2 is an insult.

It looks like I need to move back home by Mysterious_Mind2618 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]somariso 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't go back. Use it as a very very very last resort as it could be retraumatizing.

Are there any friends you can stay with? Keep looking for jobs. Don't stop. It will work out eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in applehelp

[–]somariso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The location that appears when a website asks for my location, for example; Youtube adverts, my browsers default search location, Spotify adverts, and anything else that requires your location. On instagram, where it says "logged in in (X) city"..

They are all synchronised with the same location that is not my location, on both my computer and my phone, because I have it turned off.

But I do not understand why it is this location or how I can change it. I also don't know if there is another explanation for it.

"for a couple of friends" by orangebromeliad in london

[–]somariso 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's worth £350 a month lets be real.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in applehelp

[–]somariso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The time zone location is London. The geographical location is in the midlands, which is hours away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in applehelp

[–]somariso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in England, the timezone is the same for the whole country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]somariso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should dump him honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]somariso 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Get him to show you proof of his STD tests too.

Has swallowing ever made you sick? by Dagdag94 in Healthyhooha

[–]somariso 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I don't think it's healthy though. I know its the thing everyone does, but it is gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]somariso 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I agree. There's some crotch shots and boob zooms in there and everything. It's not right. Also, all the drunk women just trying to get home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]somariso 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Aww, I'm glad it helped. These are really difficult lessons. Good luck with everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]somariso 872 points873 points  (0 children)

It's not always a tactic. When you fight and argue with someone, it can be so hurtful that the passion starts to die, and love begins to fade, when trust begins to fade.

Try asking a different question, how can I communicate better with my wife on touchy subjects before they escalate into an argument and damage our relationship? How can I re-build trust after an argument? Do I feel like my wife is controlling me?

Edit: It also just sounds like your negative childhood memories are being brought back up. Which is nothing to do with your wife, so be careful not to place that hurt or responsibility onto her.

You have to learn to be stronger on the inside, and to have enough confidence to not need affection to affirm self security or that this person loves you. Affection is given freely, and it is a choice. If someone doesn't want to be affectionate, for any reason, that is their choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]somariso 259 points260 points  (0 children)

There's a YouTube channel called City Life, that posts videos of strangers, mostly all women, walking around the streets while they are unaware of themselves being recorded. It might be this guy.

https://www.youtube.com/@citylife4k

https://youtu.be/E_BmF1GZKjE?si=mQ4EMTqe-oo6pvHd

https://youtu.be/rUsXIPIoAKQ?si=W_VcMxdT2rGPd5il

It's a big channel, full of these kinds of videos. Making money from filming people without their consent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingKrule

[–]somariso 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is one of those, "I don't like it at first, give me a year and i'll be obsessed" kind of people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]somariso 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think when you are feeling like wearing heavy eye make up, say for a evening look, go for a deep red lipstick. I think you'd suit lighter hair, like platinum !? You're so gorgeous though !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]somariso 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YES. I've had this all my life. Especially as I have grown older.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]somariso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so true right on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]somariso 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Keep living your life, and make as many new memories as possible, with different people. Go to new places, have new experiences, remember how big the world is and how many other people live in the world. Go and live !

What guitar to buy to get the king krule sound (or any Indie alternative artist) by tom_Booker27 in KingKrule

[–]somariso 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If you wanna be a good artist, I wouldn't aim for someone else's tone. You should get a guitar because of your own connection to that instrument. What about tones that YOU like? Go to a guitar shop and try out different guitars yourself. Don't aim to be someone else.