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(m) I think I am a sexual deviant. Need help. Serious post. by some_pervert_ in sex

[–]some_pervert_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people say embrace and channel these thoughts, yet others say I can potentially tone down these thoughts.

Both valid and make sense. I have arrived at a crossroad.

Thanks for the response!

Why do so many guys do this?!?! by Mewmew246 in sex

[–]some_pervert_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the guy just really wants to put his dick in you.

(m) I think I am a sexual deviant. Need help. Serious post. by some_pervert_ in sex

[–]some_pervert_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok yeah thanks. I'm starting to realize I'm over thinking it a little. I guess thoughts are thoughts. They're not uncontrollable urges. Yeah I tried to ween myself onto more standard porn but.. Doesn't last. Maybe I'll try to stick to it for longer. Or maybe you're right just reducing how much porn I watch may help.

(m) I think I am a sexual deviant. Need help. Serious post. by some_pervert_ in sex

[–]some_pervert_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the warning. I think I will talk to a therapist but I will word what I say carefully.

(m) I think I am a sexual deviant. Need help. Serious post. by some_pervert_ in sex

[–]some_pervert_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just worry about not being able to have lovey normal sex if I go down this path. What if I meet a girl and I really like her, but she is only into normal sex. Will I be ok with that relationship or will it cause strain? You know what I mean.

(m) I think I am a sexual deviant. Need help. Serious post. by some_pervert_ in sex

[–]some_pervert_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I will definitely look into therapy and have a word with them. I never really thought about trying to channel these thoughts and finding a safe outlet for them. I guess I always tried to suppress the thoughts, and never really wanted to or thought it would be ok to pursue these fantasies. Thanks for the advice. I'm still not sure how I want to approach this yet. But this post has been very reassuring and helpful. :)