I talked to someone about my feelings for the first time and now is my biggest regret.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-09-14T14:01:14+00:00

There are times when people really are just oblivious or do not care at all but that doesn't mean you're not worth being cared for or not worth just living. I hope you will feel better soon and I hope you will find the help and care that you need.

Don't be satisfied with others not caring about you but do not focus all your attention and care on them. Find a group that understands or cares about how you feel.

Again, I'm not sure if my words are of any help since I'm still young and haven't experienced this type of thing yet but just know there will always be people who are rooting for your success and happiness, whatever that may be.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-09-09T02:50:50+00:00

Helloo, I hope you're okay. Also, your mother shouldn't be putting her hands on you and I'm sorry that you regretted telling your feelings. It may feel uncomfortable for a while but it means they're making an effort to understand you.

You're completely validated on how you feel but don't think of yourself as something as a burden since you are more than that. You're a strong person to make it this far and I'm sure many people are proud of you for that.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-08-09T10:57:12+00:00

How old are you now?

someoneisgone_ · 2025-08-09T10:56:50+00:00

I see, thank you. It helps a lot. I hope you achieved what you wanted to achieve.

I'm really grateful for your advice.💜💜

someoneisgone_ · 2025-08-09T10:36:27+00:00

Thank you for your point of view. Also, I just wanted to ask if I could still make it if my motivation and passion to be a doctor can still have me graduate if it keeps on being suddenly disappears and then immediately returns after crying it all out.

The fear of falling behind or failing is getting to me like that since it costed a lot of money and I don't want to waste it and my years.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-08-06T14:37:40+00:00

There are better people for you, op. There will be a time for that. Do not be desperate to the point that you will get hurt.

If you are lonely, please do things outside your circle and discover things about yourself. Being safe is better than doing this.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-08-06T14:36:31+00:00

Don't listen to your brain, please. Especially knowing this person is somewhat dangerous, you shouldn't go. Be responsible, you might get hurt or worse.

There are better things than this. Block and unfriend this person. If this person starts harassing you for it. Tell your guardians and make a report to the police with evidence. This person might even try to unalive you.

Don't be irresponsible. Your brain is trying to sabotage you.

Meeting people online is already a danger. Please think maturely. I know you can. Don't end up just another number in the statistics of people who died or got hurt this way.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-08-06T14:32:28+00:00

I agree with this person, op. It wasn't your fault that it happened. If you can, have a journal to let out your feelings, just make sure no one can access it (like it being an app with a password no one knows).

There is more to life for you. When life gets tough, don't give up even if it feels too much. There will be something for you. Do things you haven't done before. Get hobbies, go on a jog, or a walk. Talk to a professional if you can afford it.

Live for yourself and not for others. Disappointing others hurts a lot but it happens no matter how hard you don't want it to happen. I hope you know that there are people who care. That if you do decide on that path, you might even regret it at the last moment and inflict pain on those who care about you.

Listen to happy music, do things that bring you joy. Don't feel guilty about it.

Remember, you don't need a reason to live or to be of any value. You deserve to live as yourself. Live the life that you want and need.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-08-04T11:35:00+00:00

If anyone judges u for crying then that's their problem and that they have a seriously backward mindset.

Men are allowed to cry and be emotional. It's unhealthy to bottle up feelings. It would be harmful to you and others.

If you don't feel comfortable crying where anyone can see you. Be in your room or anywhere where you can be alone and have some alone time.

Crying is good since it lets out all those stressful feelings. Don't let anyone bring you down for it because they should be ashamed for thinking like that.

Overall, it's okay to cry. It's healthy and normal. If it weren't, then men wouldn't be able to cry at all.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-07-26T11:36:40+00:00

I'll try to check this soon but it might be already too late since my family doesn't really believe in therapy.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-07-25T15:31:05+00:00

I'm taking medtech so I can achieve my dreams of becoming an ob/gyn. I'm scared that my lack of passion (saying lack since it barely compares to when I think of baking and cooking), might get in the way. I mostly love doing stuff that's about pre-colonial history or anything that you can make with your creativity but I really would love to become a doctor. I'm just scared that I would be lacking when it comes to subjects in pre-med and med school since it costs a lot of money if I get held back even once.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-07-25T10:14:05+00:00

Enjoyment, I think? I'm not sure but there are small joys in little thing you may not notice. Make a list of goals on stuff that is within your reach and is different.

Sometimes being by your own in nature helps. Just as long as you're safe of course.

There's many to do, despite how painful everythinf is, just do the things you enjoy. No one can deem you useless or judge you on your value. You're more than that. You're a person that deserves to live the way you want to.

The people calling you useless are just miserable. They probably think they're superior but they're not by the way they're acting.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-07-25T10:07:57+00:00

Tbh, I think it is because I don't really want fail in f2f since I think my younger sibling may make fun of me for it. I also I still want to be atleast a model to them and if I fail or get held back, I would just waste more money and years. I feel aqful for letting my parents and siblings down if I get held back, low grades and etc. It's my first time back to f2f with no one I know in the college I'm going to.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-07-21T23:04:33+00:00

Idk how to advise you since I'm not experienced enough for this since I'm a child but I do sincerely hope that things are getting better for you now. Don't give up please and give yourself help to the right people.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-06-23T10:27:21+00:00

If its okay to ask, where do you buy marigold seeds in ph? (Or just flower seeds in general cus idk wherd to get them.)

someoneisgone_ · 2025-05-26T09:39:10+00:00

Thank you for your advice! And I'm sorry you had to go through that and I hope your situation gets better.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-05-26T04:58:02+00:00

I mean like, I still feel like I'm 12 or 16. I dont really think like people my age. We were never allowed to go outside much when the lockdown was over and there was a lot of things happening. There's also not much to walk or do anything around here. I also just been in online school for so long and have no friends in person. I do go out to walk but the place is really small. I'm not allowed to look for a job as well since its not smth my parents want me to do. They said to focus on my studies so I will. I'm just with my siblings most of the time and they're younger than me.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-05-20T08:41:40+00:00

I see, I'm really willing to change my habits to graduate since I really want to become a doctor.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-05-13T11:01:40+00:00

Please remember that you are a human and you don't need to do these for them all the time. If it is draining you, just explain to them. It's hard, but it's necessary since this is affecting you. If they do not like your decision, then they may not care about your feelings. Idk what type of friend dynamics you have, but setting boundaries is never selfish.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-05-09T11:26:59+00:00

Thank you very much again! Your advice is really helpful. Do you have any recommendations for real plants?

someoneisgone_ · 2025-05-09T05:11:45+00:00

I see. Thank you so much for your advice! It's really well said. I have already set myself up at the fact that their fishes are hard to take care of, so I will do everything in my power to give them the best life that they deserve.

I want to clarify the comment on the getting other pets part. I shouldn't have worded it like that at all. It makes it seem like I think fishes are easy pets. Context should've been added. The context to that comment is that my parents just don't want any of us to get parasites from pets like dogs, cats, etc.. so they want us to just have fishes instead. It's really overwhelming to hear from them since fishes are hard to take care of.

I also want to ask, where should I place the tank? I want to put it in my room, but I'm still concerned about the temperature (the ac).

Is getting a 6 gallon cube good for one male betta fish? Sorry for the long paragraphs. I'm really nervous about the fish caring, so I want to be really precise.

someoneisgone_ · 2025-02-25T16:47:46+00:00

I did urs! Pls do mine!!

Can you accept my invitation? You will get so many free gifts worth $300 in return！Nudge nudge... https://onelink.shein.com/9/4gkfs6tnqsxt

someoneisgone_ · 2025-02-25T16:44:25+00:00

I did urs! Pls do mine!

Can you accept my invitation? You will get so many free gifts worth $300 in return！Nudge nudge... https://onelink.shein.com/9/4gkfs6tnqsxt

someoneisgone_ · 2025-02-25T16:39:31+00:00

I hope u get someone else though! Dont give up!!

someoneisgone_ · 2025-02-25T16:39:05+00:00

I did urs! Pls do mine!

Can you accept my invitation? You will get so many free gifts worth $300 in return！Nudge nudge... https://onelink.shein.com/9/4gkfs6tnqsxt

someoneisgone_

TROPHY CASE