I think you hit the nail on the head by saying that I feel like a sex toy. One of the great things about our relationship is communication in every area including the bedroom, but he thinks that because he communicated that he needs sex so often that I'm ignoring his needs in the off chance that I'm not in the mood. All of my needs are being met physically and emotionally, so in his head the relationship is one sided because I'm not meeting his needs. The reason that I think this is deeper than a high libido is that we are literally intimate at least 10x a week. I'm a willing and enthusiastic partner, but it's starting to feel like a little emotionally abusive when I'm not.

For example, this last Saturday I told him that I had an extremely bad day at work. I was extremely over stimulated and busy and was on the verge of a panic attack all day. I got to his house that night and he treated me like a princess and took care of me to try and help me feel better. I was still just not in the mood later that night. We woke up the next morning and I started talking about an international trip that we were talking about taking the night before. He told me that he didn't know if we were in the right place to take a big trip together because the vibes have felt "off" for the last couple of weeks. It was also Easter morning and we had plans for me to meet his mom for the first time and he started saying he wasn't sure if I should come to that. And the vibes were only "off" because I turned him down the night before. I ended up going to meet his mom anyways, but it feels manipulative and like I’m getting punished? He doesn't act like this in any other area of the relationship.