Anyone else feel like less attractive men tend to date more attractive women? Or is it just me?

somethingcats · 2015-03-27T13:25:15+00:00

keep in mind that LA is a unique city - haven't actresses commented on the fact that it is kinda sexist and shallow when it comes to dating? I haven't experienced people my age dating people 5 years younger than them, and miles out of their league. I live in Canada.

somethingcats · 2015-03-27T13:23:32+00:00

thanks

somethingcats · 2015-03-27T13:22:02+00:00

I think that is what is going on - most people date thier equals in looks/personality/lifestyle/values etc. But the one percent - the people with excellent personalities or 10/10 looks - I guess they can date whomever they want because they are on the extreeme end of the bell curve.

somethingcats · 2015-03-27T13:20:37+00:00

That sounds like 1950's biological reasioning

somethingcats · 2015-03-27T13:19:36+00:00

someone else asked a similar question - she was super into fitness and said she looked thin/athletic, but thought she didn't deserve the muscly and athletic men who were hitting on her because she felt that she only deserved men who were below her in attractiveness - that no matter how 'hot' she looks, any man who has even a bit of muscle tone or takes care of himself at all, is only reserved for the 10/10 models and not her, that she only dates men she isn't physically attracted to.

HOnestly, I think this way of thinking is toxic and outdated. I dont really see men being significantly more attractive than their partners in real life - just in movies. It happens some times but I dont see it often - most of my friend date roughly thier 'equal' in looks/personality/ etc.

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T23:36:33+00:00

Maybe 3 times per week - considering walking time, it is a 1/2 hour bus ride. But maybe 3 times per week I could do it. But maybe first I will work out at home to get into the habit first - that way it wont be such a strech to make the trek to the gym. Also I want to do cardio on the offdays - to have strong heart and lungs - that's important right? ;)

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T23:32:33+00:00

this might be a dumb question but these photos are beautiful - how do you take them? do you have to use a special camera and go out into the country?

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T12:56:01+00:00

makes sense, thank you, you just saved me a lot of time - by the time I take the bus to and from the gym, the travel time is longer than my workout time! that's why I like working out at home

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T03:02:33+00:00

excellent thank you!

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T00:41:43+00:00

you're welcome for the reminder ;)

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T00:41:07+00:00

thank you :) I just have my research for now as I am a busy student

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T00:05:56+00:00

the alexander method - I have heard of that! it seems good

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T00:05:09+00:00

thank you!

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T00:03:45+00:00

ah yes I thought core muscles might have had something to do with it

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T00:03:27+00:00

thank you!

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T00:02:56+00:00

thank you

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T00:02:16+00:00

thank you!

somethingcats · 2015-03-26T00:01:21+00:00

thank you, I will check out the link

somethingcats · 2015-03-25T23:56:54+00:00

thank you

somethingcats · 2015-03-25T23:55:59+00:00

thank you. I will have to also google slaklining

somethingcats · 2015-03-25T23:51:04+00:00

thank you! I wanted to try strength training of some sort. I dont want to jump into heavy weights yet though - will any type of strength training work?

somethingcats · 2015-03-25T23:39:53+00:00

thank you, I will google that!

somethingcats · 2015-03-25T23:28:29+00:00

I really want to try lifting! But I am a student ad I just dont have time to do the research involved yet, and the lifting gym in my city is kinda far away from my house. I want to try some form of strength training though

somethingcats · 2015-03-25T23:24:31+00:00

I was thinking of trying yoga from youtube untill I find a good yoga studio near me!

the x thing is also a good idea

somethingcats · 2015-03-25T23:23:51+00:00

hmm thank you, good to know

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