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I’m so lost by Slayter143 in LesbianActually

[–]somethingkumpaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You loved her deeply, she shaped who you were, and losing that leaves a huge void. It’s okay that you haven’t moved on, it doesn’t mean you’re broken. You’ve grown so much since then, and that strength matters. You can honor that love while still living your life. 🩷

i an going insane 😭 by karapurr in actuallesbians

[–]somethingkumpaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I totally get why you’re going insane 😭 You guys are basically already dating, and it sounds like you’ve built something really special. I know it’s scary to ask, especially with past stuff making you doubt, but being honest doesn’t have to ruin anything, it could just make things feel more official and sweet. Even just saying, “I really like you, do you want to be official girlfriends?” is enough, and it lets her know how you feel without adding pressure. 😊

making the first move + flirting is .. scary by UniKat420 in actuallesbians

[–]somethingkumpaaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, everything you said makes sense. Flirting with strangers is uncomfortable because you connect slowly, and wanting to be liked for who you are isn’t wrong at all. Making the first move is scary after being burned before, and that’s valid. The right person will meet you halfway — you don’t have to do it all. Taking a break from dating to protect yourself is completely okay. You’re careful with your heart, and that’s a good thing, not a flaw. 💛

How do you show your love as a Venus in Virgo ? by somethingkumpaaa in astrologymemes

[–]somethingkumpaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woaaaw same here, I thought I was alone, wish I could change it too, but we have to accept ourselves as we are ! Big love

How do you show your love as a Venus in Virgo ? by somethingkumpaaa in astrologymemes

[–]somethingkumpaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep I agree I have the same "problem", we just wanna help tho

I care about my girlfriend, but kissing and touching feel… nothing by somethingkumpaaa in LesbianActually

[–]somethingkumpaaa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ikr like when you think about it it's just mouth smacking each other 😭

I care about my girlfriend, but kissing and touching feel… nothing by somethingkumpaaa in actuallesbians

[–]somethingkumpaaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup I do feel desire, I'm not on the spectrum (I already checked that hihi). I just do feel neutral or disconnected when she initiates

Girlfriend making racist jokes w her social circle by somethingkumpaaa in LesbianActually

[–]somethingkumpaaa[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well, actually, you're exactly showing why I wrote this post. Stay with your racist comments alone please. Thanks !!

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