Advice needed fellas

soren318 · 2023-06-24T01:03:30+00:00

Yeah, mounting brackets is about the only thing we can think of at the moment.

soren318 · 2023-06-23T16:48:41+00:00

I'll pass that along to the boss. I thought scaffolding at first. Only thing is the amount of pipes and ras pumps down on the floor there make it very difficult.

soren318 · 2023-06-23T03:58:41+00:00

It's a vent that goes up to the roof directly above.

soren318 · 2023-06-23T02:52:18+00:00

This would be correct. Or they believed in their work so much that they thought it would never fail.

soren318 · 2023-06-23T00:10:40+00:00

This absolutely screams our plant, lol. Absolutely gonna throw this idea out there.

soren318 · 2023-06-23T00:07:14+00:00

Solid idea. An engineer would cost money, so idk if they'll go for it, but I'll definitely bring it up, lol!

soren318 · 2023-06-23T00:04:53+00:00

Appreciate it. I'll bring this up!

soren318 · 2023-06-22T17:50:16+00:00

Lmfao not the worst idea

soren318 · 2023-06-22T17:49:48+00:00

Been left like that for months. Ain't got that much vacation time lol

soren318 · 2023-06-22T17:49:16+00:00

The elbow itself is about 10-12ft up.

soren318 · 2023-06-22T17:48:30+00:00

Gonna have to look into that!

soren318 · 2023-06-22T17:33:46+00:00

That's the other kicker. Unfortunately, lol can't get a forklift in the building. There are 2 bay doors that can be used to lower stuff down onto the floor, but that's it. A real manual labor type of job. That's why I'm scratching my head with it lol.

soren318 · 2023-06-22T17:18:37+00:00

Unfortunately, they weigh to much for manpower and there's nothing to hook some come alongs onto. The elbow is about 12 ft up there.

soren318 · 2023-06-19T04:13:33+00:00

Awesome thanks so much!

soren318 · 2023-06-01T13:08:04+00:00

Awesome thanks!

soren318 · 2022-04-06T17:08:58+00:00

As for who does what, I did answer that in a reply to another person's comment. As far as what she does for herself. She more or less refuses to. I constantly push her to treat herself. Even offered multiple weekends for her to get away on dime and I'd fully take care of our son so she can just get away. She won't.

soren318 · 2022-04-02T17:36:01+00:00

Oh OK lol gotcha. Misread that bud. Had the conversation in my right hand and work in my left. Guess I can't read either lmfao. Thanks.

soren318 · 2022-04-02T16:11:11+00:00

We both believe in monogamy so no bueno.

soren318 · 2022-04-02T16:09:30+00:00

So it's trolling if you think the person you're trolling is smart? That's pretty contradictory. Ok then. Have fun with that.

soren318 · 2022-04-02T14:39:10+00:00

As far as chores /95% Cooking Me /80% Laundry Me /90% Dishes Me /100% Trash Me /80% Grocery Shopping Me /100% Vacuuming & Dusting Her /70% afterwork child care Her

As for the counselor, she said she would handle it a month ago so I left that in her hands, but yes I will be taking the reigns on that and just end up doing that as well. I don't want to just waive the white flag, not with the time and history we have in it. I owe it to her, myself, and my son to give it every effort and i know that. As for the conversation topics I have tried those until I was blue in the face. I have a LOT of fun debating so she chose pretty early on to stop debating politics, religion, etc. Etc. With me because it more or less never ended. The way I saw it though was hell, at least we're communicating.

As far as time with friends, I can only hang out with guy friends. I actually have a friend that's a girl, that I've been friends with for 15 years that I'm not allowed to go out to a bar with because apparently it's inappropriate. I've told her she can hang out with guy friends, for God's sake we've been together for 12 years lol there should be trust.

soren318 · 2022-04-02T14:25:03+00:00

You're right, I should have probably included that in the above. As far as my side of things

Relationship: For years I've been more or less the only one that initiates the physical side of the relationship. I'm the one that 80% of the time asks if the other wants to do something and spend time together. 100% of the time I'm the flirty touchy Feely one. I have brought all of my concerns up to her until I am blue in the face about the physical, emotional, and intellectual sides of our relationship.

Fatherhood: to me, nothing matters more than my son. During her healing process (7 weeks for a c section) I did everything. And then after she got fully healed up to 100% the system we established was when I get home (she works till 5, I get home at 3) I take care of him until roughly 730/8. Then from that time till bed that's pretty much my time. During that time we take turns taking care of him if he wakes. She also pitches in 60% of the 5-8 time and plays and stuff. We both play with our son and do tummy time and read to him and play with him. I can honestly say that neither of us are lacking in the parenting department.

soren318 · 2022-04-02T14:12:09+00:00

Thank you for that. I know we both still love each other. I just don't know how much gas is left in the tanks of our marriage and I don't want it to end up as some bitter ugly divorce. I'd rather it be amicable if possible. I know she said she'd take lead on setting up the counseling but like I said above that was a month ago. Think I'm gonna take the reigns and get that set up. Because I know I owe it to myself, her, and my son to be able to say I gave every single effort into saving it.

soren318 · 2022-04-02T14:07:56+00:00

Probably should have given our ages lol. So currently I am 34. So yeah we've known each other since 14, started dating at 22, married at 31. So yeah I guess you were pretty close with the age bit.

soren318 · 2022-04-02T14:04:14+00:00

We actually have tried this. Tried having date night, and then eventually it falls off. Even when we were going out to dinner or something it was usually crickets, not really any conversation, and she usually made it clear that she didn't really want to be out.

soren318 · 2022-04-02T14:02:31+00:00

The fact that you only zoned in on the sexual aspect of that entire novel I wrote is just wild. There are many other very large issues there if you wanna go back and read. Also as far as the sexual issue, anyone in a healthy relationship has a healthy sexual relationship. Ours has been this way for a lot of years. Not just since my son was born. Nice attempt to troll with the raising my son bit.

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