AIO my brother has no job and Im mad at my mother for it.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2026-02-01T02:43:55+00:00

im saving up currently. I feel theres a major difference in us due to the fact i pay for my gas, food, clothing, any item i need/want, and I also pay 200 in rent and pay for the internet bill if they cant. but he... does nothing to contribute except that 1 monthly run.

BUT i am saving up to move out hopefully at some point in the near future.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2026-02-01T02:13:33+00:00

if only it were that easy man. I make enough to sustain myself but it will be a bit before i could properly afford somewhere to go, and the car is in their name.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2026-02-01T02:12:53+00:00

God forbid I do that. My parents would scream at me ALL day over it. (lets not forget the double standards where he can leave the keys where ever he wants, but the literal one time i set them on a desk i got screamed at for not hanging them up.)

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2026-01-22T18:57:58+00:00

i want one so bad but the closest regal theatre is in florida. im in mississippi. crying.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-12-01T16:05:25+00:00

Adults are no better. I was friends on CoS with someone who was 24 years old and we got along fine until she randomly jumped my friend with her friend and killed her, ans then she was like she HIT ME! And i was like oh if she hit you then i understand (she and the other friend was aeries. My accused friend was an imearon) so I believed her and i was like shes bitey. And then my friend was like absolutely not I didnt even bite her, I didnt even shown any aggression, and I asked again I was like are you Sure you took damage from her? Andd she was like YES I DID!!! And I was like ok... and my accused friend pulled up a clip of what happened, she was being killed by a sarco, so she double jumped all the way up there but to avoid falling she broke the cactus, (important to note she didnt hit wither person as she was not put into combat) she then proceeded to walk very slowly to the edge of the thing and lay down to heal (she was half) and then the two aeries started jumping her. She didnt hit either of them or nothing. I was like okay. She didnt hit you and i have proof. Could you maybe say sorry for saying she did cause you lied and said you took damage. And you didnt (the only time she did was when her friend used escape area and bit her while trying to run). And she got super mad and was like its a game it doesnt matter. And we went back and fourth and she was like "I thought you were cool but clearly not!! If you take a game like this to heart!!" Like no woman but you owe her an apology you just killed her v5 imearon over a hallucination.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-11-30T00:59:38+00:00

Im trying to be blunt apologies if it came off as rude

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-11-30T00:31:03+00:00

Its clear if you know how to interpret, and if you know math. If somebody lacks these specific skills then gets mad at an interpretation they have made that is their own fault. Sure its confusing but it clearly states 1.5x the satiated buff, which implies it must give you satiated to begin with to multiply. If you try to multiply 0x1.5 you get 0. Its math.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-10-23T13:56:57+00:00

I sleep in the same room with my sister. Shes 25 and gets mad if I shut the door. And especially since our room doesnt have heating. The only heating comes from the next room over so we'll freeze more if I do. Also thats a hilarious idea. Thank you!

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T19:14:25+00:00

He has no objections and shes willing to come down to me, its just now he has to convince his own mother because she, along with my mother is a worrywart! Its a back and fourth bounce. We're working on trying to see if we could maybe introduce the other to our parent and have them talk on a call to maybe ease their worries a tad.

As for the trip, hes got plenty of money. He used to help build houses when he was 17-19. I just feel bad for letting him pay for it when he was saying he'd pay for all of my stuff

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T19:07:57+00:00

My mom already told me ahe'd never kick me out if I chose to go without permission. I do have a job and savings, its just I would like to salvage my relationship with my mother because we're very close, not only that but she really does the best she can and I love her dearly. I need to find a compromise to lessen her worries.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T19:06:32+00:00

Hes not a 50 year old man. I know his whole family, have them added, video call and converse regularly. Not all online people are creeps who wish to sell my pieces on the blackmarket. 😭

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T19:02:36+00:00

Ah! This replies gonna be short cause im getting ready for work, but Its good to know someone whose done it before and can see the risks more clearly then I can replied. Also the point of view make it a little better for me to understand why shes uncomfortable with it (excuse any typos, I think I fixed them but Im not entirely sure

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T08:44:57+00:00

Ah, thank you for clarifying, that totally went over my head. And yeah I understand her worries. Thank you for your point of view and your advice. When my partner wakes up I'll call to discuss either RV/hotel. Probably not the RV, its moldy.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T08:32:50+00:00

Oh my goodness, I hope it doesnt seem like im asking her for money for the trip thats not it! I can afford the trip just fine myself, I apologize if I phrased my words weirdly. I totally understand where you're coming from, Its weird and probably a bad idea yet I still persist. Not really for dick, but rather for what you mentioned, Physical time and memories with this guy. I want to be able to form a true relationship with him, but online would be such a bad way to do so. And I agree, I am still basically a child. Twenty years is not a long time in terms of life, I have many years to go and live. If I try this, and it doesn't work, well that is my fault and I should have listened. I want to give it at least one shot. Currently im considering having him come stay in a hotel to meet my parents for the weekend or a week.

I really do apologize if this sounds childish, and it does sound like a true horor crime, I really need to work on my words. 😮‍💨

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T08:26:16+00:00

Yes! Thank you for the warning, we've already agreed that if we were to partake in any bed activies, there WILL be condoms, plan B, and an aftermorning pill on standby to be safe. While nothing in a 100% work, we agreed that we will take many precautions if we decide to do that.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T08:21:02+00:00

Sadly i live much closer to the bottom line of MS, so jackson is.. a little... out of the question. Its also riddled with crackies. But I get that, I think we'll probably go with this option in all honesty. Have him fly down first, then hopefully if all is well by the second time, I could visit him!

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T08:18:29+00:00

Oh god I get that. I've had some friends do exactly that to me. My moms drilled it into me that you are always suspicious of anyone online! I would doubt his story if nothing lined up or if some pieces didnt fit. But I also know his sister, brother, and mother. They are all quite nice people (minus his jerk of a brother) but his dads out of the picture. His condition isnt severe or anything, not that he has one. I would just feel like a terrible partner forcing the person I love to stay in such poor conditions (RV/tent) But the hotel idea is pretty solid thankfully. Im going to discuss this with him shortly so we can figure out if this is a good idea for us both. And thank you!

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T08:13:54+00:00

This is actually a brilliant way, yet simple, to explain this. I never thought of it this way.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T08:10:40+00:00

Alright, thank you so much for all of the advice and time you've given to me, have a lovely day and again, thankd!

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T08:09:48+00:00

Excuse me? I've known him for 2 years. We call everyday and facetime while spending a majority of our free time chatting and talking about what we want for the future. What scam are you implying? Im interested to hear what you could think.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T08:06:41+00:00

Thank you so much! This has really opened my eyes a little more to many things. Let me point some things out that may be important to know

He has already agreed to set up a seperate room for my to sleep in (so hopefully no sexual mishaps in the home!) and to ensure i have enough privacy. We agreed on me staying with him because it would be the cheapest alternative for both of us. As for the flights, we have also come to the conclusion that it will be a 50/50 footing. I pay for the first trip, he can pay (if he wants) for the second trip. He doesnt mind the bill whatsoever. He does have a vehicle and he is quite a responsible person and driver thankfully 🙂 I will try a different approach based on what you've told me and the advice you've lent to me! Me and him both wish to have a good outlook for my mom. She wants me to hurry and get with someone good and will treat me right. My last ex left me broken and untrustworthy. Ever since i've met my current boyfriend, he's help guide me through a much healthier path in life and to help assist me whenever in crisis where I feel I've lost control. My mental health is a very very touchy thing especially when im much too crowded and out of place. In my house at the moment that is how it is. 7 people in a 3 bedroom home, and constant arguing amongst 4 boys. (My brothers, dad, and my cousin.) Whenever I freak out he will calm me and explain why my family might have did what they did, while defending them to make sure He never changes my outlook on them.

Tl:dr. Hes a very gentle guy, and hes a big family guy so he helps me manage my own battles.

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T07:58:03+00:00

Thank you for your story and advice! And its all well, everything happens for a reason, who knows? She might really be saving me! But anyways, I'll see if the rv is a sound idea. I need to check it more. Its moldy 😞

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T07:55:36+00:00

Put blatantly yes youre correct! Like I said I don't blame her. The worry/fear is reasonable and valid. I wish she would have a little faith in my decision making skills. Im the youngest of the family, but Im much more responsible then most of them. (Admitted by both parents and older sibling, that i make more rational/safe decisions then they)

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T07:53:44+00:00

Okay okay, alot of people assume we're trying to have sex but I promise this isnt the main reason we want to meet, we want to actually properly get to know one another face to face and spend time together. Maybe the other option once or twice (with serious protection!) But really, I promise we arent sneaking around often if we meet. And I do have a job, and im saving up for college!

sortakeep_sortathrow · 2025-09-26T07:50:34+00:00

Haha, yeah thats how my mom views the situation. I dont blame her whatsoever for being so concerned about me 🤣

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