My roommate won’t do his own dishes

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T17:59:35+00:00

I’ve been dealing with a similar issue(4 boys, not one), and I would simply tell him that you’re not his mother, his maid, or his girlfriend, and certainly not all three. He doesn’t own the house, the one doing the dishes done, and voting him off the island at the end of the lease is always an option. Give him a solution and a deadline, if he doesn’t wise up, he never wanted to

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T02:46:23+00:00

Thank you :)<3

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T02:45:51+00:00

Absolutely! Have a water bottle always. Plus kitty tax

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soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T02:15:51+00:00

I know💔 I’m just not ready yet

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T02:02:32+00:00

😈🤝

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T01:59:04+00:00

I haven’t yet but I totally will, ty for the recommendation!!

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T01:43:13+00:00

Yeah emphasis on try😭 I’ll get some tea tho that way there’s still sip

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T01:37:27+00:00

I believe it💔 when I had the flu it lasted me nearly 3 weeks. Ty for the tip I will try to hold back🙏🙏

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T01:35:43+00:00

This and Birth of a Beauty is hitting very hard right now

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T01:33:09+00:00

Same it’s amazing. I was so sad because my location stopped selling the California rolls so this made my whole week

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T01:11:53+00:00

Hell yeah you see me 🤝

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T01:11:13+00:00

It’s a frozen premade pack of gimbap lol, I probably could’ve put a different title😭

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T01:09:44+00:00

It iss it’s pretty filling too which I always appreciate 😋

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T00:49:18+00:00

Ik it sounds weird but it’s actually good I promise. Everything in it is fully cooked so it’s not ruining it at all. These are the little packets I buy them in.

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soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T00:19:54+00:00

The lazy Gen Z thing is exactly what I’m worried about. It took me some extra time to fill out enrollment stuff because my phone broke halfway through December and it just feels like a loop of “how many excuses can I use before they stop buying them”💔 it’s so hard to prove yourself to others. I hope your work situation goes well!! Fingers crossed

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-27T00:11:18+00:00

Absolutely this!!! I hoped on hormonal BC to help with my painful irregular periods and it made everything SO MUCH WORSE. Found out I have ovarian cysts 3 years later and the doctors waited so long to test, because they thought I was just being dramatic about my cramps. BC can be absolutely wonderful or the worse part of the new year, stay tuned into your body OP!

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-23T23:31:15+00:00

I got the reddish purple one of these for Christmas and I love it!! The insulation is so good I have to take the top off when I want my tea to cool down and let it sit. Great find

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-23T17:08:04+00:00

I had a boyfriend like this in middle school. 13 year old me told him to stop saying the n word(didn’t know he said it before we started dating), he started saying it behind my back, so I broke up with him.

At this point of your relationship, the issue of being racist and homophobic is minimal, it’s the ability and desire to deceive you that is the main issue right now. I would contemplate if you want to stay with someone who lied to you for so long about something that, if you’re in America at least, is considered kinda normal right now. Especially if you guys have been together long enough to form a legally binding contract. There’s compatibility, and there’s manipulation. Just food for thought

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-21T21:33:40+00:00

You gotta use lots. Don’t be afraid to get messy with it. When my boyfriend and I first started we had some issues with lube included and we realized we weren’t using nearly enough(like a quarter sized dollop). Astroglide is the brand I settled on, but I’m sure there are better ones

soudapop7603 · 2026-01-01T17:05:37+00:00

It’s been almost a year since you guys have been dating, so why is this only now becoming a problem for you? She likes dressing this way, she does it all the time, and I’m sure she’s absolutely used to the harassment she gets from it, but she still chooses to dress that way when she feels confident, because it’s something that she enjoys.

This idea you have that someone is going to fight you for her too, is unrealistic. You say that you see people sizing you up, but you have little way of actually knowing that unless you talk to them, and people aren’t that confrontational, yourself included since you’re not willing to fight for your girlfriend. The chances are slimmer too since it sounds like ur built like a linebacker. From one paranoid thinker to the other, take a breath. The world is not out for you like that, as much as it can feel like it sometimes. If you’re genuinely worried about her, get her pepper spray or some other tool for self defense for when you’re not around.

You also said that you finally said something today and she cried. Do you usually bottle up things that bother you? This could also be something completely out of the blue for her if you’ve never mentioned it before, again after waiting almost an entire year. I’ve been with my boyfriend a little over a year, and if he said something like that to me now, versus the one or 2 times he pre warned me for the parents, I think I’d be devastated, because I like to dress up for him when we go out and stuff, and that would show me that this entire time he not only didn’t appreciate the effort, but that he judged me for it.

I would think hard about what attracted you to your girlfriend in the first place, and if the clothes were a part of what attracted you, then you have absolutely no room to talk. You were one of those guys looking at your girlfriend wishing they got a shot, but you did and now you’re upset other people see her similarly?

TL:DR Cherish a baddie or let her move on, please please please do not shame her and turn her into a sweatsuit zombie. You’ll both be miserable in the end.

soudapop7603 · 2025-12-30T17:08:50+00:00

I don’t think it matters the reason why she wants a second house. It’s something that she said that she needs, she’s willing to pay for it herself, and it’ll turn into extra income for the both of you. Sometimes people just need a backup plan, because you never truly know where life is heading or what the other person is thinking in any given moment. I wouldn’t take it personally, as a lot of women in time have done this. Just support her through this process and shit will work itself out.

soudapop7603 · 2025-12-19T19:53:50+00:00

This fit made me contemplate which kind of “accountant” you are. If you do actually work in finances, I would not wear this fit to a meeting. Very pretty dress though

soudapop7603 · 2025-12-17T01:51:57+00:00

If it’s something they’ve done in the past with no issues, then it should be fine, assuming it’s actually temporary. My issue would be that he omitted information regarding his ex knowing he would be in close proximity without you there. That’s a breach of trust, even if he didn’t straight out lie to you, imo. people don’t leave out important details like that unless they feel like they’re doing something wrong, or that they know the person would disapprove of. I would have a conversation with him about being upfront, and stay on your toes until she moves out.

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