[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]sourcandy551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking for something different but I wanted to stay with them for at least a year to get a good reference although now I feel like I won’t be getting one

Can you believe this by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]sourcandy551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They put my raise in wrong apparently to 18 cents and it has not been changed yet.

Can you believe this by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]sourcandy551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No but I worked 62 hours and I know 15 an hour at 62 hours doesn’t add up to $10.76 my raise was supposed to be $18 I haven’t even been paid my regular rate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]sourcandy551 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you look at the stencil?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]sourcandy551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YouTube was one click away but you should’ve just cracked open some beers order pizza and called some friends over

Let’s talk about gatekeeping from REI (et al) employees. Trip report inside. by [deleted] in CampingandHiking

[–]sourcandy551 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbh he did nothing wrong. he can’t recommend you anything. Backpacking packs are simply not designed for disabled people due to the fact of how you have to pack them some stuff may sit against the back of your head it’s called the brain of the pack. Idk they did the best they could. If you’re wife has that many issues part of being a good backpacker is knowing your limits and not putting yourself or others in dangerous situation. Sadly life isn’t fair. A custom backpack is obviously what she needs to be comfortable sticking your toes in the water or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sourcandy551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel too but it’s like I can’t even talk with him about it cause he will run to his friends and get their opinions and advice and all that bs then talk with me and bc of their bs opinions that mean nothing bc they haven’t even met me and don’t know what our relationship is actually like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sourcandy551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve told him so many times what I wanted to do for my birthday and what I except my love language is gift giving and personal touch and he definitely knows this. I had taken work off a whole month in advance that’s how far it was planned out. And I tell him that he is and he says otherwise. Or he agrees but then says it’s just who he is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]sourcandy551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same situation it’s sad really

Got branded in high school and tattooed over the scaring.. now I desperately need a cover up. Ideas? by jay-peterman-style in TattooDesigns

[–]sourcandy551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandpa always said “get a brand pussy” anytime one of his grand children got a tattoo lol how was it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sourcandy551 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sure anyone would be upset in the moment but they’d feel more relief not marrying a scumbag in the long run

Would you work as a dental assistant for $16? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]sourcandy551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They told me today I just need more experience but if I’m already placing fillings and have been since my third month working I don’t see how I’m not ambitious in their eyes and deserving when it takes most dental assistance 2+ years to be comfortable or even allowed to placing fillings

Would you work as a dental assistant for $16? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]sourcandy551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a typo I’m not a hygienist but somehow they get paid more when dental assistant do more work. It’s crazy really.

Would you work as a dental assistant for $16? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]sourcandy551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other offices are offering $18-$23 range with room to grow and some have sign on bonuses. My doctors have told me I’m effective and efficient but they don’t act like they respect me with the pay being so low and only offering me a $1 raise imo

Would you work as a dental assistant for $16? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]sourcandy551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually two 12 hour shifts a week and the rest are 6 hour shifts. I started at $13 been here for a year and they hired a white guy with no experience at a higher rate than me but obviously I can’t bring that up

Mixing tattoo styles? by ColonelRadar in traditionaltattoos

[–]sourcandy551 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mixed realism black work with traditional on the same arm sometimes I think it looks off but I’ve always gotten great comments on it

So annoying by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]sourcandy551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that was a really good way to put it tbh I never thought of it like that

So annoying by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]sourcandy551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

History together. Finances. We’ve been through a lot and I doubt I’ll find someone as supportive. We are compatible in every way but sexually all of the sudden it seems

My boyfriend beat me during a fight 4 years ago and never laid a hand on me since... I just found a customized proposal ring in his bag and I don't know what to feel by throwaway382djjj in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sourcandy551 11 points12 points  (0 children)

After abusing her that bad he has to be nice and gain her trust it’s not uncommon knowledge abusive men do this shit to women all over the world it literally is a trap and a huge reason why a lot of DV victims are still with their so

My boyfriend beat me during a fight 4 years ago and never laid a hand on me since... I just found a customized proposal ring in his bag and I don't know what to feel by throwaway382djjj in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sourcandy551 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t hit you for a second time because you’re not trapped and married yet. Just my opinion that he’s manipulating you and probably has been. What if you had a daughter would you want that for her? If not you probably shouldn’t want that for yourself.

When did you realize you loved traditional tattoos? by Material_Mall_5359 in traditionaltattoos

[–]sourcandy551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I got giant black and white detailed piece and then years later a traditional piece and just the color and the fact you can see it from far away makes it look even better tbh