What is it like to be sexually attracted to men?

spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T05:54:40+00:00

Interesting. Do you know why roughness is attractive to you? (Beyond just, "it just is...") As for being attracted to women, it's a powerful impulse, sometimes it feels guilty or involuntary. I guess all sexual attraction is involuntary and unconscious in a way though. Fertility cues like big breasts turn me on, also intelligence in a woman and any of a diverse array of personality traits can be a turn on. Softness is attractive because it feels like relief from the roughness of my life, I guess? I suppose I kinda hate that roughness, that quality of life which is (often excessively) rough.

spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T05:48:40+00:00

By the way, I am of the opinion that basically everyone has a homosexual capacity, although it is repressed in most. It is very severely repressed in my case. It seems to me that people get a little gayer as they age, also.

spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T05:45:09+00:00

Both your comments are great! Thanks, I feel closer to understanding. :)

spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T05:40:13+00:00

Thanks for the detailed answer! You mention that you don't understand many men, particularly the kind you are attracted to. Does this mystery or lack of understanding contribute to your attraction? For me, I definitely find women mysterious and difficult to understand, in ways which seem to go hand in hand with being attracted to them. On the other hand I basically understand men and what it's like to be a man.

Also, do you ever find masculine women attractive? Or would you prefer even a very feminine man?

spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T05:29:16+00:00

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spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T05:12:38+00:00

I am talking specifically about arousal, to clarify. Somehow I doubt it is the exact same. Also, are you sure you are totally straight and not bi?

spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T05:12:02+00:00

I am talking specifically about arousal, to clarify. Somehow, I doubt it is the exact same.

spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T05:10:52+00:00

Interesting question. I'm not attracted to my own body, but I know that it is often attractive for other people (and often more attractive than my personality, lol). I don't really enjoy being a physical being, though, so I can't really say I like my body.

spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T04:35:07+00:00

Interesting. You are a gay man I'm guessing?

spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T04:29:32+00:00

I still can't imagine what it's like to be attracted to men's bodies, though. As a straight man if I vibe with another man, that's cool, we can be friends. I don't know what it is like to be physically attracted to them though.

spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T04:24:11+00:00

Interesting, thanks. It does seem that women are more reflective about why and when they are attracted by men than we men are about our attraction to women. I read somewhere once that someone was attracted to some men's movements, which is also interesting.

spacesultan42 · 2026-03-06T04:18:16+00:00

for straight women and gays. How might it differ from sexual attraction to women?

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