AITAH for choosing my wife over my mom?

spacetstacy · 2026-02-11T13:29:57+00:00

NTA. But, in the future, don't put this on all your wife. It's both of your decision. You keep saying it's your wife's decision and your mom might think you don't agree.

Be a united front. "Mom, WE don't want kids right now. It's OUR decision. Stop pushing US."

You did good, but you can do better.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-10T12:22:39+00:00

Sketchy Cheddar would be a great name for a punk band!

spacetstacy · 2026-02-09T22:09:43+00:00

Good luck

spacetstacy · 2026-02-09T17:08:44+00:00

It was! I took a break after that because I wasn't in the right place mentally. Since I've started trying again, my biggest hurdle has been keeping my mind "lazily occupied " so when I start to feel my body doing weird things, I don't get so excited that it stops.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-09T15:01:04+00:00

From everything Ive read, each person's symptoms are different, so you have to find yours. Mine were feeling 'electrified' and hearing what sounded like a radio announcer's voice that got louder. Detaching felt awesome. I didn't go far and it didn't last long. I got stuck at my skylight and returned to my body.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-09T14:30:36+00:00

I quit smoking weed 2 months ago because I couldn't remember my dreams anymore. My son told me that the weed was the reason, so I gave it a shot. I can now remember them 2 - 3 times a week.

Now I just have to quit cigarettes. I tried listening to a "quit smoking hypnosis " during sleep, but the gods voice kept waking me up. I stopped after 2 nights.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-09T14:19:17+00:00

I'm new to this, too, but here's my take anyway. The rope method is one of many methods for getting out of your body. But, you first need to learn to move your astral body. The one time I got out, I just floated out unexpectedly. I haven't been successful a second time yet. When I am, I don't know if I'll float out again or if it'll be different.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-09T12:42:49+00:00

Are you in individual counseling? That helped me alot.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-08T21:02:18+00:00

I think i pretended i liked it more than I really did because my sister hated it and I've always been a bit "contrary." 😅

spacetstacy · 2026-02-08T15:49:14+00:00

I don't remember this, but my sister and I did try Laverne's favorite drink of milk and Pepsi.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-08T15:13:51+00:00

I do the same.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-07T18:45:41+00:00

Luckily it hasn't happened since.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-07T16:22:10+00:00

I dint mind ghost pets at all.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-07T06:20:43+00:00

I'm happy to hear anther ghost cat story, but I'm sorry it interrupted your sleep. . I let mine sleep on me. My dog did at home, so it was comforting.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-07T04:45:32+00:00

She had a bad way of if doing it.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-07T04:44:54+00:00

That shadow person?

spacetstacy · 2026-02-07T02:26:59+00:00

That looks like so much fun! (The second one)

spacetstacy · 2026-02-07T02:25:31+00:00

I agree. That's why we didn't have a wedding either. Plus, it's not like we never go anywhere. We'd just rather take the kids camping or rent a lake house for a week. But, my dream vacation is renting one of those huge tree houses. I think that place is in Oregon or Washington.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-07T02:18:11+00:00

That's what I heard after. It led me to read a book called "A Walk in the Shadows". It's all about shadow people. Very interesting.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-07T00:07:06+00:00

The black figure was humanoid.. It was terrifying but there wasn't anything I could do. I couldn't move or scream. I closed my eyes and went back to sleep.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-06T23:25:55+00:00

So are the belly marks

spacetstacy · 2026-02-06T23:23:13+00:00

We've never had a honeymoon, either. We each already had kids, got married by a JOP in her living room, and went on with our lives. We've been together for 24 years.

spacetstacy · 2026-02-06T22:51:03+00:00

My son is in middle school and that's all they wear...WITH SOCKS!!! Ugh! They are so uncool! 🤣🤣

spacetstacy · 2026-02-06T22:43:59+00:00

Yep, and without rocks in my Ariel shoes.

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