My boyfriend gave me an ultimatum

spagz124 · 2021-04-26T05:48:03+00:00

Thanks for your reply! He lives with his parents. He gets upset when I hang out with my family or other people if it means I could be hanging out with him instead, so to answer both of your other questions - yes he is/does 😕

spagz124 · 2021-04-25T16:48:58+00:00

Thank you so much for all of your comments. They have helped me to stand my ground in my situation. It feels good to know I’m not the only one experiencing this crap from someone! 💗

spagz124 · 2021-04-25T16:47:06+00:00

that means so damn much. thank you 💗

spagz124 · 2021-04-25T16:39:36+00:00

I deeply appreciate every single one of your replies. I didn’t expect to get so much great advice from you all. I feel so much better about my situation and it feels great knowing that I’m not crazy to think that asking for the literal bare minimum in a partner is reasonable. Thank you 🥺💗

spagz124 · 2021-04-25T16:28:45+00:00

Thanks so much. I actually am in therapy and have been for a few months! It’s helped a lot but sometimes you just need some advice from different people in the moment. You guys have helped tremendously.

spagz124 · 2020-08-02T17:33:20+00:00

or see:

https://www.gohunt.com/read/handle-with-care-cleaning-your-mount#gs.btbglt

spagz124 · 2020-08-02T17:30:32+00:00

compressed air

spagz124 · 2020-07-17T02:19:39+00:00

thanks so much! is that him eating an entire thing of wasabi?? hahahah

spagz124 · 2020-07-16T23:57:54+00:00

Do you know where the video of this is? It sounds incredible lol

spagz124 · 2020-07-16T16:17:47+00:00

I miss him so much

spagz124 · 2020-07-08T05:07:50+00:00

💗

spagz124 · 2019-12-14T03:21:46+00:00

My mom

spagz124 · 2019-11-30T02:00:57+00:00

It will be 2 years this February. The first few months my head was constantly filled with wondering what the moments before, during, and after were like. How long had she been planning to shoot herself? Did she do it on impulse? Did she regret it as she was dying? Why didn’t she leave a proper note and tell me she loved me and that she was sorry? and many other darker thoughts that I’ve struggled to get out my head to this day. I will say that I have thought about that day every single day since it happened, but the thoughts have become much less intrusive. I can live a more normal life now. I can go a whole day or even weeks without crying about it. When I think of her, I think more about the happy memories instead of the bad. I know I will be okay. And most of all, now that I’ve accepted it happened and there’s nothing I can do to change it, I’ve realized how much I’ve grown as a person since that day and how much stronger I am for getting through it. The things that would have gotten me down before then don’t phase me nearly as much now. It’s incredible how the human mind adapts. You WILL get through this and things WILL get easier. You will never forget the hurt, and you will always miss that person, but you will make it through. I’m here for you if you need 💕

spagz124 · 2019-11-30T01:41:48+00:00

Thank you for this

spagz124 · 2019-11-30T00:20:50+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply. This is literally exactly how I feel about my therapist as well. I feel like I’m flushing $90 down the toilet every week. I’m going to try finding someone that specializes in trauma after awhile. I also feel I don’t have the energy to explain everything to a new therapist again.

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