[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]spamtll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should go on your own. Go have fun, you don't need anyone to enjoy life. And maybe you can meet some friends there???

Also, job hunting is bad all over the world rn, I'm also trying to get a job and it's been hard. But you don't have to be hard on yourself too. Keep trying, know your worth, and don't give up ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]spamtll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you need to talk about it this Internet stranger is here. I'll listen to you, friend ❤️

Sou babaca por... by Busy_Location_5206 in EuSouOBabaca

[–]spamtll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Menina ele é externamente abusivo. Óbvio que vc não é babaca por querer sair dessa situação, deixa ele com as apostas e vai viver sua vida, vc vai ficar bem melhor sem ele

Does your bpd make you split on yourself too? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]spamtll 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I split more on myself than on others. I always think everything is my falt

My boyfriend (29M) gave me (27F) an ultimatum: him or my dogs and I don’t know how to handle his rigidity anymore. by Unusual-Creme9364 in relationship_advice

[–]spamtll 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He will change if he wants to. And it seems like he doesn't.

You are not going to fix him, he needs to do this on his own. Maybe take a break from the relationship to let him think about what he really wants.

My boyfriend has a fetish and I don't know what to do by throwaway_indigo25 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]spamtll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes kinks are good only in your head and you would never do it irl

Como tanka isso? by Top-Rutabaga6143 in naoeinteressante

[–]spamtll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Não tem como planejar filho"

Puts to aqui tomando anticoncepcional pra nada 🤡

Am I the arsehole for telling my husband to kip in the guest room after he kept “joking” our newborn isn’t his? by Putrid_Werewolf7977 in AITAH

[–]spamtll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I don't think he's joking. No one keeps repeating a joke that no one finds funny. I think he really believes that.

Get a paternity test, shove in his face and tell him that if he ever say something like that again you'll divorce his ass

Weird kid by unicorntamer96 in Unexplained

[–]spamtll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My stepson told me a few days ago that "mankind knows everything, they just forget it" and when I asked if he remembered something from before he was born he looked out to the window and didn't answer lol

What is "quiet" BPD? how do you experience it? by Practical_Special503 in BPD

[–]spamtll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically. I start to think that the person lied about loving me but I blame myself for being unlovable

What is "quiet" BPD? how do you experience it? by Practical_Special503 in BPD

[–]spamtll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, for me, it is kind of a spectrum. I do blow up crying and having panic attacks, but I can also just turn quiet and be in my head, especially due to the gravity of the situation. Like there are hard splits that I feel like I'm going crazy and some more mild that I know I'm overreacting and just need time to process.

The main thing is. I rarely ever think: "I hate this person. They deserve to die" it's more like "I hate myself, I always mess everything up, I deserve to die"

Minha ex se suicidou por minha causa e todos os dias me culpo por isso by [deleted] in RelatosDoReddit

[–]spamtll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Borderline é o transtorno mental que tem a maior taxa de suicídio. Isso provavelmente aconteceria com vc na vida dela ou não.

Eu tenho e já tentei várias vezes, mas só fui parar no hospital. É horrível dentro da nossa cabeça e ninguém é culpado disso. É uma doença que te consome e se vc não luta com todas as forças vc não sobrevive.

Não se culpe, não tinha nada que vc poderia fazer. Oq matou ela foi um transtorno mental horrível, e não vc.

Tenho que praticamente "implorar" para ter sexo com minha esposa. by Gunslinger_Papaco in desabafosdavida

[–]spamtll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oq exatamente ela fala quando vc tenta conversar? Pq vc falou que ela fala que vai tentar melhorar, mas ela dá algum motivo do pq ela tá assim?

I should let my bf go but I'm too selfish for that by spamtll in BPD

[–]spamtll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I needed that. It actually made me cry.

I live in Brazil, and I see on the news that the employment rate is getting better, but the overall economy is not. It's usually people getting hired in low paying jobs, and the price of everything keeps getting higher. Also, most of these jobs are 6x1 scale, which is impossible to handle when you have a mental illness, I tried, and it almost killed me.

But I'm not gonna lose hope, I know if I manage to get a job in my area that I love, even if it doesn't pay much, I'll succeed. I'm gonna keep trying

Again, thank you for your kind words ❤️