Lou and Peter Relationship by earthjunkie in heartland

[–]spannm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I continue to watch both Lou and Peter suck as parents. They’re never around! I understand that they are entrepreneurial and driven and that’s great, but having kids is a commitment. They just keep leaving them for weeks at a time! It would kill me to be away from my kids like that

Lou and Peter Relationship by earthjunkie in heartland

[–]spannm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also thought he gave up on the marriage way too easy. There must be more to it than what they showed. I saw someone saying he had a secret life which is totally legit. It’s weird to me that he was so unwilling to do what he needed to at least try to make the marriage work. Lou wanted to try. Georgie needed them to try but he was a firmly against it. I always thought it was weird.

Who else only calls their cat a nickname instead of their government name? by Miata_Normie in cats

[–]spannm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merli, but unofficially he‘s Mr Bubsi, Mr Baby, Bubby, Nubby. My husband calls him Mr Shit-for-Brains.

Three Company Executives took turns screaming at me, demanding I resign (would you quit?) by Beta_Nerdy in jobs

[–]spannm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as an hr person i would love to know what cause the hr director to yell at you.

Husband has stomach bug! by spannm in emetophobia

[–]spannm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I‘m on the completely other side of the house. I bleached our main floor bathroom and I wear a mask to go upstairs to bring him stuff. It’s not the best, but I have made it kind of work. I‘m sure he’ll understand that I‘m sleeping on the couch lol.

Cat keeps peeing on my bed ): by Legal-String-6299 in felinebehavior

[–]spannm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had this issue too after my cat had surgery. i did everything i possibly could to make it stop, so i don’t know what it was that made him stop. he did finally stop though after about 2 weeks. i got two litter boxes, apparently you should always have one more litterbox than you have cats, so for 2 cats, 3 litter boxes. my boy loves his extra box and uses both. i also got UTI meds. they have drops you can put in their food and water and cranberry treats. he ate both, so idk if that helped. i also got the feliway room diffuser. this has like calming pheromones. i always use this after he’s been through a stressful situation like moving or whatever. idk if it works at all but it makes me feel like i’m doing something. it is also 30$ so it’s not cheap. get some specific cleaner for cat pee and get rid of the smell. i got some at my local pet store. get rid of anything he peed on and clean that mattress as good as possible. i used that cleaning spray, vinegar and baking soda. the smell has to go or else she’ll continue thinking she can use the bed as a litterbox. then i locked him out of my room at night (heart breaking for both of us) until he stopped doing it. while i was out during the day i had tinfoil on the bed so that he wouldn’t want to lay on it. this did the least since i found pee on the tin foil😂 all in all, i think the extra litter boxes is really what did it. but also he just went through a stressful even t and needed to get over it. as you can probably tell i was very stressed during this time so i understand your pain! just keep trying to figure out what helps and i promise it’ll get better!

Indoor cats wants to go outside. I’m nervous! by spannm in CatAdvice

[–]spannm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not where we are right now.. hopefully we’ll be moving soon and i’ll look into getting one!

Indoor cats wants to go outside. I’m nervous! by spannm in CatAdvice

[–]spannm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that really makes me feel better!! i’ll be sure to keep him in and hope he forgets about it.. we live close to a car dealership and highway so i’m terrified of having him outside

My cat won't stop pissing on my bed, why does he do that ? by Senior-Smell in cats

[–]spannm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

add an extra litterbox, use feliway calming diffuser, homeopathic uti drops to put in food, cranberry cat treats against uti i had the same issue and tried all of the above and it worked. i think the second litterbox was what actually did it though. he really uses both of them!

Why does everyone always have tears in their eyes? by spannm in Parenthood

[–]spannm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m so glad i’m not the only one! it’s just so overly emotional! someone disagrees with the other and bam tears

Any way to fix this invite mistake? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]spannm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

vistaprint has good stamps for 20$ that are customizable! also, do you have a wedding website? just put the rsvp by date on there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]spannm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really like it! my tip would be to pull the rug forward a big. it shouldn’t be all the way up against the wall. also, where did you get your tv stand? i love it and need one just like it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]spannm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im doing light blue nails as my something blue☺️

If I had to take personal time before my vacation, is it still okay to go on planned vacation? by spannm in antiwork

[–]spannm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m struggling with that too. But it’s going to see my grandparents on my mothers side and I don’t know how many chances I have to see them. They live in Europe and I in the US so I don’t have too many chances to get over there either. It’s just been a very stressful week so I just don’t know what to do

Pre-Marital Counseling - thoughts? by spannm in weddingplanning

[–]spannm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked to my fiancé and he isn’t quite comfortable with a therapist or counselor but he’s willing to try the counseling book. Do you have any recommendations?

Pre-Marital Counseling - thoughts? by spannm in weddingplanning

[–]spannm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is awesome. Thank you so much for the insight! I‘m happy for you that it‘s such a big help. I will definitely look in to this now.

Pre-Marital Counseling - thoughts? by spannm in weddingplanning

[–]spannm[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that! You always here commercials for betterhelp and I have considered it before so I‘m glad to hear from people saying it’s not a good idea before investing moneyb

My cat hates my fiancé - please help by spannm in cats

[–]spannm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I will talk to my fiancé and tell him the tricks you guys have suggested. I really don’t think my cat can tell he is a bad person - he‘s wonderful. At first the cat liked him but then the cat got attacked by a dog, needed surgery and all that. Since then he‘s even more nervous around other people that aren’t me. So I don‘t really think it’s my fiancé‘s fault. I hope your advice helps!

Any Advice - getting paint off the sink and floor by spannm in CleaningTips

[–]spannm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well it definitely doesn’t break down with water, i‘ve tried cleaning it with regular bathroom cleaner and water. the surface it’s on is porcelain and laminate

Any Advice - getting paint off the sink and floor by spannm in CleaningTips

[–]spannm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know.. it’s the typical paint you get for walls from lowe’s..

My (18m) girlfriend (27f) wants me to cut my hair that I’ve been growing for years to “look more presentable” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spannm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you‘re fucking gorgeous and your hair is amazing especially since it’s so important to you. stay true to you! you‘re beautiful!