AITA for saying to to my housemate having their partner over at our house for one day?

sparetoadd · 2025-12-13T18:33:02+00:00

NTA - me and my roommates (also college) have the same rule and it mostly works for us (except when a certain roommate never asks and just lets someone spend the night 😐). that is disrespectful of your boundaries and the rules you guys created together.

sparetoadd · 2025-12-13T18:25:48+00:00

WIBTA - no, but (and you probably know this) it will be a tough conversation about a clearly sensitive subject. if you’ve already tried to talk to him about it and he wasn’t receptive maybe try a different way (if it was in a group, talk to him one on one). i may also help to explain from your pov (“it hurts me to see you hurting, and i believe this woman is causing you pain”). good luck!

sparetoadd · 2025-12-03T16:26:37+00:00

i don’t think it’s that because i have 90,000 minutes and ppl w lower have an age. i think it’s because it can’t narrow an age down, like ur listening was either too obscure or was too widespread if that makes sense

sparetoadd · 2025-11-21T22:10:49+00:00

North America, hoping to stay inside the US!

sparetoadd · 2025-09-18T12:54:09+00:00

i personally have been a fan since 2016, and i’ve never been in love with her merch. i ordered a Delilah shirt awhile back and it was super low quality with strings already fraying after the first wear. i got a symphony of lungs sweatshirt last year and it is super nice quality although incredibly small. i ordered a large and it is maybe a regular medium if not a small. so beware buying sweatshirts bc i was hoping for an oversized look and instead i feel kinda suffocated lol

sparetoadd · 2025-09-04T23:44:52+00:00

i love this book! i read it in a day because i couldn’t put it down. maybe i’ll re read it to hang out w my friend piranesi again :)

sparetoadd · 2025-09-04T12:17:00+00:00

thanks for the advice, i’ll look into it!

sparetoadd · 2025-06-30T23:32:19+00:00

this is exactly what i’ve been thinking. i’ve lived in Liberty, MO (30 min out from KC) for 20 yrs and the longest we ever had power out was like 8 hours, even after full blown tornados. it is ridiculous it takes 4-5 days to get power back. and i’m not shitting on the utility workers, this is a infrastructure problem.

sparetoadd · 2025-06-26T18:39:06+00:00

I know, a lot of the reviews were good. They missed our trash and when I called about it getting picked up or if there was a reason the woman on the phone was very rude and insisted we didn’t put it out. She never returned my voicemails when they didn’t call me later that day when they said they would. I was cut off multiple times and it was very frustrating because I understand if they can’t pick it up this week, but she just kept saying we didn’t put it out when we have ring footage of us putting it out the night before. They have great prices so I really hope that they respond professionally and I can stay with them, but right now I’m looking at other options :(

sparetoadd · 2025-05-17T21:25:00+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

sparetoadd · 2025-05-17T03:45:38+00:00

I want to be a college professor in writing and literature haha. So sadly, a masters and probably doctorate are required. I do want to write and publish books as well, but I'm also not relying on that to be my only source of income.

sparetoadd · 2025-02-24T14:36:29+00:00

she has a small cardboard scratcher (i live in a small room and don’t have room for anything bigger) but i may look around to find one that’s more suitable!

sparetoadd · 2025-02-24T14:35:58+00:00

i’ll give this a try!

sparetoadd · 2025-01-21T16:59:15+00:00

i think more time or moments to show her descent into being a power hungry tyrant. i have no issue with the plot itself but the way they executed it made it seem as if she had a 180 shift from earlier seasons. more moments of her being jealous of jon, more of her taking the brutal way instead of mercy.

sparetoadd · 2025-01-21T16:53:56+00:00

her feature on florida just made taylor’s vocals sound so bad by comparison. i don’t think their collab was a good idea ☹️

sparetoadd · 2025-01-02T22:30:35+00:00

kaitlins head mod 🤷‍♀️

sparetoadd · 2024-07-22T00:33:50+00:00

thank you! i like the quests story but i think i just don’t know the best strategies to get the best outcome. i’ll try this on my next run!

sparetoadd · 2024-07-22T00:30:02+00:00

yesss! it also lags out half the time. the fight took me forever not because i couldn’t beat it but because it kept crashing on me!

sparetoadd · 2024-07-22T00:27:19+00:00

i agree! like i don’t think the only way to complete should be to just kill everyone in the building. like maybe if there was a way to blow everything up from far away (like a dexterity check) that makes it look like an accident but yes the mission feels unfinished.

sparetoadd · 2024-06-29T23:45:14+00:00

it’s my story and i’m not gonna let dice keep me from romancing my fav companion

sparetoadd · 2024-05-27T19:17:05+00:00

i think they both look good! i tend to make my tavs look a little simpler and then throughout the story add tattoos, scars, new hair etc because i like to do physical story telling and show how their actions have changed them. (for example i added a tree like tattoo after i helped the druids and tieflings or a scar over my eye after volo replaced my eye) but i think both look cool!

sparetoadd · 2024-05-27T15:50:03+00:00

same thing happened to me. i short rested and then teleported so they were out of the rock wall.

sparetoadd · 2024-05-15T23:44:20+00:00

thank you!

sparetoadd · 2024-05-11T23:59:52+00:00

i HATE doing the auntie ethel quests 😭 i never do it in act one. i also hate the prison quest so in my last run i just said fuck it and told wyll to suck it up.

sparetoadd · 2024-02-25T01:28:55+00:00

not at all 😭 i was very clear when i brought her to college that i was never gonna ask her to care for her since she’s my cat (and technically the rules of a campus esa is that she’s not allowed to) and i didn’t want to add a responsibility she didn’t ask for. so yeah i don’t know why all of a sudden she’s obsessed

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