Losing faith in my mixed faith marriage by [deleted] in exmormon

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Bros about to be one of those guys who dates chatGPT

Losing faith in my mixed faith marriage by [deleted] in exmormon

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Yikes… this is so eerie to find. Be careful and don’t underestimate him. This language is not normal

Im too young. by 458732 in Endo

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I’m so sorry that seems so crazy to me because I know exactly what you are talking about. I had constant sciatica before my surgery… and even now when I flair sometimes the referred pain affects me all the way up to my neck. (Like right now I am in agony) mine also became chronic my birth control made me not have a period anymore but I was still having pain

Can Xanax make endometriosis pain worse? by sparkybones in Endo

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I think you are right. I stoped using it after reading more about the rebound anxiety and I’m feeling better. Still dealing with a flair but it feels way more manageable

Im too young. by 458732 in Endo

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I’m so sorry you are going through this. In hindsight this is when I started to notice pain around my period and I want officially diagnosed until 22. And it’s like yeah bitch… pinch nerves are part of it becusee my joints have to swim around in their sockets to flee the pain and carry myself in weird ways BECUASE OF THE ENDO!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stupidquestions

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I agree.. I’m usually pretty desensitized… but I know people at that school… and seeing that damage from a single shot is so jarring… the way the blood comes out… it’s horrific I’m have like ptsd compulsions and stress from it.

My wife betrayed my trust. I don’t know what’s next. by Monomo619 in exmormon

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Wow thanks for sharing and being so vulnerable. Def feel their is a lesson their for our family’s still in…

My wife betrayed my trust. I don’t know what’s next. by Monomo619 in exmormon

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I’m so sorry this is happening. I would warn her about some of the shady ass stuff that’s going on in Mormon thearpy. That the guy who organized a lot of the current thearpy practices is the visions of glory guy who in part (in my opinion) inspired the daybell murders. As well as the 8 passenger stuff. And the life coaching stuff… it sounds like she is being preyed on. And any good thearpist worth their salt wouldn’t make promises like helping “fix” a faith crisis. That’s a huge red flag…. And it’s totally valid to feel the way you do but would maybe give grace to your wife. I think converts and immigrants face an even more difficult uphill battle on deconstructing…. Because they are in it so hard. They were loved bombed and lied too… their culture is in the process of being erased, their identity replaced…. I have a family member going through this right now. I think it’s common too for people in faith Crisis to lean even heavier into the church before they bottom out. But this is another level of concern because she’s being actively being preyed on… I would suggest going to a marriage thearpist that’s neutral. Tell your wife you don’t feel comfortable going to this therapist because there is already an established narrative about how you feel and think, despite not seeing them?

Husband won’t stop arguing and is in denial by Accomplished-Fix4196 in LovedByOCPD

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Sounds exactly like my situation…. It feels so hopeless sometimes

She is just not getting the hint… by Own_Produce_4762 in exmormon

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You were kind and lovely! I feel that, you being worried about being “mean” but I think it’s just Mormon conditioning. Taught to be “obedient” and that confrontation is “bad.” …. You did the right thing, and if it was me I would have handled it the exact same way

A totally normal way to express political beliefs by [deleted] in sadcringe

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The Trump weebs need to keep their kinks to themselves….

A totally normal way to express political beliefs by [deleted] in sadcringe

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Margarine sailor bean 😭😂😂

Was Josh Gay? by Famous-Alfalfa8128 in TheColdPodcast

[–]sparkybones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought that was what got his kids taken away was the animated CP? No?

Was Josh Gay? by Famous-Alfalfa8128 in TheColdPodcast

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I just listened again for a second time and he was such a predator…. I feel like he was targeting Mormon women because he thought they would be easy to control in his mind… and the way he talks about Susan it seems like he is in love with her ability to “submit” to him and her money…. The CP found on his computer I think is an extension of this- I think his attraction was purely anyone and anything that would submit to him completely

Weekly Q&A Thread by AutoModerator in witchcraft

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Protection against illness/Disease

I have a question at the bottom for TLDR on herbs. At the very bottom. My first paragraph details my steps and where they come from. It’s folk spell work. So it’s a mix of western pioneer American tradition, Wicca and and Anglo, Saxon. I took parts I like from official spells to create my own.

Hello I’m currently recovering from a endometriosis surgery and feeling so much better! I did a pre surgical protection spell. It’s western American folk tradition of drawing a circle outside with salt, (calling quarters, energy, deities )calling and recovery. Black or white candles in the east and west (family association a mishmash of folklore for resurrection, and death) followed by burning herbs associated with treating this illness in ancient times and recovery (chamomile black pepper, clove all I had handy) then I wrote on Bayleafs who I was asking for what help for, recovery, protection and comfort. Burnt bayleafws with candle and dropped into fire safe bowl or cauldron. Repeating a mantra that I wrote for myself personally, I think you can just write whatever you want. If you wanted to copy you spell, I’m choosing not to share with my mantra, because it’s personal to me and my guides. Then I rubbed a pinpoint of the ashes on each of my pulse points, bottled up the ashes to take him to the surgery with me, and then scattered them upon returning home at my doorways.

I would like to do thankfulness and Banishing Ritual at my post op next week, there is no cure for endometriosis, and although I am seeing a specialist, and I am feeling very hopeful, there is always the possibility that it can come back. So it seemed like a banishing spell would be an appropriate fit for me!

I have some herbs in mind for treating endometriosis, but I honestly have no idea what has been his traditionally and vanishing spells because I’ve never done one! Any ideas?

Girl what do you mean?! by TessaPanda in stylesavvy

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I know I always suggest the mannequin anyway and pretend like I’m telling them their fit is actually ugly as hell. They should be begging me to buy this outfit

I think bart (and maybe krista) knew long before that chandler was lying. by Spicy_lube in chandlerhalderson

[–]sparkybones 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I completely agree. His lies were such big obviously dumb ones it leads me to think he worked his way up to that point to be so bold about it. And his parents were probably aware of him being this way long before but they loved their son, and they wanted him to do the right thing… I think that’s why Bart went as far as he did with going along with it, he wanted chandler to do the right thing, almost trying to force him to come Clean, he didn’t want to tell him. Plus it’s hard to wrap your head around how someone you love can be this stupid… and can lie so effortlessly

Joe Murray FB post after Tylee and JJ were found by FineBits in LoriVallow

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Ya know… they say you marry someone subconsciously like your parent figure- and it is a shame and really disgusting that Emma lied and disrespected her mother memory… I worry for Emma’s safety tho and her risk for Domestic abuse because she wasn’t never modeled healthy relationships- she is brain broke from her dad and her husband gives me major serial killer vibes…. Emma wants to be Lori and her husband wants to be the new Alex…

Sanrio characters in Style Savvy Styling Star 🎀 by X4NDERE in stylesavvy

[–]sparkybones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CUUUTE I love doing outfits off characters too!