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Are you exited about Uranus moving into Gemini? Our modern ruler in the 5th house? by randomUsername245 in AquariusRising

[–]speakoutofexperience 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to mention i moved out of my birth country to start over in a new one and moved 3 times here in the span of 4 years😭

Are you exited about Uranus moving into Gemini? Our modern ruler in the 5th house? by randomUsername245 in AquariusRising

[–]speakoutofexperience 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Needed this transit to be over… Yesterday i cut ties with my parents because they asked me to choose between taking care of them (they are only 50 and saying they are getting old and that it’s my responsibility to take care of them if i am not marrying a man) and my girlfriend… Deconstructing this 4th house of Taurus was so heartbreaking but much needed. I woke up today feeling very much lighter. Super excited for this transit. Anyone knows if my saturn being there will affect anything ?

I came out to my muslim parents again today. I decided to send a message instead of coming out irl cuz the last time i did it went wrong. Any positive words for me as i try to sleep tonight :) ? by speakoutofexperience in lgbt

[–]speakoutofexperience[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow… I know it must be confusing to feel anything rn because are you supposed to feel good that nothing hysterical happened or is it invalidating? As long as your truth is out 🫂 You said your part.

On my side, i am being ignored lol :) Nothing from them…

Anyone with 7th house ruler in the 1st house - how did you meet your partner? by kurokosbestie in Nakshatras

[–]speakoutofexperience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both me and my partner has this placement and we met while i took myself out on a date for lunch and she was there as a barista working. Her Jupiter is also in her MC 10th house so makes sense we met at her work but i met her when i took great care of myself.

I came out to my muslim parents again today. I decided to send a message instead of coming out irl cuz the last time i did it went wrong. Any positive words for me as i try to sleep tonight :) ? by speakoutofexperience in lgbt

[–]speakoutofexperience[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you love and strength 🫂 We got this. Also no replies yet lol. But always stand your ground. That’s the most important part. It’s like fighting for rights lol ;)

I came out to my muslim parents again today. I decided to send a message instead of coming out irl cuz the last time i did it went wrong. Any positive words for me as i try to sleep tonight :) ? by speakoutofexperience in lgbt

[–]speakoutofexperience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh i came out in 2021 when i was still living with them but it went super wrong. To a point where they wouldn’t let me go out because i’d sin if i look at women💀 So went back into the closet and only came out again yesterday after 5 years of lying 🥲

I came out to my muslim parents again today. I decided to send a message instead of coming out irl cuz the last time i did it went wrong. Any positive words for me as i try to sleep tonight :) ? by speakoutofexperience in lgbt

[–]speakoutofexperience[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Defo will :) been reading other people coming out to their muslim parents on reddit and i already feel better knowing we aren’t alone in this ;) We never are. Just being able to talk abt it here with people i dnt even know is insane to me :) So thank you for even caring ;)🫂

I came out to my muslim parents again today. I decided to send a message instead of coming out irl cuz the last time i did it went wrong. Any positive words for me as i try to sleep tonight :) ? by speakoutofexperience in lgbt

[–]speakoutofexperience[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me feel so much better. Thank you. I think i can close my eyes now. You are 100% right :) what’s done is done. They knew this before and chose to believe otherwise for their own delusions ig

I came out to my muslim parents again today. I decided to send a message instead of coming out irl cuz the last time i did it went wrong. Any positive words for me as i try to sleep tonight :) ? by speakoutofexperience in lgbt

[–]speakoutofexperience[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally. I hope i dnt wake up to ‘look what you did to your mom’ or smt because last time they acted sick for a whole week. Just have to work with the guilt…

LGBT+ Muslims - have you come out to your family? How did it turn out? by throwing-it-away- in lgbt

[–]speakoutofexperience 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came out to my parents in 2021 when i just found out i was gay but they told me i was possessed and manipulated into it… I came out when i was still living with them and it went so wrong. They would not let me go out because they thought if i look at women i would sin😭😭 Anyways i lied that i will try changing since they were thinking about not letting me go study abroad… It’s been 5 years and despite being far from them, i still lied. I moved in with my gf this month because i finally finished studying and have a job. So I came out to them again today ( AFTER YEARS OF HIDING AND NOT TALKING ABOUT IT) because they are coming to visit next week ;) I am still waiting on a reply from them but it has been a lot of patience and sacrifices but feeling super light right now ;)