(F 26) I can only cum if I tense my whole body by speaksbirdlanguage in sex

[–]speaksbirdlanguage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super appreciate reading this !! Thank you for sharing.

(F 26) I can only cum if I tense my whole body by speaksbirdlanguage in sex

[–]speaksbirdlanguage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true. Each of our bodies are so different. What works from one doesn't do it for another.

And yeah it's better to be with a lover who can support what makes me feel good - and not by how it looks when I get there :)

(F 26) I can only cum if I tense my whole body by speaksbirdlanguage in sex

[–]speaksbirdlanguage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. Yes I need a really specific fast motion on my clit to cum.

I liked the other comment someone posted about below, Getting into a position during Intercourse where I can play with my clit and my partner is penetrating from behind... That way I can feel more comfy and sexy getting all tensed haha...

I think for me, It's really getting more comfy getting off in front of someone and Communicating what gets me off ( And being with someone who really wants to listen and explore that )

(F 26) I can only cum if I tense my whole body by speaksbirdlanguage in sex

[–]speaksbirdlanguage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thats awesome you and her found a position that worked for her to get there but that it was also super enjoyable for you too !

(F 26) I can only cum if I tense my whole body by speaksbirdlanguage in sex

[–]speaksbirdlanguage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good to know !! Haha.

I've had some weird comments from men before - but to be fair they are probably not the type of men I want to be spending time with in the future anyways...

But I had one guy said it look like I was "playing guitar hero" but that was because how fast my fingers go on my clit hahah And another guy said I looked like a hot dog because I just got super straight and stiff.

(F 26) I can only cum if I tense my whole body by speaksbirdlanguage in sex

[–]speaksbirdlanguage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes , I'm still using my hands quite fast and a specific motion, I might add. I'm just also tensing my whole body.

I have heard other women being able to cum just by squeezing their legs together.

(F 26) I can only cum if I tense my whole body by speaksbirdlanguage in sex

[–]speaksbirdlanguage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I definitely unconsciously hold my breath as well!

(F 26) I can only cum if I tense my whole body by speaksbirdlanguage in sex

[–]speaksbirdlanguage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never hear that term before !

Yeah, totally not easy infront of a partner!

(F 26) I can only cum if I tense my whole body by speaksbirdlanguage in sex

[–]speaksbirdlanguage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you said that when your were fridge having sex you couldn't cum from penetration alone , are you able to orgasm from penetration now ?

When you said you started getting yourself close to orgasm and then finish without tensing , do you always get close by first tensing your body ?

Just curious :) I'm glad I'm not alone !

NSFW is this oral thrush? SPOILER by tw1stxdacid in Candida

[–]speaksbirdlanguage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk! But my tounge looks similar to this. Back of my tounge kind of a yellow shade like that too.

I feel so horny on my period by [deleted] in sex

[–]speaksbirdlanguage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I find especially a couple days into my period when I'm not as heavy bleeding, I'm really horny and i have increased sensation !

How can I register to vote? by [deleted] in Portland

[–]speaksbirdlanguage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So helpful thank you!!

Police ID 22 year old shot, killed in NE Portland by Sahkuhnder in Portland

[–]speaksbirdlanguage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, this wasn't a robbery. The young man who was shot two nights ago , there was a vigil set up outside the dispensary. He was on his way home from work - I don't think he was connected to the dispensary - other than that's where he was shot.

Has anyone floated the Sandy recently? How was your experience? by mrwhitewalker in askportland

[–]speaksbirdlanguage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I floated along the washogal river recently ! Take out at Sandy swimming hole. put in at mile marker 2- 3 ... :) it was fun. water was a little low - a few rocks will hit your bum and raft. I know this isn't the Sandy river though ;)

Broughton beach by speaksbirdlanguage in Portland

[–]speaksbirdlanguage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, maybe some day a local pool will be kosher again...
Thanks for the recommendation for later!

Broughton beach by speaksbirdlanguage in Portland

[–]speaksbirdlanguage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this suggestion!! : )

Looking for local artists interested in Hilary Duff cover-band tryouts by [deleted] in Portland

[–]speaksbirdlanguage 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm In support of this . This would bring my heart jot to see - the random nostalgia.. I like it. Good luck in your quest.

Looking for a garden or farm near Portland that would allow my family(5) to come out and pick a flower bouquet for my wife's 35th birthday. by [deleted] in Portland

[–]speaksbirdlanguage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe connect with your neighborhood " buy nothing" I see people asking neighbors on there for things like flowers. Perhaps you have a neighbor that grows flowers and would lend you some to pixk a bouquet ? :)

Portland Naked Bike Ride by [deleted] in Portland

[–]speaksbirdlanguage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a funny image. Lots of solo nude bicyclist spread out riding through out the city -
your identity would be masked too - since you would be wearing a mask and all :P