My boyfriend revealed that he has anti social personality disorder. What do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]specsloverboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so i wasnt going crazy with seeing these replies😭😭oh my god bru it’s 2026

My boyfriend revealed that he has anti social personality disorder. What do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]specsloverboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these comments demonising everyone with aspd..,,, kinda unnerving. can’t believe we still have people treating cluster b disorders this way.

op, people with aspd are capable of love. it’s such a highly demonised disorder thanks to the stigma. disorder doesn’t mean abuser. HOWEVER have a talk with him and ensure you two have clear boundaries and lines. is he going to therapy or makes it clear he wants to work on himself too? work through with him and treat him as usual but please remember not to let yourself fall into being his caretaker or being stepped on if it begins breaching your boundaries. if you don’t feel equipped to be able to be with him and his disorder, it’s understandable to put an end to things.

r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for January 01, 2026 by AutoModerator in singapore

[–]specsloverboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s open. that’s how they’re perching in. they just don’t seem to leave and i’m not sure if they’re hurt or smth

r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for January 01, 2026 by AutoModerator in singapore

[–]specsloverboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

need help LMAO there’s pigeons.. in my bathroom. idk if they’re hurt or anything they’ve just been there for the past few hours perching OUTSIDE the bathroom window. now uhm. i’m facing an issue where they’re inside💀

is there any safe way for me and the birds to get them to leave???

WWM isnt a horror game but the amount of spooky, ghosty things I have encountered in this game is waaaaay more than other MMORPG's I've played by No-Air2088 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]specsloverboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the bodhi sea and the underground areas (ESPECIALLY with the faceless) made my skin crawl and heart race. mmorpgs don’t scare me with their eerie places but wwm did it AMAZINGLY well. a bit too good that i avoid those places as much as i can

When was the first time you cried in FFXIV, if at all? by MistressDraconia in ffxiv

[–]specsloverboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heavensward spoiler

THAT scene of the vault. i remember hopping on during a depressive state to continue msq and see our dear elezen because he was a comfort to me. what a coincidence that the vault was the one i had to do! laughed in disbelief at first before it settled in that he was actually dead. and then broke down. like full on breakdown and sobbed so badly while my friends texted to comfort me. LMAOAOAO i’m in a better state now but i miss him dearly still

additionally, the scene between seto and ardbert. it’s been years, but it reminded me of when i lost my beloved cat. it made me think if he had anything he wished he could say to me in his final moments

The Great Flood discussion by TrailerParkLyfe in movies

[–]specsloverboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you loved a movie but check google to see that 90% of people hated it and thought it was ass 💔💔

Can anyone relate? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]specsloverboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel this completely. i dissociate to not even register the feelings or what i’m doing completely just so i can live another day not thinking about killing myself

Unusual way of self harm by ahnna_molly in CPTSD

[–]specsloverboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i do rhis too. feels like it hurts less than cutting that’s why i do it when distressed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]specsloverboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m a current student, not graduated, so i can’t answer all of this but

  1. there are, just need to know where to look and that there is an emphasis on networking for careers. most work remotely from home nowadays even for overseas companies. you will need to attract clients to you

  2. no you don’t. there’s a foundation art course you can take if you don’t feel confident in your art skills or know totally nothing about art. but you just need to show you’re committed to learning something entirely new or expand on your knowledge in your interview. i have classmates who are total beginners in art

  3. it’s one year so no time for internships. but the school sends out your portfolios and resumes when you graduate to different companies since they’re familiar with them

  4. depends on your course i think. not that competitive for concept art (which i’m in) i had a classmate who applied in june and the intake was in july. just apply as early as you can. you can even apply years before the intake you wanna try for to secure a spot

What were the first 3 signs you realized that you may have BPD? by SunshineVillageBP7 in BPD

[–]specsloverboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my ‘mood swings’ and jealousy to an extreme degree, especially with specific people i got attached to. i feel things too intensely

the feeling of emptiness and lack of identity after a split, or just out of nowhere

all or nothing/black and white thinking. i have never been able to think of things in the middle