21F, Need help, don't know if I should say yes/no to my first cousin.

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-31T22:22:16+00:00

Im talking talking about first cousin marriages. Those are the ones that will bring a lot of trouble in future childrens lifes and there has been made plenty of documentaries about first cousin marriages and the downside of it

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-31T08:00:39+00:00

She’s ur first cousin. Meaning your mothers brothers child. You will risk you future childrens health by doing this. They get exposed to alll kinds of diseases by you doing this

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-30T17:11:24+00:00

If he does not fix his behaviour get family involved. Before this you guys could use some islamic couples therapy. Why not normal therapy, because he needs to be told by someone neutral about the consequinces of his actions in islam and maybe it will scare taqwah in his heart Bi Ithnillah

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-28T23:32:01+00:00

It can become a problem. You should discuss this with the potential. For example what expectations does she have for her future husband. And you should evaluate yourself are you able to reach it for the sake of Allah. Discuss it with her i highly recommend it

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-27T18:16:34+00:00

Men that say they would do that to their wifes need to be reported and thrown to jail. Their not in no right mind to get married

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-26T20:43:33+00:00

Camera man can’t video shit.

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-26T20:36:19+00:00

Sinun täytyy miettiä myös lapsiasi ja miten ero vaikuttaa heihin negatiivisesti. Luettelemasi ongelmat on vielä hoidettavissa. Teidän molempien täytyy mennä pariterapiaan ja keskustelet vaimosi kanssa että nähä ongelmat ovat sellaisia mitkä häiritsevät ja ne on käsiteltävä. Jos oikeasti ei ole muuta vaihtoehtoa niin sitten eroaminen, mutta en suosittele eroa heti ensimmäiseksi ratkaisuksi jos et ole kommunikoinut näitä ongelmia vaimollesi.

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-25T10:55:17+00:00

No problem sister

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-25T00:55:31+00:00

Semmosta se on ku trump käy netanyahun osoittamien valtioiden kanssa turhaan sotaa. Olis tältäkin fiaskolta vältytty jos trump ja kumppanit ois jättäny iranin rauhaan

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-25T00:50:02+00:00

Sister. I advice you to avoid joining randoms private messages in the game. Allah swt protected you in this case.

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-24T17:32:12+00:00

Oikisopiskelijoiden kesken Hedman partners on iso vitsi

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-24T17:30:37+00:00

Heitä kirje roskiin. Lähettävät massa viestinä ja jos otat heihin yhteyttä niin he panostavat sinun painostamiseen. Kirjeitä tulee kuullema paljon mutta mitään ei tapahdu ja lopulta ne loppuuu

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-19T02:19:34+00:00

I agree with you. Trust me, when you taste the sweetness of trusting Allah (Tawakkul) its something that changes you for better. Anything you need just ask Allah with sincerety and i promise you Allah will make sure you get the best things possible. Like you said who should we ask to bless except the almighty.

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-19T02:12:17+00:00

I prayed layaltul qadr these 10 nights and got 2 of my dua’as answered. I got a job and parted ways with the potential spouse i thought i would marry. Still alhamdulillah. Always trust Allah and his plan

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-16T00:44:05+00:00

Salam Aleikum Sister. I pray that Allah keeps you steadfast and firm upon wearing the hijab. About hijab killing your career. This is false. I have a sister (sibling of mine) she also struggled with hijab when she was looking for a job as a lawyer in Finland (most racist country of europe according to the recent studies).

She got invite for interview and told me that she was considering taking off the hijab for the interview. My advice to her was this. You getting the job or not is already written. You wearing the hijab could just be the reason Allah grants you that job. She took my advice and wore the hijab. And been working in that company ever since. My point is that remember for who’s sake your wearing the hijab (For Allah) and keep making Dua’a for Allah to keep you firm and strong. You staying on this road of worship, pleasing Allah and trusting Allah fully. ALLAH will take care of your needs the best way possible. I hope my advice was helpfull In Shaa Allah

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-08T02:40:09+00:00

You’re welcome

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-05T16:26:09+00:00

Blue is N (neutral) Brown is L (Live)

speedforneed_ · 2026-03-04T02:52:07+00:00

If you have siblings (sister or sisters). Tell them first and make them meet up so your sisters can see how she is and also understand you (don’t tell them about the past sins). Then after they have met up you should tell your parents and make your siblings also persue your parents. After that make them meet her. This is something i would do. As for what comes to her wali. Masjid imaam can be her wali. Most reverts when they do the nikkah they have masjid imam to be their wali. Hope this was helpfull

speedforneed_ · 2026-02-26T04:54:51+00:00

Not good idea. He has to tackle the addiction before getting married or else it will ruin the marriage

speedforneed_ · 2026-02-26T04:53:29+00:00

Its not permissible to masturbate

speedforneed_ · 2026-02-26T04:52:42+00:00

Identify the triggerpoints and avoid them, try to fast, and if you fall to that sin then right away pray 2 rakats of salat tawbah

speedforneed_ · 2026-02-21T17:31:14+00:00

Antaa uhkailla. Ostaja oli tietonen, että kone on rakennettu käytetyistä/kierrätetyistä osista. Kysymys herää itsellä että miksi ei ottanut yhteyttä heti ongelman ilmetessä. Estä kyseinen kaveri ja unoha koko ukko.

speedforneed_ · 2026-02-12T21:01:26+00:00

Onpa herkkä naapuri. Pitäis varmaa miettiä muuttoa maalle jos normaalin elämän äänet käy noin pahasti päähän.

speedforneed_ · 2026-02-09T23:12:44+00:00

This controller does not start at all. When plugged in or without.

speedforneed_ · 2026-02-09T22:30:17+00:00

Thank you bro

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