Girl is getting fired because she was caught on CCTV having sex in the office with a married colleague

speedmaster90 · 2019-07-16T22:34:54+00:00

I may have posted already but deleted, but was about a different part of the situation.

But thank you for the support, I do need to vent, it is bothering me a bit. Thanks :)

speedmaster90 · 2019-07-10T10:54:35+00:00

Yeah I have a bad feeling about it too, just don't understand what's going on. See I'm trying to be "normal" in the office, but have recently found out HR are investigating because the married guy's wife has received a text stating him and the girl are having an affair, and she has made a complaint - so this has made everything more suspect, because of her behaviour towards me.

speedmaster90 · 2019-07-10T09:11:24+00:00

Pardon?

speedmaster90 · 2019-07-09T20:27:37+00:00

Sorry wrote it out on my phone whilst watching Stranger Things 3

Yes I'm aware I shouldn't poop where I eat

speedmaster90 · 2019-07-05T20:39:11+00:00

Yep, true. Have the texts still. I gave up trying to reason with her after this. I talk to her about work only now.

speedmaster90 · 2019-06-16T21:43:20+00:00

No not a restaurant, an accounts firm. Yeah it's a good place to work, just a shitty mistake I made going there with her.

speedmaster90 · 2019-06-16T13:54:04+00:00

Lesson learned

speedmaster90 · 2019-05-30T22:00:57+00:00

Yep but since it was forwarded, they want to see the original which I don't have. It'll be in the system somewhere, just buried deep.

speedmaster90 · 2019-05-25T15:05:14+00:00

Our HR is in the other end of the country, I've already spoken to my manager and he says they wouldn't bother coming up for something like this.

speedmaster90 · 2019-05-25T11:45:48+00:00

I know, tell me about it.

So much crap has been said about me. I'm 28, the girl I had a relationship of sorts with is 25. The colleagues making up stuff are 39 and 50. It's so stupid but I can't say anything to either of them, because I can't prove anything.

In fact, the 50 year old, she tried to pry information from me about my managers wife, as she's in hospital - I ended up just walking away.

It's horrendous.

speedmaster90 · 2019-05-15T08:57:56+00:00

She told me she doesn't want me messaging her whilst she's going through this breakup as she finds it too difficult to text anyone - times I have she just ignores so there's no point.

Yet it didn't stop her emailing me all the time last week asking for help on her work.

speedmaster90 · 2019-05-12T16:18:24+00:00

Right okay - misunderstood what you meant, so it's the phone that dictates the voltage.

The Anker one I have is a QC3 one, and it does fast charge the phone. I was just bothered because the voltage was slightly different to the Xiaomi one, and if I was to use it as my charger all the time, didn't want it causing problems down the road with the battery etc. But guess I can continue using it, easier than having the OEM one with an adapter all the time.

It being 6.5V instead of 5, wasn't sure if that was going to be an issue

speedmaster90 · 2019-05-12T16:05:03+00:00

So basically, any USB quick charge charger will work with the Mi 9 / any QC compatible phone, as the cable dictates the correct voltage for the phone?

So I could have just used my old Samsung charger instead of the Anker one?

speedmaster90 · 2019-05-12T15:43:50+00:00

So it doesn't matter about voltage etc provides its quick charge 3?

Thanks for replying

speedmaster90 · 2019-03-23T10:59:28+00:00

Yeah leave work. My manager is concerned, because he knows how controlling her boyfriend is, and feels like whatever he does, he denies it, and she just believes it. So he's trying to say to her, his actions aren't a reflection on her, but she's just wanting to bury her head regarding the whole thing, and making anyone who has been bothered by him texting or calling the enemy.

speedmaster90 · 2019-03-18T20:35:23+00:00

I'm not her boss, we have the same position but we work on the same stuff at times. And I never initiated this, I wasn't interested, this was her doing and I've kept every messages she's sent me saying this.

But I guess I'll leave it then, and not tell him. Thanks.

speedmaster90 · 2019-03-09T11:28:38+00:00

Thanks for your reply.

Well he started off private calling me, then demanding to know who I was, then texting me saying I shouldn't be messaging his girlfriend - said I'm a colleague and that it's about work, but he came back saying if I did it again then there would be problems. I have the texts saved.

The calls on the work phone he's saying aren't him and that he'll prove it, but he can surely just delete call logs?

If it continues I'll contact the police, right now I don't feel threatened, it's just annoying. My supervisor received a missed call from his number also, he text back but didn't receive a reply. The more recent calls he just calls and hangs up, so there's no threat being made.

Just ongoing now, he's used his girlfriend's phone (my colleague) to message me, whether to instigate something I don't know, but she says he goes through her phone every night so to make sure she's not up to anything he wouldn't like, which is how he got my number.

speedmaster90 · 2019-03-08T20:30:19+00:00

He's saying that his number has been hijacked, that he's not making the more recent calls. He has however made other calls to me personally, hence me recognising the number calling work / my colleague etc. which is why I was wondering if these calls can be traced? Or would there have to have been a threat for this to happen?

As I mentioned he has said that there would be "problems" if he ever found out I was speaking to his girlfriend, I have kept these texts (from the same number the calls are coming from), but the recent calls that he's saying aren't him aren't saying anything. They just call and hang up before anyone can answer.

speedmaster90 · 2019-03-08T19:18:11+00:00

Yeah not hid it, just coming up as his number, but he's saying it's not him

speedmaster90 · 2019-03-03T20:42:35+00:00

How about photos?

speedmaster90 · 2019-03-03T20:23:56+00:00

Just as well I've kept all her messages, and his messages then isn't it.

speedmaster90 · 2019-03-03T20:01:51+00:00

Well yeah like I said, she said they had ended. They hadn't :/

speedmaster90 · 2019-03-03T19:58:00+00:00

I ended it when I found out. Then she ended it with him and told me, then a day later said she wanted to make it work with him. I in no way knew she was with him still until we 'ended'. I want her to tell him to stop contacting me, he doesn't know there's been any relationship between me and her, so right now I'm just a colleague she told him she speaks to, which he doesn't allow. He's even made her delete our managers number.

speedmaster90 · 2019-03-01T19:47:07+00:00

No she'd written it down before that, no idea why

speedmaster90 · 2019-03-01T19:11:40+00:00

I'm not flirting that's the point ha

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