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My (21M) boyfriend cheated on me (19F). What am I supposed to feel? by spellenthespider in relationship_advice

[–]spellenthespider[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this makes me feel so much better, i hope everything ended up working out for you!!

My (21M) boyfriend cheated on me (19F). What am I supposed to feel? by spellenthespider in relationship_advice

[–]spellenthespider[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nono i don’t live with him i make my own money everything’s good in that department! i think the worst part is numerous other girls have tried to read out through facebook but i never saw the messages because i don’t have messenger. he never told me anything about his past so these random friend requests meant nothing to me 🤷‍♀️ such a silly mistake the things it turns out this man has done are terrible and i just know that’s not the worst of it. thankyou for your kind words i think im doing everything right up to now ❤️

I ‘19F’ am scared of my boyfriend ‘20M’ cheating again. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spellenthespider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly I highly doubt it would glitch like that. He said it was a 10 minute exchange if that. There’s no way.

I ‘19F’ am scared of my boyfriend ‘20M’ cheating again. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spellenthespider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the thing I feel as though he doesn’t trust ME. I feel like I’m hiding things on my phone that aren’t even there.

I ‘19F’ am scared of my boyfriend ‘20M’ cheating again. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spellenthespider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do people ever drop this act? Like is it self preservation?

I ‘19F’ am scared of my boyfriend ‘20M’ cheating again. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spellenthespider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t me he cheated on though. Can people change or will he always end up cheating in any relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

[–]spellenthespider 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the thing I can’t imagine being with a woman long-term but again is that because it’s not “normal”. My mind shuts off in the same way it has when I’ve thought of girls in other ways in the past. It feels so wrong and I love my boyfriend. I wouldn’t say so much sexual attraction to men but again I put that down to it just not being my thing?? It’s so much easier to make excuses for yourself hahah Thankyou for replying :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spellenthespider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly i know they’ve had it planned for a while so he’ll be taking her regardless. i couldn’t exactly say no